The old man and aunt carry the rice bucket, buy meat and vegetables, and make dishes one after another, which seem ordinary, but in fact they are shrewd businessmen, and the more they handle business, the more handy they are. Uncles and aunts look down on everyone, their partnership relationship is as strong as bitter coffee and light as clear tea, but they have cultivated all kinds of children to love and get along in harmony. Auntie is delicate and generous, and she throws off a word from him when she has a headache, and his careless temperament makes her worry all day long, and she wants to break up after half a year!
The aunt said very guiltily: "Ah, the vinegar in my stomach, they are not in the house, they are not in the house." Aunt is a person who goes to bed early and gets up early, in order to cater to this time of the aunt, the uncle's daily routine must be strictly corrected. "Aren't you tired if you don't turn on the light to sleep?" the aunt once asked the uncle. "I'm not tired, I can still dream when I sleep. Are you a star under a lamp, what's your business?" replied the uncle. "Anyway, I'm tired," the aunt said humorously.
One day, the uncle remembered very well that the aunt did not wash the uncle's small lunch box, and the fire came up, and the two of them quarreled and scolded each other ugly. "You don't even count, I really regret partnering with you!" "It's just you. Uncle cares about it, every time he eats separately, he will think about washing the dishes and cleaning up the tabletop, and every time the aunt is the first to go back to the room to sleep.
The old couple has never stopped arguing like this for half a year. Is this the relationship between them? The uncle always feels that he is carrying too much responsibility, but the aunt thinks that the uncle has too much to do. This kind of problem seems to be mundane, but in fact it hides a deep-seated contradiction.
The aunt always pursues perfection in life, but the uncle never takes this to heart. Aunt feels that she is heartbroken for this family, why is other people's love sweet, but what she found is this kind of trivial. She often complained, "Why did I fall in love with you in the first place!"
And the uncle always looks indifferent, he thinks that the aunt has a lot of things to do, and is always unreasonable. This kind of daily chores also tires him. However, in any case, after living together for half a year, should we break up?
The contradiction between the uncle and the aunt seems to be getting deeper and deeper, and in this ordinary family, trivial matters seem to never be solved. Once, the uncle and the aunt had a big quarrel over the shopping bill. The uncle thinks that the aunt spends money too modestly, especially buying some items that he feels are not necessary, which makes him feel angry. And the aunt retorted that these are all for the needs of the family, so why bother so much.
"Do you think this is necessary? These are your personal belongings! I am the breadwinner!" the uncle asked angrily.
"Are you the only one in the house? These are the things we need to live together, how can you be so stingy!" replied angrily.
The fireweed of contradiction seems to be intensifying, and the estrangement between the two people is getting deeper and deeper. Their stumbles and quarrels are constant, and their daily lives become exhausting. And behind these contradictions, there is a kind of deep love and concern for family affection.
In this family, the grandfather works hard outside and the grandmother takes care of the housework at home, and this pattern has continued and has become the fuse of the conflict. Grandpa felt that he worked hard and hoped that the family could be more frugal, while grandma was more demanding of family life. This makes the contradictions between them even more acute.
Their bad things were heard by the granddaughter, and the granddaughter was very angry, "Grandparents, how can you do this? These are all family matters, they are all just small things, as long as you can live happily together, what's the big deal? Don't affect your feelings for these bad things, okay?" The granddaughter's words made the two old men fall into deep thought.
Look at them, they expect each other's understanding and desire each other's support. But they refused to let go of these small roles, and they have never been able to solve the contradictions between them.
In the face of their granddaughter's words, the grandparents were sad, perhaps the conflict in this family has reached the extreme, or maybe this contradiction will become a new turning point, and they need to face their feelings and problems. All this, there are countless speculations and unknowns.
The contradiction between the uncle and the aunt seems to be getting deeper and deeper. Not long ago, the aunt chattered because the uncle was Xi throwing clothes around, but the uncle thought it was not a big problem. So the two had a big fight. This altercation has made the relationship between the two even more strained. The uncle thinks that the aunt is too troublesome, and the aunt thinks that the uncle always doesn't take the problem to heart. Such a contradiction has become an insurmountable gap between the two.
Whenever one side makes a small mistake, the other side will be-for-tat and critical, and they will quarrel non-stop if they don't agree with each other. The aunt always thinks that she has too much responsibility at home, while the uncle thinks that the aunt is too nagging. Such scenes are repeated at home, making the otherwise ordinary and happy family relationship tense.
However, what they didn't expect was that this quarrel would trigger a series of changes. In this ordinary life, the aunt suddenly proposed to go on a trip, calling it "the best way to repair the relationship". The uncle did not hesitate to express his dissatisfaction with this, thinking that this was an aunt's trouble. However, the aunt insisted on going out and relaxing. This time, the two have become increasingly divided, and they seem to have lost their original intention of taking care of the family together.
The family's conflicts seem to have reached the point of no return. The aunt always takes things too seriously, while the uncle is always unwilling to take on more responsibilities. This state of affairs has made their relationship more and more strained, and this increasingly irreconcilable conflict may also affect the whole family.
For a long, long time, the uncle took the aunt to the roof to repair the tiles. Aunt shouted: "Help!" Uncle: "You have a lot to do." The uncle pulled the aunt aside and rose into the air, and the aunt pinched the uncle's nose.
My aunt also left my uncle and went to Mongolia alone, where she seemed to have been liberated by some kind of soul. When she got home, she brought the hot stewed hooves and cakes to the uncle. The uncle poured it down in one breath, and told the aunt lightly: "I hope you come back soon!" The aunt turned her head sideways and stomped her feet in anger.
My aunt bought a set of knitting machines and made snowflakes all day long, all of which were pulling threads and weaving along threads. She said that she was not young anymore and had to know how to do a technical job. The uncle looked at her and exhaled faintly.
But in daily life, uncles and aunts always cooperate with each other tacitly, just like in the years and dusk, there is always a beautiful scenery. There are more and more such situations, but they also seem to be becoming more and more incompatible in some small details. Perhaps, the beauty in reality is always mixed with contradictions and tribulations.