Sha Yi's arduous entrepreneurial journey
In the spring of 1978, Sha Yi was born in an ordinary family in Changchun City, Jilin Province. Both parents are actors in the local theater and have a poor life. Sha Yi has been interested in art since he was a child, and his parents trained him to play the saxophone, a less popular instrument.
At the age of 19, Sha Yi was admitted to the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts through hard work and began to formally accept acting professional Xi. After graduation, he was assigned to the Air Politics Art Troupe and became a literary soldier who stepped into the entertainment industry.
In order to gain a foothold in Beijing, Sha Yi and his classmates shared a simple two-bedroom apartment, one for each of them.
Those days were too difficult, Sha Yi stayed in a small room of a few square meters all day, the income of the art troupe was meager, and he had to live an extremely frugal life. In order to save money, Sha Yi would rather go hungry than go out to spend.
Such days made him lose his body, had a serious illness, and infected his mother, who came from home to take care of him.
Even though life is so hard, Sha Yi's heart has never wavered. He always admonished himself to be patient, as long as he kept this circle and persevered, he would succeed one day.
In order to realize his dream as an artist, Sha Yi willingly endured these hardships, which is the source of his motivation to become an excellent actor.
Fate is destined for marriage
In 2005, the TV series "Wulin Gaiden" starring Sha Yi was widely acclaimed, and he became famous. In the same year, an entertainment channel wanted to conduct an exclusive interview with Sha Yi, so it sent the host Hu Ke to go.
Hu Ke saw the handsome photo of Sha Yi playing the saxophone when he was young, and he was full of good feelings for this little student. When they actually met, although Sha Yi was not as young as he was back then, he still had a particularly friendly temperament.
"You have a lot of characteristics for playing wind instruments, how did this spark your interest?" During the interview, Hu Ke threw out a question. Sha Yi suddenly came to his senses, and talked endlessly about his journey of learning art, and Hu Ke also listened to it with relish.
In this way, two people with compatible personalities met unexpectedly at work and planted the seeds of marriage.
Four years later, Sha Yi and Hu Ke met again during the filming of the TV series "Breaking". Unexpectedly, a low-key relationship quietly unfolded. Perhaps, this is the marriage destined by heaven, it is like a friend at first sight, without reservation.
In 2011, they finally entered the palace of marriage. When Sha Yi held Hu Ke's hand and said, "I do", his face was filled with a happy smile. At this moment, the fruit of love that he had been waiting for for so long finally bore fruit.
The bits and pieces of living with my mother-in-law for four years
In 2011, Sha Yi and Hu Ke tied the knot. Due to the fact that the careers of the two have not yet stabilized, coupled with the high housing prices in Beijing, the newly married couple is facing certain economic pressure.
For this reason, Hu Ke's mother offered to let the young man live with her for a few years, and then find another way out when he Xi got used to it in the future.
Sha Yi was worried that her mother-in-law would dislike her poor conditions, but she didn't expect her to kindly take the two to her home. In July of that year, the eldest son Anji was born, and the family of three, which should have been jubilant, faced the problem of a house.
Fortunately, the mother-in-law was very reasonable, not only did she not complain about Sha Yi, but treated him as her own son.
In the past few years of living together, my mother-in-law has taken care of her eldest son meticulously and shared a lot of parenting pressure; Sha Yi worked diligently and saved money to support his family; Hu Ke also tried his best to play the role of a good mother in addition to presiding over work.
The family of three had a good time. Although the living space is not large, the feelings are getting deeper and deeper.
Once, Sha Yi came back from a movie shoot out of town with a duffel bag stuffed with dirty clothes. He is usually not good at housework, so he took the initiative to go to the kitchen and tried to cook a few dishes for his wife, children and mother-in-law.
Although the craftsmanship is clumsy, Hu Ke and his mother-in-law are full of love. Sha Yi also gradually realized that he was no longer a bachelor, but had to do more responsibilities for this family.
