Zhao Na and Zhu Yanping's marriage: from sweetness to breakdown
On a sunny spring day in 1983, the marriage registry in Beijing welcomed a couple - Zhao Na and Zhu Yanping. With happy smiles in their eyebrows, they hugged each other shyly in front of the camera.
Friends coaxed, saying that they were destined to be a match made in heaven, and they would definitely grow old in the future.
That's right, in the four or five years before this, Zhao Na and Zhu Yanping were like all lovers who were in love, and they were very affectionate. In 1979, the two met during the filming of the movie "Death of the Marshal", Zhao Na was beautiful and moving, Zhu Yanping was heroic, they fell in love at first sight, and they were often tired of being together on the set, which made others envious.
In her spare time, Zhu Yanping took care of Zhao Na's life meticulously, making her feel happy and at ease.
However, the good times did not last long, and after marriage, due to work reasons, the two got together less and left more. Zhao Na often takes her young son alone and travels between the sets in other places, while Zhu Yanping is also busy with filming tasks in various places.
Gradually, disagreements of ideas occurred from time to time, and small quarrels became frequent. Gone are the days of sweetness and sweetness, replaced by coldness and rawness.
In 1989, when her son was 5 years old, Zhao Na filed for divorce with red eyes. She wandered in front of the courthouse with her child in her arms, her face full of reluctance and pain. And Zhu Yanping signed the divorce agreement expressionlessly.
The 10-year marriage ended hastily, and they began their new lives.
The breakdown of her marriage made Zhao Na feel lost and confused. She hugged her son tightly, tears rolling down her face.
It is not easy for Zhao Na to start a business and raise children in Qingdao after the divorce
After the divorce, Zhao Na returned to her hometown Qingdao with her 5-year-old son. It's where she grew up, and the familiar streets and neighborhoods give her a sense of reassurance. However, from a well-known movie star to an ordinary person, Zhao Na was a little overwhelmed for a while.
She went to TV stations and film companies to look for work, but hit a wall again and again. Those who once flattered her saw that she was in decline, and they all avoided her.
So she decided to start her own business. Initially, Zhao Na promoted beer. She took samples around during the day to try her luck, and at night she returned to her rented small room, reciting professional vocabulary while eating a cold meal, for fear that she would show her timidity in front of customers.
But the waves of the business sea are high and the waves are fast, and the inexperienced Zhao Na has been deceived and used repeatedly. She felt like a boat on the sea, ready to be crushed at any moment.
However, whenever she saw her son's innocent smiling face and washed it with his own hands, Zhao Na's heart rekindled hope.
Gradually, with her own perseverance, Zhao Na became a successful beer salesman. Today, she is already a leader in this industry, with a considerable income and a safe life.
However, the trauma of the two marriages has not yet fully healed. In 2004, Zhao Na and Du Zhiguo divorced again shortly after remarrying, and she became a divorced woman again.
I wish Yanping a successful career, but the relationship between father and son is estranged
If Zhao Na experienced a low point in her life after the divorce, then Zhu Yanping's fate is completely different.
The divorce did not hit him as hard as he imagined, and soon Zhu Yanping returned to work. He took on one blockbuster after another, and his career reached new peaks.
In the crew, everyone affectionately called him "Brother Yanping", and even an actress secretly sent Qiu Bo to attract the attention of the famous actor. In 2000, Zhu Yanping remarried and soon had a second child.
However, the relationship between him and Zhao Na's son is becoming increasingly indifferent. The youngest son did not return to Qingdao with his mother, but lived with his grandmother in Beijing. But Zhu Yanping was busy with work and rarely found time to get along with him.
Gradually, in the son's memory, the figure of the father has become blurred.
Until one day, the young man's son suddenly appeared at the door of Zhu Yanping's house. "Dad, I'm your son, remember me?" The boy asked with red eyes.
For a moment, Zhu Yanping's heart was full of thoughts. He looked at his adult son in front of him, and his heart was excited. So, he hugged the boy heavily, tears welling up in his eyes.
From that day on, Zhu Yanping put down his work and spent time with his son regularly. He took his son fishing, taught him to drive, and groomed him into a handsome young man. Seeing his son gradually become cheerful and confident, Zhu Yanping hooked the corners of his mouth, feeling unprecedented relief and satisfaction.
He is determined to make up for the regrets of these years and become a competent father.
The son grew up to be Zhao Na's strong backing
Witnessing his parents' divorce has caused great harm to him as a child. Introverted and easily timid, he is always afraid to be close to other children. Zhao Na looked at her son distressedly, carefully enlightened him, and taught him not to be afraid of other people's eyes.
Gradually, under the care of his mother, the son became more and more optimistic, worked hard to learn Xi, and lived an active life. He became a small pacesetter in the class, which made Zhao Na sincerely feel gratified.
When he became an adult, his son was admitted to university and went to study in Australia. Whenever he goes home during the winter and summer vacations, he always takes care of Zhao Na, who can't take care of herself, and does his duty as a son.
Looking at her son's handsome and upright figure, Zhao Na sighed that time had flown by, and her son had grown up and become the most reliable backing in her life.
In 2018, her son got married and had children, and Zhao Na regained the joy of being a grandmother. She gently picked up her granddaughter and looked at her pink little face, her heart was full of happiness. Now Zhao Na lives a stable and peaceful life, and her only small wish is to return to the screen to fulfill her acting dream.
When she saw that her fans were still thinking about and supporting her, she felt a sense of strength in her heart – she would cheer for herself, knowing that her family would always support her.
The revelation of the story
Zhao Na and Zhu Yanping's life experience is moving, like many ordinary people, they were immersed in the beauty of love, and they chose to separate under the blow of reality.
However, they did not give up hope in life, and continued to move forward, finding solace in their careers and families.
Especially Zhao Na, she faced many difficulties, was not afraid of hardships, and worked hard to give her son a stable life. The spirit of being a mother without regrets impresses everyone.
Her son has also grown up to be her strong backing, and the two generations are full of warmth and affection.
Life will inevitably encounter unsatisfactory results, but we should not be defeated, but continue to move forward like Zhao Na. There may be obstacles to overcome along the way, but when we look back, we will find that those difficulties are the ladder that makes us stronger.
We don't have to envy fame and fortune, we don't have to be flawless, just live our years meaningfully, just like Zhao Na and Zhu Yanping, living vigorously.
No matter what the road ahead, our families are our strongest support. Thanks to their mutual support, there are no ups and downs in life that cannot be crossed. Let us be like Zhao Na, cherish the people in front of us, and live the true meaning and value of life.
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