1. Story background: The emotional experience of an outstanding actress
In the 90s of the 20th century, Ni Ping was undoubtedly one of the most popular and popular actresses at that time. In that era when entertainment information was not developed, Ni Ping's every move could attract countless eyes.
She is not only a well-known host of CCTV, but also won the Golden Rooster Award for her strength, whether it is in hosting or acting, she has reached the peak of her career.
However, even a strong woman with a successful career will inevitably encounter ups and downs in her relationship. At that time, many people regarded Ni Ping as their dream lover, but her love life was like a roller coaster.
is different from the sweet love of her youth, Ni Ping has experienced twists and turns on the emotional road as an adult. She has had a fate with many well-known male stars, but it ended up for various reasons.
The popular actress and the male god-level character make a love vow, which should be an excellent destination for the wind and snow, but the reality is often cruel and ruthless.
We often say that time is the fairest consideration, and it will tell. Similarly, in Ni Ping's emotional journey, time eliminated the false and unbearable feelings, leaving behind the simple but lasting true love.
After going through the storm, she finally found her true home.
A woman's growth blooms all the time, and Ni Ping's story tells us that ripe fruits are always the sweetest. No matter how difficult the road ahead is, she has never given up the pursuit of love and life, and this tenacity and courage are worth Xi learning from every woman.
2. Young girlhood: Mother is the only pillar
For Ni Ping, her mother is undoubtedly the most important spiritual pillar throughout her teenage years. Her parents were not harmonious, and she chose to divorce when she was young. This is undoubtedly a huge blow to the growth of a little girl.
Fortunately, Ni Ping's mother did not give up and took on the responsibility of raising her daughter alone.
As a single mother, Ni Ping's mother lives in poverty and the conditions are difficult. But she never complained, just silently took care of everything with her hands. In order for her daughter to eat and dress well, she always racked her brains and tried her best to make Ni Ping not ridiculed by other children, and to be able to hold her head high and be lively.
Once, when one of Ni Ping's old clothes had been worn for a long time, her mother took the time to renovate it, with some small lace or chic decorations to give it a new look.
Under her skillful care, a crumpled old dress quickly became beautiful, like a new trendy style.
Ni Ping saw it in her eyes, and she understood how much effort her mother had put into herself. She made up her mind that she must study hard and Xi to become a useful person in the future to repay her mother's hard work and care over the years.
For this reason, she worked harder than anyone else and became the primary school bully in her class.
In 1979, Ni Ping was admitted to Shandong Art Institute as she wished and embarked on the road of chasing her dreams. In order to thank her mother for her nurturing feelings over the years, she went to the police station alone and changed her surname from "Liu Ping" to "Ni Ping".
Once enrolled, she worked hard to Xi acting, hoping to become an excellent actor as soon as possible and let her mother witness her achievements.
3. Career achievements and marital survival: emotional ups and downs
Before graduating from college, Ni Ping began to perform in film and television crews, showing her outstanding acting skills. At the age of 23, she has been promoted to a national second-class actor and officially entered the film and television industry.
Then in 1988, Ni Ping joined CCTV and became a professional host.
The training in CCTV has allowed Ni Ping to quickly accumulate rich hosting experience. By the 90s, she was already a well-known star host, won many host awards, and was known as "First Sister".
In contrast to her soaring career, Ni Ping's love life is very unsmooth.
The first marriage broke down under the dual pressures of long-distance and busy work. ended this relationship, Ni Ping met Guo Da. The two were very close to each other, but this marriage was blocked by Ni Ping's mother's opposition.
Under family pressure, Guo Da finally let go and chose to leave Ni Ping.
Later, at work, Ni Ping met the famous director Chen Kaige. The two were like-minded and quickly fell in love. Chen Kaige has become Ni Ping's new reliance.
However, the good times did not last long, and after living together for 5 years, Ni Ping found that Chen Kaige actually secretly communicated with other women behind his back. The betrayal of her relationship made Ni Ping resolutely choose to break up and end this cohabitation life that had lasted for 5 years.
The failure of her marriage failed to defeat Ni Ping, and she chose to move on. As everyone knows, greater pain awaits her later.
Fourth, love one more person: a plain but lasting home
After experiencing all kinds of frustration and pain, Ni Ping finally met Yang Yaya at another turning point in her life. Unlike the previous vigorous relationship, their relationship developed very plainly, but it was also very natural.
Yang Yaya took great care of Ni Ping and her son, becoming a new pillar in their lives. When Ni Ping's son was seriously ill, it was Yang Yaya who flew to the United States with the mother and son without hesitation.
They travel to hospitals in foreign countries, just for the child's speedy recovery. Finally, under his care, Ni Ping's son was cured and discharged from the hospital. And Yang Yaya has gradually integrated into this small family during this period of time and has become an indispensable member of them.
Without the slightest hesitation, he simply walked into the lives of Ni Ping and her son.
Their wedding was very simple, without too many extravagant romantic arrangements, just two hearts together and established a long-lasting agreement. Twenty years later, Yang Yaya still dotes on his wife and treats her son as her own.
With him, Ni Ping found a long-lost sense of stability.
Maybe this is the other half destined by God, who doesn't need too many verbal vows, just needs to support each other in life and experience bits and pieces together. Ordinary days contain lasting power that allows their feelings to stand the test of time until they turn white.
5. Perception: love and self-growth
Ni Ping's emotional journey is full of ups and downs, and she went through many twists and turns before she finally found true love. From her story, we can think about a lot of topics about love and growing up.
First, on the road of life, we should not give up easily, because the destined other half will eventually meet us. Ni Ping's marriage in the first half of her life was difficult, but God finally gave her a happy home.
We also need to be optimistic and believe that one day, true love will come knocking on the door.
Second, don't expect too much from your feelings, learn to let go and let go. The trauma brought to Ni Ping by Guo Da and Chen Kaige is enough to make many people despair, but she is not defined by the past ending, but chooses to go on strongly.
We also need to learn to let go of our imperfect past and to love and be loved again.
Third, in the ups and downs, we will eventually find our own happiness. Ni Ping, who has experienced wind and rain, has gained a plain but lasting true love. I believe that everyone's emotional path has its own meaning, and there will be beautiful flowers blooming in the end.
Fourth, both relationships and careers need time to accumulate and grow before they can shine. Ni Ping, who is in her early 20s, is still immature, and began to reach the peak of her career at the age of 30, and her love life is on the right track after the age of 40.
Growth is gradual and requires patience.
Fifth, be thankful for everyone who appears in our lives and who have helped us grow in varying degrees. No experience is meaningless, and every person and story is worth remembering.