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With the progress of society, there is only one child in every family. Everyone put all their energy on the lone seedling at home, for fear that their children would fall behind in learning and Xi.
The nephew's family conditions are less than the upper and more than the lower in the current society.
He went to a private elementary school.
Although he went to elementary school at the same time as my child since he was a child, because their private school is strict, he always spends weekends and winter and summer vacations in various Xi make-up classes.
His mother had high expectations for him and set a goal in life early! She hoped that he would be admitted to a military academy in the future! Therefore, he grew up in a high-pressure environment since he was a child.
New Year's Day is a holiday, and I think it's been a long time since I've gotten together for dinner. I asked my brother-in-law and father-in-law to come to the house for dinner.
The two brothers, who were only seven months apart, played games together on the couch, telling jokes that they could only understand, and were so happy that they didn't even bother to eat.
All the dishes were served on the table, and I shouted loudly, "Kids, eat!"
The two little ghosts were attracted by the games on their respective mobile phones, and they stuck to the sofa for a while, and they couldn't hear the adults talking at all.
I put their phones away, pretended to be serious, and said, "I can't play games, it's time to eat! I've eaten! Go downstairs and play!"
Then the two children were invited to the table.
The absent-minded nephew casually pulled two mouthfuls of food and planned to watch TV.
The little uncle tugged at his ear and said, "You give me a good meal! Don't be half-hearted for a day, you can't feel at ease when you eat!"
Eating inevitably talks about children's Xi, and the uncle said that he will send his children to the reading class to learn Xi later. I was a little surprised, because during the summer vacation, they had already signed up for classes in advance to study and Xi, how could they still sign up for reading classes?
The little uncle said helplessly: "We have to take three subjects on the weekend to make up Xi classes, Chinese, mathematics, and English. ”
I felt a little sorry for the child: "Oh! He's working so hard!"
The child sitting on the sofa had his eyes squinting unconsciously, his facial features twitching a little, and his mouth pouting from time to time. In that way, it doesn't look like a normal child's expression. I asked my brother-in-law, "Why is the child's facial features twitching like this, and his eyes are blinking at a high frequency, could it be that he is sick?"
The brother-in-law looked at his child and said, "It seems that it only started this year." ”
I said firmly: "When he came to my house last year, he started to squint his eyes and watch TV, and as I told his mother, this time it was obviously worse than last year. ”
"Oh, last year, I saw it last year, and it was conjunctivitis. The little uncle said.
Since the child's father thinks that his child is normal, there is no need for me to dwell on it.
However, looking at the child's twitching facial expressions and high-frequency squinting movements, I also feel pity for the child.
This nephew has been well-behaved and sensible since he was a child.
Since kindergarten, he has had more cram Xi classes than my son, and at that time it was mainly based on puzzles and interests.
His mother reported to him: host, drawing, English, basketball...
Anyway, quite a lot.
When the child was young, he worked overtime in various training classes every day.
Now, when you enter primary school, you may add a make-up class because Xi of an unsatisfactory test result!
All winter and summer vacations have early course Xi. Entering the official opening of the school, there are synchronous tutorial classes.
In this way, the child's academic Xi performance is still very average.
His mother had high hopes for him, hoping that he would be admitted to a military school or a 985 academy in the future.
I see that the child is working so hard, and I really sweat for him.
Perhaps, the starting point is good. However, the extremes of things must be reversed. I have already learned Xi in advance during the holidays, and the teachers at school also teach, and there is synchronization during the week. That's equivalent to teaching the same course three times! A child still has a sense of freshness in the face of a course that has already been taught three times? Can you still be interested? Are parents a little too anxious?
Nine-year-olds are still in childhood. His mother can be said to give her child all out for her future ideals and goals. It's just that reading a book is never a matter of one breath! It's a long marathon! In elementary school, the means and time have been exhausted. I don't know how he was able to complete more than twice as much subject assignments and Xi in 24 hours when he was in middle school. How can you cope with the massive amount of memorization and reading?
Why don't you accept the ordinariness of your own children? Can your children demand that their parents must be the richest man in the world?
Many children, after going through the cruel three years of junior high school and the inhumane three years of high school, have exhausted all their efforts! They can't even wait for the college notice, can't wait for the college entrance examination, and suffer from depression! Because they are so tired! Children have endless homework and exams, and their parents still want them to compete for the top! Many times, I sympathize with the current students, I feel that they live for the exams, for the grades, and their hearts are empty! There is no sense of happiness at all! Therefore, they are willing to use death to liberate their bodies!
Therefore, I have always been only moderate in my own regard for my children. Once children come to the world, they should see more beauty and feel more happiness! Not just a high-load Xi machine!