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Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have to find a way to overcome this problem, as long as they are willing to get along well, it is definitely possible, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are relatives, not enemies, don't always envy other people's mother-in-law, don't always feel that other people's daughter-in-law is sensible, in fact, every daughter-in-law is sensible, all want to live a good life, every mother-in-law is from the daughter-in-law, and they all understand that it is not easy to be a daughter-in-law.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should report to each other for warmth, unanimously resist gossip and gossip, protect the big family, small family, love and protect their relatives, don't let outsiders affect the family relationship, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, always understand that you are a family, only if your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a harmonious relationship, outsiders will be envious, and others will not dare to gossip, let alone blindly command, sow discord.
Between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, do 8 things well, the relationship is getting better and better, and the days are getting better and better
It is said that husband and wife work together, and their profits are broken, but the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have one heart, and the day is the same, the better, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are both women, as the old saying goes: "Marry a good woman Wang three generations," this Wang is not necessarily a prosperous husband, Wang lintel, more rich, but it must be a stable life, no worries and sorrows, and how much money has nothing to do with it, since they are good women, they must have their own understanding of life, and will not only respect money.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have one heart, mother-in-law takes good care of the big family, daughter-in-law takes good care of the small family, and the heart is in one place, and the days will definitely get better and better.
It doesn't matter if it's a neighbor, a relative or a friend, as long as someone says that your mother-in-law and your daughter-in-law don't all have to show their attitude, clearly tell each other, my daughter-in-law, my mother-in-law is very good to me, she is very kind and diligent, even if there are a million unwilling in your heart, don't let outsiders see jokes, don't let outsiders uncover your scars, step on your pain to see jokes.
It is not only a temporary pleasure to follow outsiders to say that their own family members, but in fact, they are also very scared when they talk too much, worrying that one day they will be known by their families, and they will tell secrets that should not be said, and the only people who really care about you are family members, and outsiders want to see jokes.
Although the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is close, they also have to maintain some sense of distance, living together, eating flowers can be too clear, as long as the big things are clear, but on these things, no matter how much money the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law spend on each other, how many things they buy for themselves don't care too much about the other party's money, although the money may be earned by one person.
I feel sorry for him and at the same time, I have to understand the other party's mind, she is not spending money indiscriminately, she will not live, but she will add some color to her life and improve her food, there is nothing wrong with it.
The mother-in-law must respect the daughter-in-law's mother's family, regardless of whether they are poor or rich, living in the city or the countryside, and the same is true for the daughter-in-law.
The day she got married, the role of a woman changed a little, and she was no longer the carefree little princess who was pampered by her parents before, and there were more responsibilities waiting for you ahead.
Whether it is a high marriage or a low marriage, the marriage has been promoted, and the days must always develop in a good place, as long as there is sunshine in the heart, I believe that hope will be achieved.
If there is a problem, solve it in time, sit down and talk, don't hold back, stuffy, and feel very wronged afterwards, the other party doesn't understand you. If you don't think about yourself, you have to think about it for the child's father, it's really uncomfortable to let him squeeze in the middle, on one side is a mother, on the other side is a daughter-in-law, no one can do it, and everyone is at fault, and it will not be understood.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law also have to talk about their hearts occasionally like husband and wife, understand each other's thoughts, and reflect on themselves whether they have gone too far.
Don't take advantage of the other party's absence, the mother-in-law went to look through the daughter-in-law's clothes, shoes, bags, and bought bought, it is useless to look unpleasant, at least respect is to have, the daughter-in-law is not at home, did not agree, the mother-in-law just can't go through her cabinet without permission, even if it is cleaning, you can't deliberately look through it.
The daughter-in-law is the same, don't point fingers at the place where the mother-in-law lives, this is not right, that is not good, everyone will be angry when this thing is changed, when questioning others, look at yourself first, whether you are doing it right, and what results will it bring to yourself.
It is said that two generations should live separately, it is indeed the case, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law want to maintain a good relationship, not only must they have tolerance and understanding, but the most important thing is that they cannot live together for a long time, and there is no problem in living together for a period of time occasionally, if they are separated, there will be no contradictions, as long as they do not deliberately remember, there will be no contradictions, or they can persist until the end, there are not many contradictions in living together for decades, because they are tired of each other, and they don't want to deal with it, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are really integrated!
Both of them want to live a good life, they both hope that each other is good, they both hope that this big family and small family are good, and there will be no contradictions in such a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, even if there is, it is a small problem, because the hearts of the two are together, they both want to live a good life, and they will naturally have scruples and will not have any bad thoughts about each other.
The mother-in-law looks forward to the daughter-in-law's goodness, the daughter-in-law will be very happy, the daughter-in-law looks forward to the mother-in-law's good, the mother-in-law will be even happier, and as soon as these two people are happy, they will say to outsiders that in the eyes of outsiders, such a harmonious family and a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are worthy of envy.
Only when there is laughter and laughter in this family every day, the people in the family will be prosperous, whether it is prosperous or prosperous, all of them must be happy and energetic, full of energy, sunshine in the heart, good family atmosphere, harmony, interpersonal relationships and smooth interpersonal relationships, so that people can slowly get together, otherwise everything will be in vain.
Write at the end:
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is easy to get along with, as long as the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are of one mind, consistent with each other, understand each other, say more about each other's good, and then maintain a small sense of boundary, and think more about the person who knows each other, there will be no contradictions.
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