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I live in a detached villa with a price of about 1 million. This is the house that I bought with my husband after I got married. We both loved the tranquil community setting and the spacious and bright interior.
One day, I suddenly received a call from my cousin, who said that she was coming to me for a vacation next month and that she was going to stay at my house for a while. I was a little embarrassed after hearing this, I know my cousin's character, she is often unreasonable, which is difficult to resist. I thought about it, but I decided to agree first, my cousin is an elder after all, and I should also do my filial piety.
I smiled and said, "Thank you cousin for the compliment, it's also the result of our husband's and wife's hard work." ”
My cousin carried her suitcase upstairs, and I showed her around the house. When my cousin saw the master bedroom, she was full of praise: "Wow, your master bedroom is so big, the big bed is still an imported brand, and the decoration in the bathroom is too high-end!"
I was a little embarrassed and explained, "These are designed according to my husband's preferences and my husband's preferences, and we are quite satisfied with our current life." ”
After the visit, my cousin was amazed by my house and looked like she liked it very much. At dinner that night, my cousin suddenly said, "In this way, you sell the house to me, and I will pay 200,000 yuan, how about it?"
When I heard this, I almost choked on saliva, and hurriedly said, "What? How can this work, this is my love nest for my husband and me, and I can't sell it to you." ”
My cousin looked disappointed and said, "I really like your house, and the decoration style is also to my taste." I'm old again, and it's very inconvenient to live in an old house, so you can sell it to me, and I'll take good care of it. ”
I shook my head resolutely: "No, cousin, this house is very important to our husband and wife, and it must not be sold, so don't mention it again." ”
When my cousin heard my refusal, her face immediately changed. She put on a pleading expression and said, "I know this house is important to you, but I really like it." How hard it is for an old woman to live alone in an old house, and this house is simply a dream home for me. Sell it to me, and I'll pay for it." ”
I still shook my head: "Cousin, I understand your feelings, but this house means a lot to me and my husband, and we have put a lot of effort into it, and we can't sell it easily." You can slowly find other suitable houses, not necessarily us. ”
When my cousin heard that I refused again, tears suddenly fell. She choked up and said: "My life is too hard, my husband died early, and I live alone. Now that I'm old, I want to find a stable place to spend my old age. Your house is so good, I really have to do it. Please let me, I can afford to pay for the house. ”
Seeing my cousin crying like this, my heart immediately softened. My cousin's life was indeed not easy, and I felt very sympathetic to the hardships of her life alone. After much consideration, I decided to help my cousin and give her a comfortable home in her old age.
So I said, "Cousin, I think about it. We should really help you solve your life problems, you see we are like this, we will sell you this house for 200,000 yuan, and you can get the money and it will be fine. ”
When my cousin heard that I finally agreed, she slapped her thigh happily: "Good boy, I know that you are the most filial! No problem, I can afford 200,000 yuan, let me live in this house!"
In order to ensure the rights of both parties, my cousin and I signed a simple house sale agreement, stipulating that she would pay off 200,000 yuan within a month. My cousin happily signed the agreement and took the house book. When I saw my cousin's happy appearance, I felt relieved that I had helped her realize her wish.
A month later, my cousin brought 200,000 yuan as promised, and I took the money and handed over the house to her. The moment my cousin accepted the key to the house, she was speechless with excitement, and she thanked me with tears in her eyes. I was very happy to see her like this.
However, just a month after my cousin moved into the house, she suddenly came to me and asked me to pay her another 2 million yuan! My cousin said confidently: "I have investigated, and the actual market price of your house is at least 3 million. You lied to me that I only charged 200,000 yuan, and I underpaid
When I heard this, I was furious and said to my cousin in a serious manner: "Cousin, it was you who proposed to buy this house with 200,000 yuan, and we signed a sales agreement, and now you ask me to pay another 2 million, which is completely vexatious! I will never agree." ”
When my cousin saw my tough attitude, she immediately changed her crying tone and said, "How did I know the true value of the house at that time, it was you who deceived me, so I said that it was only 200,000 yuan." Now you should recover the difference, if you don't give it, you are not filial!"
I said firmly: "Cousin, it was you who proposed the price yourself, and we did not deceive you. I won't give you another penny, and if you are vexatious again, I can only solve it through legal means. ”
Seeing that I didn't give in, my cousin said angrily: "Okay, you are an unfilial daughter, I will sue you husband and wife for fraud! At that time, the court will sentence you to pay me an additional 2 million, and I will definitely seek justice!" With that, she slammed the door and left.
I was shocked that my cousin would be so vexatious, and I was worried that she would really take legal action. In order to protect my rights and interests, I immediately asked a lawyer to consult on this matter. The lawyer read the housing agreement and said to me with certainty: "The agreement says 200,000 yuan in black and white, which is legally valid." My cousin's request is unreasonable, and the court will not support it, so you husband and wife are reasonable, so don't worry. ”
Hearing what the lawyer said, I was relieved. After that, my cousin called me again and asked me to pay 2 million within a month. I still firmly rejected her. A month later, my cousin filed a lawsuit with the court, demanding that I pay her an additional 2 million yuan.
At the courthouse, my cousin cried and said that we had deceived her, which caused her to suffer huge financial losses. My lawyer put forward a housing agreement, saying that the price of 200,000 yuan was agreed upon by both parties and there was no fraud. After the trial, the judge finally ruled that my husband and wife did not need to pay my cousin a penny.
