Preface
Xiao Li Lin got married three times, the first two marriages failed, but her third husband Jing Chao grew old with her. They not only cooperate on the screen, but also in life.
So, what kind of secrets are hidden in the marriage of Jing Chao and Xiao Li Lin, and what kind of magic is it that makes their love withstand the test of time and wind and frost?
Acquaintance: A marriage that blends cooking and acting
Xiao Li Lin met Jingchao when she participated in the Republic of China drama "Beautiful Housewife". At that time, Jingchao was a drama actor and was selected to play the leading role with his excellent acting skills. As an old drama bone, Xiao Li Lin is impressed by the newcomer.
On this day, when they were preparing lunch on the set, Jing Chao suddenly showed amazing cooking skills - it turned out that he was still a master of cooking! Seeing Jing Chao easily move the knife into a dish, Xiao Li Lin was surprised and impressed by him.
She has become Xi to those little fresh meat in the entertainment industry who can only play handsome and sell, but she did not expect this newcomer to have such excellent life skills. I saw him quickly cut all kinds of ingredients and process them into delicious food with full color and flavor.
Coupled with a smile on his face, the whole table is set up warm and beautiful. Xiao Li Lin has not felt such warm care on the set for a long time. The two seemingly unrelated talents of cooking and acting are naturally integrated into this young man.
An excellent man who is an all-rounder, which makes Xiao Li Lin feel good. She exclaimed from the bottom of her heart: "I didn't expect that there was such a talent hidden in our group! How did you manage to balance your acting career and cooking skills?"
Jing Chao scratched his head embarrassedly: "Actually, I majored in food culture in college. Who knew that after graduation, he participated in a drama performance on a whim, and then became an actor...... Cooking has always been my little hobby. It couldn't be better to make you happy!"
Xiao Li Lin was impressed by his modest personality and gentle demeanor. It is rare to meet such a good man who is versatile and so cultured in the entertainment industry, and she secretly decided in her heart that she must take more care of this handsome little guy in the future.
Pursuit: Warm male kung fu of patient listening
Since then, Jing Chao has always patiently listened to everything Xiao Li Lin said when the two were alone. He knows that as a female star, Xiao Li Lin needs a pair of ears that can listen and encourage her.
So, he began to accompany Xiao Li Lin in his spare time. In the face of her emotional ups and downs, he took the trouble to give support. In addition to the busy filming work, Jingchao's care made Xiao Li Lin feel unprecedented comfort.
Xiao Li Lin often confided to Jingchao about her unsatisfactory work. As an old drama bone, she needs to face the competitive pressure from newcomer Xiaohua; As a woman who has been married three times, she often encounters strange eyes around her.
In the face of her dissatisfaction, Jingchao not only gave full understanding, but also carefully analyzed the situation and proposed his own solutions. His sincere suggestions often surprised Xiao Li Lin and made her suddenly.
Jingchao also often shares his own mental journey and encourages Xiao Li Lin to maintain an optimistic and positive attitude. His gentle tone revealed a down-to-earth character. This is completely different from most of the arrogant male stars that Xiao Li Lin knew before, and she was deeply attracted to her.
Take care of it: quit work to accompany the mother-in-law
Xiao Li Lin's mother has health problems and needs to be hospitalized. At that time, Jing Chao was filming a drama and had a busy schedule. But when he learned the news, he did not hesitate to ask for leave to accompany his mother-in-law at home.
This took care of it for half a year. During this period, he took care of the sick elderly, which made Xiao Li Lin and her mother look up to him with admiration. This selfless dedication who is willing to give up his job makes Xiao Li Lin fall in love with him.
As Xiao Li Lin's husband, Jing Chao knows that the health of his mother-in-law directly affects the woman's mood and state. So when he learned that his mother-in-law was seriously ill, he immediately put off his job and accompanied him in the hospital day and night.
At first, the mother-in-law was still a little worried that her son-in-law would affect her career prospects. But seeing his dedication to care, these doubts were dispelled. The mother-in-law sighed sincerely, Xiao Li Lin found such a good man, it is really a creation.
