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My name is Li Ming, I am 28 years old, an ordinary office worker. My cousin Li Na is 3 years older than me and is a very beautiful girl. She has a lazy personality and is not very stable at work, so she often comes to me for ideas. I have been more mature and stable since I was a child, and she has always relied on me.
Last Friday, I was working overtime at the company when I suddenly received a call from my cousin: "Li Ming, help me! I'm going to buy a house!"
I was surprised and said, "Buying a house?"
The cousin quickly explained: "Yes, Xiao Wang and I are engaged, and we decided to buy a suite to get married. But my down payment is not enough, and I am still 500,000 short, so I want to borrow some money from you. Just help me, cousin!"
I was silent for a few seconds, then said firmly, "No, I can't help you with this." The down payment for buying a house has to be settled by yourself, you don't expect me. ”
My cousin said anxiously: "Li Ming, you can help me with this, I promise to pay you back after I get married." I really need this money now, just lend it to me, and I'll double it back when the time comes!"
I was still very resolute: "No, you can figure it out yourself." I don't have a lot of money here, so I can't lend you that much money. Buying a house is your own business, and it has nothing to do with me. ”
I interrupted her and said, "Okay cousin, my position is very clear, if I don't lend you money, I won't borrow! Don't look for me about this, I'm busy, hang up!" Then he hung up decisively.
My cousin wanted to say something, I had already pinched the phone. I know my cousin's temperament, once she speaks, she can cry and make trouble, and she will pester me to lend her money if she says anything. In order to avoid this, I can only take decisive measures first and reject her outright.
I still know my cousin very well, she has been very lazy since she was a child, her grades are poor, and she can't find a good job. I've talked to several boyfriends, but they all ended in breakups. I heard that her new boyfriend is a white-collar worker in a small company and feels unstable. My cousin has also passed it herself
I said resolutely: "Cousin, my position will not change, if I don't lend you money, I won't borrow!" I am also very difficult, but I really can't help you. ”
"Li Ming, do you treat me as a relative or not, when I need help so much, do you just look at me like this?" My cousin began to cry.
I sighed: "Cousin, of course I treat you as a relative, but this is not the same as borrowing money. I have my problems, and you have to respect my choices. It's up to you to figure out how to buy a house. ”
I was a little annoyed: "Cousin, don't say it again, my decision will not change." That's the end of this matter, I still have a job, so I won't be with you. ”
I simply pressed the phone and stopped giving her a chance to speak. I couldn't be clearer about my cousin's strong emotional way of speaking, once she leads her by the nose, she will only fall deeper and deeper.
After that, my cousin sent several messages begging me, and even called my company to find me, but my colleagues blocked me.
I've been very irritable these days, and my productivity has dropped dramatically. I thought that showing my attitude would solve the problem, but I didn't expect my cousin to be stalking and fighting was simply overwhelming.
I was shocked, and immediately realized that my cousin was probably fooled by Xiao Wang when he bought a house this time! In order to protect my cousin immediately, I resolutely decided to expose Xiao Wang's true face to face and let my cousin wake up.
On Saturday at noon, I asked my cousin to meet at the café.
"Cousin, I came out of you this time to tell you a piece of news. I said with a serious look on my face.
My cousin was surprised and asked, "What's the news?"
I took a deep breath and said solemnly: "Cousin, without further ado, I have to tell you that your boyfriend Xiao Wang, he seems to have other women outside!"
The cousin's eyes widened and she was stunned: "You, what are you talking about? Xiao Wang is having an affair? What are you kidding!"
I nodded and said, "It's not a joke, I heard your good friend Xiao Wu say that she happened to see Xiao Wang taking another woman in and out of the hotel, very ambiguous." As soon as I heard the news, I immediately decided to tell you that you have to face this problem squarely!"
My cousin's face was pale and she couldn't speak for a long time.
I continued, "Cousin, calm down. The reason why I don't agree to lend you money is also out of your protection. I have been unhappy with Xiao Wang for a long time, and as soon as I heard that you were going to buy a house with him, I sensitively realized that something was wrong. Now it seems that my hunch is right, you have to face it!"
I patted her on the shoulder: "Cousin, don't make a fool of yourself. I'm sad too, but the truth is right in front of you and you have to face it. The reason why I chose to tell you the truth is that I don't want to see you deceived and hurt. ”
I nodded, also a little excited: "Cousin, don't worry, with me, I will never let you be deceived." We are family and we have to take care of each other!"
Our sister and brother hugged and cried, and the scene was very touching. At this moment, I could feel that our relationship had grown by leaps and bounds and had become closer than ever. My cousin finally realized that I had been taking care of and protecting her.
