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My name is Aunt Li, an ordinary housewife in her early fifties, who retired early to take care of the family because she was too busy with work when she was young. I have a son, named Xiaojie, who is 32 years old Chinese New Year's Eve, an excellent young man working in a foreign company. He married a girl named Xiaofang, and the two have been married for five years and live in a small apartment in the city.
That day, Xiaojie suddenly proposed to change to a bigger house. I was a little surprised, but as a mother, I always think about my son's happiness. Xiaojie said, "Mom, Xiaofang and I are planning to have a baby, and the current house is too small to be suitable." "I know in my heart that it is normal for the young couple to want to change to a bigger house.
I have an old house that my late husband and I worked hard to save money to buy many years ago. Xiaojie knew about this, and he offered to let me sell the old house, and with their savings, I should be able to change to a bigger house.
I nodded, but hesitated. I said to Xiaojie: "I am willing to help you, but I have one condition. Xiaojie hurriedly asked what the conditions were. I said, "I would like to leave a room in your new home, so that I can come and live in it from time to time when I am old." ”
Xiaojie listened, was stunned for a moment, and then nodded in agreement. But that night, Xiaofang called me with displeasure in her tone: "Mom, are you too selfish to do this? We changed the big house for the future children, and you want to keep a room for yourself, so how do we arrange it?"
This phone call left me with mixed feelings. I know that as a junior, Xiaofang has her thoughts and pressures, but I am also out of a little expectation of my old age.
The next day, when I went to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, I ran into Aunt Wang, a neighbor I had been living with for many years. She asked me how I was doing, and I told her about it. Aunt Wang listened and shook her head: "In these days, children are thinking about themselves, and few can think about their parents like we did at that time." ”
I feel a little sad in my heart, but I don't want to get into trouble with Xiaojie and them because of this. Just when I was hesitating, my best friend, Aunt Zhang, called and said that she wanted to invite me to her house to play, and by the way, she introduced me to a new friend of hers, a retired old teacher, who was said to be very interesting.
I thought about it and thought that maybe this was a good opportunity to divert my attention, so I agreed to Aunt Zhang. Unexpectedly, this decision actually brought about unexpected changes in my life later......
That weekend, I went to Aunt Zhang's house. Her home is warmly and elegantly furnished, with Chinese paintings painted by herself on the walls. Aunt Zhang's friend, Mr. Li, is a kind-looking old gentleman, neatly dressed and wearing gold-rimmed glasses. As we chatted, I found that he had his own unique perspective on many things, and I felt very comfortable with the wisdom and humor that flowed through the conversation.
During the conversation, I inadvertently mentioned the conflict between me and my son and daughter-in-law. After listening to this, Teacher Li pondered for a while, and then said, "In a family, everyone's needs are different, and the important thing is how to find a balance. His words made me feel a little emotional, and I began to rethink the question.
On the way home, Mr. Li's words kept echoing in my head. I thought maybe I should have a good talk with Xiaojie and the others to find a solution that is acceptable to both parties.
For the next few days, I put this aside and started to get busy with my daily life. At the vegetable market, I met Aunt Wang again. She looked a little haggard and I asked her what was wrong. Aunt Wang sighed and said that her son and daughter-in-law quarreled over some trivial matter, and she didn't know how to persuade her.
Listening to Aunt Wang's narration, I suddenly realized that family conflicts exist everywhere, and the key lies in how we deal with them. I encourage Auntie Wang to understand and communicate more from the perspective of children, and not just stand on her own side.
A few days later, Xiaojie and Xiaofang came to my house for dinner. At the dinner table, the atmosphere was a little tense. I volunteered to break the silence and speak openly and honestly with them about my thoughts and concerns. I told them that I was willing to sell the old house to help them change to a bigger one, but I also wanted to keep a little space of my own, not to interfere in their lives, but out of a little anticipation of my old age.
Xiaojie was silent for a while, and then said, "Mom, I understand your concerns, and we will find a way to solve it." Xiao Fang lowered her head, and after a while, whispered, "I'm sorry, Auntie, I may have been a little impulsive in my previous words." ”
After dinner, I proposed that we go together to see a few possible new houses to see if there are any suitable ones. Xiaojie and Xiaofang both agreed. Over the next few weekends, we went to see several houses together. In the process, we gradually found common interests, and the atmosphere gradually became harmonious.
During a property viewing, we stumbled upon a suburban neighborhood that is quiet, spacious and bright, and much cheaper than a house in the city center. Xiaojie and Xiaofang both love it there, and I also think it's a great place to live
Live. What's more, the house there is big enough to reserve a room for me, and there is extra space for future children.
After much discussion and weighing, we decided to buy that suburban house. Xiaojie and Xiaofang began to be busy with various formalities and decoration matters. I also made some suggestions for renovation, and they all listened patiently and followed.
Just when the renovation of the new house was in full swing, I received a call from Aunt Zhang, who invited me to a small party, saying that Teacher Li would also come. I readily agreed.
At the party, I met a few of Aunt Zhang's friends, and they were all interesting people with their own strengths. Mr. Li was also present, and he shared some insights with me about education and life. In the communication with them, I felt very happy, as if I had found my younger self.
After the meeting, Mr. Li offered to take me home. In the car, I expressed to him my gratitude for today's gathering. Teacher Li smiled and said, "Actually, you should go out and talk to different people more, which will make your life more colorful." I listened intently, silently agreeing in my heart.
Over the next few weeks, I started getting more involved in the community and building better relationships with my neighbors. At the same time, I often meet with Aunt Zhang and Teacher Li, we participate in reading clubs together, and occasionally go on outings together.