Six months later, under the meticulous care of the mother-in-law, the mother-in-law's condition gradually improved. During this period, the relationship between the two was as harmonious as if they were their own mother and son. When parting, the mother-in-law held Jingchao's hand tightly to express her gratitude, and with tears in her eyes, she blessed them to grow old together.
Dedication: The highest proof of selfless dedication
In order to make up for the family's expenses, Xiao Li Lin had to sell some personal belongings. Jing Chao saw it in his eyes and felt sorry for his wife's dedication. But he understands that his wife is doing it for the sake of her family. Jing Chao reflected that he was too involved in work and neglected his family.
Since then, he has taken the initiative to slow down his work pace and spend more time taking care of his family. He began to learn more household chores and take care of his daily Xi. Such a change made Xiao Li Lin feel his dedication to this family.
Xiao Li Lin has always supported her husband's acting career, but the income of the two is still stretched. In order to fill the family, Xiao Li Lin began to choose to sell some of her jewelry to solve her urgent needs.
Jing Chao saw it in his eyes and felt distressed for his wife's dedication. He understands that his wife is doing this all for the sake of the family, and he can no longer just care about his career and ignore everything that happens to the family.
From then on, he began to take the initiative to accompany his family and share his wife's housework. He divides his time between his career and family more reasonably, ensuring that he no longer neglects his wife and children. Seeing the change in her husband, Xiao Li Lin's eyes also reddened.
Facing each other's bits and pieces together
Married life is not always smooth sailing, but Jingchao and Xiao Li Lin can always encourage each other and face problems together. In the face of economic setbacks, the two fought side by side.
In order to reduce Xiao Li Lin's burden, Jing Chao took the initiative to put down his work and take on the task of taking care of the child. In his opinion, the most important thing is that his wife can devote herself to her career.
Although Jing Chao and Xiao Li Lin's careers seem to be smooth sailing, their lives are still full of twists and turns. Especially after the birth of the child, the financial pressure increased greatly, and he was on the verge of bankruptcy several times. In the most difficult days, the couple held back their efforts to earn money to support their family.
In order not to affect Xiao Li Lin's acting career, Jingchao took the initiative to take care of the child. Every day, he is busy before and after, taking care of the children's daily life and food, and at the same time taking time to learn various household Xi, and strive to become a qualified all-round househusband.
Xiao Li Lin saw it in her eyes and was grateful for her husband's intentions. She knew that without Jingchao's strong support, she would not be able to devote herself to her acting career at all. It was the two who supported each other that they got through those difficult days.
Fulfillment: The true meaning of a happy life
Today, the lives of Jing Chao and Xiao Li Lin have entered a good situation. But true happiness is not in glory and wealth, but in the bits and pieces of daily life.
Perhaps, as "Housework Honors Student" demonstrates, happiness comes from understanding, tolerance and sharing between both parties. The first encounter inspired them to cherish the person in front of them, and now they have become more and more determined to protect this relationship in the long-term relationship.
So far, more than ten years have passed since the married life of Jing Chao and Xiao Li Lin. Although they also went through ups and downs, they were happy in the end. The bits and pieces of these years are enough to prove that sticking to sincerity is the cornerstone of a successful marriage.
Now they have long forgotten the ups and downs of the beginning, and are more focused on the life in front of them. Perhaps this is the true meaning of a happy life - not in the pursuit of vain glory and wealth, but in how to spend the rest of your life hand in hand with the people you love.
epilogue
Jing Chao and Xiao Li Lin used their own stories to explain what a real happy marriage is. In this materialistic world, they have gone through the wind, frost, rain and snow of marriage, but they can still help each other and create brilliance together.
Perhaps it is the persistence of the two hearts that allows them to bloom with very different true feelings in the highly competitive field of the entertainment industry. In fact, sticking to sincerity is the cornerstone of a successful marriage.
This seems unpretentious, but it contains the magic of making marriage a long-lasting delicacy. Jing Chao and Xiao Li Lin are the best proof - they use their own stories to explain what true happiness is.