Sha Yi's dedication to his family
In 2014, the youngest son was born first, but Sha Yi could not accompany him because of work. He hurried back the day after giving birth, but had to leave again soon and return to work on the crew.
Before leaving, the weak Hu Ke tried his best to prop up his body, sent Sha Yi downstairs, and hugged him and comforted: "You can go with confidence, we are fine."
At this moment, sand overflowed tears like rain. For the first time, he realized so deeply that it turned out that men would also cry for their families. After going out, he cried bitterly all the way, full of self-blame and reluctance.
As a father, he was unable to accompany his wife through the difficult moments of childbirth, which was his obligation and his regret.
After returning home after the play, Sha Yi took good care of Hu Ke and the two children and fulfilled his responsibilities. Never in the kitchen, he began to study the recipes and cook the meals himself. On weekdays, he also took the initiative to take on more childcare and household chores.
From time to time, he would eat his son's vinegar for no reason, sprinkling coquettishness, which made Hu Ke love and laugh.
Sha Yi is a typical optimist, who never cares about the small frictions in life with his wife. Even if Hu Ke had some complaints about his dress, he never refuted it, but just carefully wrote it down and corrected his shortcomings.
Sha Yi knows that instead of worrying about inconsequential trivial matters, it is better to give her lover more care and make her feel safe. This is Sha Yi's intentions and rewards to his family.
If you have a successful career, you will repay your mother-in-law as soon as possible
In my memory, the 80-square-meter house was Sha Yi's original home after marriage. The mother-in-law quietly accepted this son-in-law who was the right person, and regarded him as her own son.
Despite the constraints of life, this sincere friendship with him like family will never be forgotten by Sha Yi.
Now that his career has improved, and the first pot of gold has finally been saved, Sha Yi bought his own property and moved out of his mother-in-law's house. Soon after, he spent nearly 40 million yuan to buy a high-end apartment for his mother-in-law.
"This is my mother's home. Sha Yi said solemnly to his mother-in-law.
In fact, as early as the birth of his eldest son, Sha Yi did not forget the kindness of the year. After the delivery, everyone cheered around the lovely newborn, but Sha Yi was the first to think of his wife who was still lying on the delivery bed.
He held Hu Ke's hand and said softly, "Thank you for your hard work." When my mother-in-law saw it, she was also deeply moved.
In a blink of an eye, ten years have passed in a hurry, and the former newlyweds have become a family. In Sha Yi, her mother-in-law saw the demeanor of a successful man, and also saw the young man who was filial and considerate to his family.
People go to tea and cool, and the most precious thing in the world is old friendship. Sha Yi was not carried away by fame and fortune, and repaid the favor as soon as possible, which is really rare.
epilogue
At this point in the story, we can't help but think - what is true love?
Love is not the passionate ecstasy of love at first sight, nor is it all kinds of contradictions and quarrels. It is a long-term affection, you are considerate of me, I understand you, support each other in life, and advance and retreat together.
Sha Yi and Hu Ke let us witness such sincere love.
Do you still remember the little story of the "marriage certificate" that Sha Yi once told Hu Ke? He solemnly asked his mother to collect the marriage certificate, for fear that the young couple would impulsively quarrel and divorce.
The careful thinking at this moment is extremely scary, which is enough to see how seriously he values this relationship. Ten years have passed, Sha Yi has not only not forgotten the original entrustment, but his relationship with Hu Ke has become deeper and deeper, and he has fulfilled his responsibilities in life.
Popular stars are not unfathomable, the key lies in the hard-won sincerity. Sha Yi has never been carried away by fame and fortune, he has always remembered his roots, remembered the kindness when he lived with his mother-in-law, and repaid her for her parenting virtue.
This spirit of not forgetting one's roots is also worth learning Xi from future generations.
Life is inevitably difficult, but as long as you don't regret it, you don't need to give up. Believe in the power of love and kindness, and everything will fall into place. This is also Sha Yi's revelation to us.
I hope that a lover will eventually become a family, and there is true love in the world.