Over time, the new house was finally renovated. We decided to host a small housewarming. I invited Aunt Zhang and Teacher Li, as well as some neighbors and relatives. Xiaojie and Xiaofang were very supportive of my decision.
On the day of the housewarming, the house was full of laughter. Jie and Fang warmly welcomed each guest, while I was busy introducing my friends to them. In such a warm and harmonious atmosphere, I felt unprecedented satisfaction and happiness.
After the dinner, Xiaojie took my hand and said sincerely, "Mom, thank you." It's all because of you. Xiaofang also came over and hugged me, her eyes full of gratitude.
At that moment, I realized that although conflicts between families are inevitable, as long as we are willing to communicate and understand, we can always find a solution to the problem. I look at this new home full of love and my heart is filled with gratitude.
Soon after, Xiaofang became pregnant. The news filled the whole family with joy. I started to prepare for my new life, and at the same time, I also enjoyed the interaction with Aunt Zhang, Teacher Li, and friends in the community.
My life became more and more fulfilling, and I found myself not only as a mother and soon-to-be grandmother, but also as an independent individual with my own social circle and hobbies. I've come to realize that no matter how old you are, life is total
There are new possibilities waiting for us to explore and enjoy.
As Fang's pregnancy grew, I found myself taking great joy in preparing for my upcoming grandchild or granddaughter. I started flipping through parenting books and even enrolled in a baby care class in the community. Xiaojie and Xiaofang are also very grateful for my participation and support.
During this time, my relationship with Mr. Li gradually warmed up. We found that we shared many interests and perspectives with each other. Mr. Li often came to our house to help me prepare the baby's supplies, and his care and thoughtfulness made me feel very comfortable and at ease.
At this time, Xiaojie's company encountered some operational problems. He often worked late hours, and the pressure on his face was getting heavier. I noticed this, so one night, I made his favorite dish and waited for him to come home.
That night, Xiaojie and I sat at the dinner table, and I asked him softly if he had any difficulties at work. At first, he was reluctant to say more, but with my patient listening, he finally opened up and told about the company's current predicament and his personal pressure.
Although I didn't understand business, I tried my best to give him some advice and comfort in life. I told him that no matter what happens, home will always be his strongest backing. Xiaojie's eyes moistened when he heard this, he held my hand tightly, and said gratefully, "Mom, it's good to have you." ”
Over the next few months, Xiaojie's company gradually improved. He also learned how to better balance work and life. Watching him gradually return to his old smile filled my heart with relief.
At the same time, Xiaofang's due date is getting closer and closer. We are all looking forward to welcoming a new life. Aunt Zhang and Ms. Li also often come to help, they are like a part of our family.
Just a few days before Xiaofang's due date, I sat alone in the rocking chair in what was about to become my grandson's or granddaughter's room, looking around and feeling comforted. This family, these people, are the most precious treasure in my life.
Finally, that big day came. In the corridors of the hospital, we all waited nervously and excitedly. After a few hours of waiting, the doctor finally walked out, with a smile on his face, and announced the birth of a healthy little life. We wept with joy and hugged each other tightly.
The first time I met my grandson, I couldn't put it into words. I gently hugged him, looked at his peaceful little face, and my heart welled up with great love and hope.
In the days that followed, I threw myself into helping to care for my grandchildren. I found myself rediscovering the patience and meticulousness of my youth in the process. Xiaojie and Xiaofang are also because of me
I am grateful to the reliable helpers who have more time to rest and recover.
While taking care of my grandchildren, I also did not forget about my social life. Whenever my grandson sleeps peacefully, I will chat with Aunt Zhang, Teacher Li and other friends to share the bits and pieces of life. Ms. Li often brings me some books and materials on parenting, and we discuss children's growth and education together. His company gave me a lot of support and strength.
As time goes by, the grandson grows up and becomes more and more lively and cute. I found myself taking care of him, but also rediscovering a lot of long-lost pleasures. Whenever I see his innocent smile, my heart is filled with happiness and satisfaction.
One day, Xiaojie and Xiaofang invited me out to dinner to celebrate a recent successful project in their company. At the dinner table, they expressed their deep gratitude to me. Xiaojie said: "Mom, all this is thanks to your support and help. We couldn't have done all of this without you. Xiao Fang also added: "Auntie, you are like the guardian angel of our family, thank you for everything you have done for us. ”
That night, we talked and laughed and felt the warmth and harmony of the family. I looked at them with great pride and satisfaction.
As time went on and my grandson grew up, I began to think about my future. My relationship with Mr. Li grew closer, and we began to discuss some deeper topics, including planning for retirement and what we are looking forward to in the future.
One day, Mr. Li asked if we could travel together and explore some places that we were all interested in. I readily agreed. Together, we planned a short trip to several scenic places and that trip became a cherished memory for me.
During the trip, we had an in-depth exchange of views on life and values. I found that with Mr. Li, I could feel a sense of security and happiness that I had never felt before. Our relationship has grown deeper.
When I got home, I became more involved in the community, while also focusing on my interests. I joined a calligraphy and painting club and started learning Xi Chinese painting. There, I met many like-minded friends and we shared tips and ideas together.
Over time, my life has become more colorful. I've come to realize that no matter how old you are, you shouldn't stop learning Xi and exploring. Life is always full of infinite possibilities, and each stage has its own unique beauty.
With my encouragement, Xiaojie and Xiaofang also began to pay more attention to their personal growth and the balance of their family life. We often travel together as a family to enjoy nature and make life more colorful.
My story doesn't end there, it's still ongoing
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