After that, my cousin decisively broke up with Xiao Wang and canceled the plan to buy a house. I encouraged her to work hard and save enough money to buy a house. My cousin was very grateful for my support and said that all major matters would be discussed with me first.
Another unwinding bonus of this incident is that I learned to stand up for my principles and protect my family.
I used to be weak and easily influenced by others to change my mind. This time, I was unusually firm in the face of my cousin's plea, because I realized that it was a matter of righteousness. This incident has strengthened my concentration and responsibility, and has allowed me to grow into a more reliable person.
My cousin also learned from this incident and stopped believing her boyfriend's rhetoric.
One day, my cousin came to my house and we talked about it.
"Li Ming, I still want to say sorry to you, I shouldn't have asked you to lend me money at that time. My cousin said with some embarrassment.
My cousin nodded: "Yes, thanks to you for telling me the truth immediately, I just woke up." Otherwise, I will really be miserable by Xiao Wang's liar. ”
"He's really hateful, he's still messing around outside when you're engaged. Cousin, you also have to learn a lesson from this incident, be cautious when you fall in love in the future, and don't easily believe men's rhetoric. I said seriously.
I smiled and said, "Very well, you have to believe in the brotherhood that blood is thicker than water." We'll have each other's back. If you encounter any difficulties in the future, just come to me!"
"Hmm!" The cousin nodded happily, "With a brother like you, I feel that I can overcome any difficulties." In the future, I will work hard, save enough money to buy a house, and never ask for help easily. ”
I patted her on the shoulder encouragingly, "Cousin, you can definitely do it." I will give you my full support!"
Since then, my cousin and I have never been closer. We meet regularly to talk to each other about the difficulties in life and work. My cousin always consults me first on any major decision, and I also give her brotherly advice and support.
One day, my cousin excitedly said to me: "Li Ming, I recently got a salary increase in the company, and I was promoted to become a supervisor, I think it's time to buy a house!"
I smiled and said, "So fast, cousin, are you sure?"
My cousin listened very carefully and kept nodding: "Well, I remember everything, and I will definitely pay attention." In the future, when you look at the house, you should also take the time to accompany me to see it and help me judge and judge. ”
I said, "Okay cousin, don't worry, I will accompany you all the way this time, and I will never let you be deceived again!"
My cousin said happily: "With such a brother as you, I feel fearless! I will work hard and strive to use my own strength to buy a house and live up to your expectations of me." ”
I smiled and said, "Cousin, you have become very mature, and I am very relieved. Come on, I'll help you if you need anything. ”
In this way, with my support and encouragement, my cousin finally got her wish and became a homeowner. I'm also glad to see my cousin succeed in buying a house on her own. This is a very important upbringing experience for both of us.
This incident made me truly feel that the brotherhood of blood thicker than water can overcome any difficulty. The relationship between my cousin and me has also been sublimated to an unprecedented height in this house-buying incident.
After my cousin successfully bought a house, the relationship between my sister and brother became closer. She would often ask me to visit her new home, and we would talk about the future over tea and chat.
One day, I went to my cousin's newly bought house. My cousin said excitedly: "Li Ming, I now have a house and a car, and I feel that I have finally started a family." These are all earned by their own efforts, and they will work harder in the future to make life better and better!"
I smiled and said, "Cousin, I'm so happy for you." I'm glad you can buy a house on your own. This proves that you are very mature and independent. ”
My cousin said happily, "I have been able to grow up to this point, and you have a lot of credit." If it weren't for your decisive rejection of me, I don't know how long I would have been cheated by Xiao Wang's liar. And what you told me the truth later and brought me to my senses, I will never forget it in my life!"
I waved my hand and said, "Cousin, this is what I should do." Don't be discouraged because of a failure, and always keep a positive attitude. Believe that your life will get better and better. ”
My cousin said movingly: "Li Ming, meeting such a younger brother as you is the luckiest thing in my life. No matter what difficulties I encounter in the future, I will always think of you first, because with you, I have nothing to fear. ”
I was also a little excited: "Cousin, we are family, we should support each other. Your business is my business. No matter what happens in the future, we will face each other and get through it together. ”
My cousin nodded and hugged me hard.
This incident made me truly appreciate the infinite power of brotherhood. My cousin and I have been through so many ups and downs, and now our relationship is unbreakable. No matter what difficulties she encounters in the future, I will do my best to help her and always be her strongest backing.
I also feel that this is an important lesson for our siblings. By supporting each other, we become more mature and independent. I will always take this experience as a lesson and strengthen my belief in life.