When my cousin heard the verdict, she said to me angrily: "I'm not done with you, I will definitely appeal to the High Court!" I calmly said to her, "Cousin, I advise you to accept the court's verdict and stop being unreasonable, it will only harm yourself." When my cousin heard this, she shook her hand and left, and she cut off contact with me ever since.
This experience made me realize my cousin's true face and reflect on my own problems. My cousin was actually a selfish and calculating person, who first tried to come to my house and then made unreasonable demands, completely ignoring my feelings. I was too soft and conceding to her, which would lead her to become even more vexatious.
After discussing this matter with my husband repeatedly, I decided that I would learn to protect my legitimate rights and interests in the future, and should no longer be moved by my cousin's crying. My cousin also threatened to appeal, and I told her directly: "Cousin, I won't back down if you make trouble without reason." This house belongs to our husband and wife, you have already taken advantage of it, don't take an inch. ”
My cousin said angrily: "You husband and wife have deceived me, I must seek justice! I want everyone to know that you are a liar!"
I said calmly: "It's up to you what you want, the court has already decided this case, and you don't have any reason to ask for money anymore." I advise you to give up and stop ruining your reputation. ”
When my cousin heard me say this, she knew that she was in the wrong, but she was still unwilling, and said viciously: "I am not done with you! I will definitely make you pay the price in my lifetime!" After saying that, he brushed his sleeves and left.
The lesson that this experience has taught me is that in the face of vexatious people, we must stand firm and not back down. I also learned to learn to protect my rights and interests, and to seek legal help in a timely manner when encountering similar situations, rather than being weak and compromised.
After this incident, my husband and I were completely disappointed in my cousin and never wanted to associate with her again. Since my cousin is so calculating and selfish, she is no longer worthy of our filial piety. I intend to put this unpleasant memory behind me and move on with my life.
On the road of life, it is inevitable to meet people who want to take advantage of you. I must learn to distinguish between right and wrong and insist on fairness and justice. In the face of unreasonable people, we must be rational and resolute, and we must not be soft-hearted and compromised. This incident has made me grow a lot, and I cherish the home I built with my husband even more.
After experiencing this housing dispute, I have a clearer view of human nature. My cousin's actions made me realize that there are indeed some people in the world who ignore the bottom line of morality because of a little self-interest. I had to learn how to deal with these kinds of people.
One day, a relative came to the house as a guest, talked about it, and sighed: "My cousin's unreasonable approach is too much, you put up with her so much, and she can't do anything about you, it's too unreasonable." ”
I nodded and said, "Yes, I was still a little filial to my cousin, thinking of helping her solve her life problems, but who knew that she would repay my kindness like this, I was so naïve." ”
My relatives put their hands on my shoulders and said, "Don't embarrass yourself, you're already very polite when you meet someone like your cousin." If I had driven her out a long time ago, why bother myself!"
I smiled bitterly: "I wanted to reject her directly, but seeing her crying so miserably, I still relented." Who knew she was completely fake, I was so innocent. ”
"Yes, your kindness was taken advantage of by her. The relative sighed and said, "This time I will teach you a lesson, I see that you have grown up a lot, and when you encounter this situation in the future, you have to be decisive and don't let people take advantage of you again." ”
I nodded and said, "You're right, I did learn the hard lessons of life. I used to treat all my relatives as my own, but now I know that the truth that blood is thicker than water does not always apply, and I can no longer trust everyone so much. ”
This experience has taught me that some people can do whatever it takes to gain profits. In the future, I must be more cautious and vigilant when dealing with interpersonal relationships, and I can no longer simply assume that all my relatives will hope that I am well.
I can only see the rainbow after going through the wind and rain, and this turmoil has made me grow a lot. It taught me to distinguish between good and evil, to examine human nature, and to be more grateful. I can't deny all family affection and friendship because of my cousin's fault. I want to keep a kind and benevolent heart and continue to understand and tolerate the world.
One day, my son asked me, "Mom, why do you continue to be kind to others when your cousin has done such an excessive thing?"
I stroked my son's head and said gently, "Son, there are good people and bad people in the world, and we can't have a grudge against everyone just because we meet one or two bad people. My cousin only represents her as an individual, not for everyone. ”
The son said suspiciously, "But bad people will continue to hurt good people." ”
I nodded and said, "You're right, so we need to be vigilant and learn to protect ourselves." But at the same time, keep a forgiving heart. Influencing others with kindness and giving them the opportunity to correct is the fundamental way to solve the problem. ”
I said to my son, "When we meet bad people, we can choose to stay away from them." But to others, be kind. We can only live happily if we turn the world into a place of love, understand?"
The son thought for a moment and said, "I see, Mom." You're right, we can't doubt all of them just because there's one bad person. I will remember what you said and continue to be a kind and friendly person. ”
I smiled and hugged my son, feeling that he had grown up. I believe in the power of touching the world with love, and I will pass on this belief to my children, and I will also influence more people through my actions.
On the road of life, it is inevitable to meet passers-by like my cousin, who try to take advantage of us. But more often than not, it is the family and friends who will help us. This turmoil has taught me the value of gratitude, and I will remember those who have helped me and give the same kindness.
Life goes on, and I won't be put down by a momentary setback. I'm going to leave the gloom behind and step back into the sun. Keep a humble and kind heart and continue to treat the world with warmth. I will grow through trials and become wiser and stronger.