Ni Ping was born into an unhappy family in rural Shandong, and her parents divorced when she was very young, which can be very harmful to a child's growth. The divorce of her parents made Ni Ping lose the company of her father and a complete home.
What made her even more painful was that after her divorce, her mother devoted herself to her career, rarely went home to see her, and almost lost her mother's care.
Without her parents by her side, Ni Ping can only rely on her elderly grandmother for her life. Growing up in this environment, Ni Ping, who lacked the love of her family, became extremely introverted and sensitive, and her longing for love was difficult to satisfy.
This upbringing nurtured her fragile and sensitive personality.
The divorce of parents is the biggest stumbling block on the road to a child's growth. Statistics show that the depression index of children of divorced families in China is much higher than that of ordinary families, and many people will have psychological trauma.
Ni Ping is no exception, she is obviously greatly affected by this family injury, and her need to be valued and loved since childhood has not been met, which has affected her future views on feelings and marriage.
Grandma is the most important person who accompanies Ni Ping's growth. As an ordinary rural woman, Grandma did not have superb parenting methods, but she did her best to care for and enlighten Ni Ping.
It can be said that she gave Ni Ping the greatest care and encouragement on the road to growth.
With the encouragement and support of her grandmother, Ni Ping was admitted to Shandong Art Institute and began her own performance path. It was a completely new field, full of unknowns and hopes for her.
During her time at the college, Ni Ping diligently learned Xi acting knowledge and played a supporting role in the school's drama performances. The applause from the audience is the best affirmation of her.
The four years of college are important for everyone, and it lays the first step on the road of life. From an ordinary rural girl to a group of young people, Ni Ping has gained self-confidence and pride.
This stems from her relentless Xi attitude and passion for acting. After graduating from university, Ni Ping was successfully assigned to work in a local theater.
During that time, Ni Ping repeated simple work during the day and rehearsed intensively at night. Drama is very demanding for every actor, and she must devote herself to it, which became the cornerstone of her later career.
During a gala performance, Ni Ping's hosting skills and humor deeply impressed director Liu Ruiqin. Then, 28-year-old Ni Ping ushered in a turning point in her life - entering CCTV as a host.
During her 13 years at CCTV, Ni Ping became a well-known star host. She has hosted the Spring Festival Gala for many years, and has been in contact with more celebrities and officials than many artists in the entertainment industry.
Behind her career achievements is her spirit of self-improvement. The introverted girl at the beginning finally shined in the spotlight.
The success of her career did not bring Ni Ping a corresponding emotional world. She went through two failed marriages, as well as a painful breakup.
The first husband was introduced to him by his parents. The traditional notions of rural China doomed the two to struggle to come together — Ni Ping longed for freedom to develop her career, while the other wanted a traditional wife.
This difference in values, combined with the fact that they worked in different places, filed for divorce shortly after their marriage.
The second boyfriend Guo Da was met by Ni Ping in the entertainment industry. Guo Da understands Ni Ping's character of pursuing career freedom, and the two have feelings for each other. However, both parents were adamantly opposed to the relationship.
On the one hand, the Guo family can't accept Ni Ping's divorced background, and on the other hand, Ni's parents feel that Guo Da is not worthy of the daughter of the popular host. The young two hearts were thus forced to separate.
If the first two relationships are due to the family environment, then meeting Chen Kaige should be Ni Ping's real tenderness. Chen Kaige, who was still very young at the time, had no fame and no resources, but Ni Ping fell in love with this aspiring young man.
For the next 8 years, she took care of this "little boyfriend" with all her heart - laundry and cooking, tidying up the house, and even handling the funeral when Chen's father died. As a result, it can be imagined that after Chen Kaige became popular, he chose a young and beautiful new love, and decided to abandon his former girlfriend.
The failure of her marriage brought Ni Ping trauma, and she no longer believed in the so-called sincerity for truth. How painful it is to love someone and give sincerity, but to fulfill the other person's career.
After experiencing an emotional trough, Ni Ping met Wang Wenlan through a friend's introduction. Wang Wenlan is gentle and elegant, and after a period of time together, Ni Ping decided to hand over again and sincerely try marriage.
The life after marriage was plain and happy, and Ni Ping also gave birth to a child for Wang Wenlan. She thought that she could finally have a complete home and gain stability in life.
However, at this moment, bad luck suddenly struck. Their child was diagnosed with congenital cataracts after birth and had to be treated immediately with surgery to save their sight.
This is an absolute blow to every parent. What made Ni Ping even more sad was that her husband Wang Wenlan chose to leave her at this critical moment.
Wang Wenlan filed for divorce from Ni Ping and no longer paid for the treatment of the sick child. Because no matter how much treatment is treated, there is no certain time limit for recovery, and the previous medical treatment for the child has already cost the two of them too much savings.
He decided it was a bottomless pit and refused to invest more emotion, money, and time.
Facing the sick child single-handedly, Ni Ping fell into unprecedented despair. In order to raise money for the operation, she chose to stay in the United States with her child and borrow money from place to place.
Despite the difficulties, Ni Ping finally performed a successful operation on her son's eye with perseverance.
If the past failed feelings gave her trauma, then Wang Wenlan's abandonment is undoubtedly a complete betrayal. A man who uses money to measure the value of life and abandons flesh and blood affection is indeed the most cold-blooded and ruthless.
After experiencing the double blow of marriage and family affection, Ni Ping chose to continue to look forward. When she devoted herself to her child's treatment, she also re-examined her own life internally.
The environment in which she grew up made her insecure, and the success of her career could not be exchanged for emotional fulfillment. She understands that family and career are indispensable, and family affection and love are equally important.
The power to change her fate comes from within herself, and someone who knows how to truly appreciate her will eventually appear.
At this moment, a man named Yang Yaya appeared in Ni Ping's life. Yang Yaya not only loves Ni Ping deeply, but also regards her children as her own. With his company and influence, the wounds in Ni Ping's heart gradually healed, replaced by happiness and gratitude.
After her son's eye disease was successfully cured, Ni Ping returned to the stage of CCTV. After both career and emotional tempering, she is still a well-known host with wisdom and humor in the eyes of the public, but she is more calm and calm.
She often expresses her current state of mind in interviews: contentment and happiness. This has also become a footnote to her life motto.
The low point of life is a tunnel, no matter how dark it is, there will always be light at the end. We should value success more than failure. Rather than curse, we should be grateful for everything that happens in our lives.
This is the life philosophy that Ni Ping learned from this journey.