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My name is Li Xiaofang, I am 41 years old, I am an ordinary middle school Chinese teacher, and I usually live a simple life. I have been married for many years, and my husband's name is Wang Qiang, who is 3 years older than me and is a sales manager of a foreign company. We also have a 5-year-old daughter named Wang Menglan, who is a lively and lovely little girl. Our family of three lives in a quiet neighborhood in Beijing and lives an ordinary and happy life. "Hello, I'm Li Xiaofang, please advise. I took the initiative to say hello to him. "Hello, my name is Zhao Wei, and I am fortunate to meet you. He smiled, showing a mouthful of white teeth. We chatted a few words that day, and I felt that Zhao Wei was a humorous person. He exudes an aura that attracts me. Since then, I have had a crush on him in my heart. Later, through that mutual friend, I slowly learned that Zhao Wei was married, his wife was studying abroad, and he lived alone in Beijing. I shouldn't have been entangled with a married man anymore, but I still couldn't control the impulse in my heart and took the initiative to contact Zhao Wei and meet him. My heart beat faster: "Me too, Zhao Wei, if I have a choice, I want to be with you too." "Then let's be together, and let this relationship develop slowly." I'll take care of it. Zhao Wei shook my hand. I know it's immoral, I already have a family. But at that moment, I put aside all my worries and just wanted to follow my heart and be with Zhao Wei. In this way, Zhao Wei and I began a secret relationship. By day, I was still the virtuous wife and mother. I and Zhao Wei started a secret relationship. By day, I was still the virtuous wife and mother. I take care of my family, cook meals, and take my kids to school. However, whenever my husband Wang Qiang returned late from overtime, I took the opportunity to sneak out and go on a date with Zhao Wei. We'd meet at a small restaurant near his company, order two glasses of wine, and talk over a meal. "Is the work going well?" Zhao Wei asked me with concern. "It's okay, the kids are about to have their final exams, and they've been busy lately. "And how are you doing?" The project schedule is a bit tight, and there are many extra shifts. But with you, I'm motivated. Zhao Wei looked at me and smiled. I also smiled: "Me too, it's my luck to meet you." "We always talk very speculatively, from work to life, about the past, about the future. I feel that with Zhao Wei, I am understood and respected. It's been a long time since I've felt this feeling in a marriage. "I'm sorry, I have to go back first, my daughter is still waiting for me at home. "In the middle of the night, I had to reluctantly say goodbye to Zhao Wei. "I'll send you back. Zhao Wei took the initiative to propose. "No, I'll take a taxi back by myself. You also rest early. "I gave him a hug. When I got home, my daughter was already asleep. I tiptooned to her room and tucked the corners of her quilt. This angelic little girl is the pearl of my palm. At this time, Wang Qiang also arrived home, and he sat down on the sofa tiredly: "Today's meeting is late, so tired." "Good work, I'll pour you a cup of hot tea." I thoughtfully poured him a cup of tea. "Xiaofang, you have worked hard to take care of your family. Wang Qiang said gratefully. "That's what I'm supposed to do. You also have to pay attention to your body and don't work too hard. This two-sided life tormented me. One day, I attended a middle school reunion and met my childhood crush, Yang Qiang. "Xiaofang, it's been a long time, you're still so beautiful. Yang Qiang hugged me warmly. I was a little embarrassed: "Whereever, you are still so funny and humorous." "I heard that you are married and have children? He must be a very lucky man." Yang Qiang said with a smile. "Thank you. Yes, I'm already a wife and mother. "Actually, Xiaofang, I haven't been able to forget you all these years. I'd like to pursue you if I could. Yang Qiang looked at me seriously. I was amazed, "What are you talking about? But I'm married." "I know. But I really still love you. Xiaofang, get a divorce, stay with me. Yang Qiang's words left me confused and entangled. I tried to persuade him: "Yang Qiang, I know your intentions, but I really already have a family. I can't just get divorced. "Xiaofang, you also have the right to live the life you want. Leave your current husband and be with me, and you will be happier. "Yang Qiang insisted that I choose him. My mind was in a mess. The man in front of me is the one I once loved so much, and I can't just say no to him. But I can't just abandon my family. What should I do? In the entanglement, I still couldn't hold back, and secretly dated Yang Qiang a few times. Every time we met, Yang Qiang would confess his love for me and ask me for a divorce. "Xiaofang, stay with me, I will give you happiness. "Yang Qiang, give me some time to think about it. It's just too hard for me. "I know it's wrong, but in front of Yang Qiang, I seem to have turned back into the girl who simply pursues love. I excitedly asked Wang Qiang: "How can you betray me and my children! Is our marriage worthless to you?" Wang Qiang also retorted excitedly: "I am at fault, but you also have a man outside! Aren't you also responsible?" I was speechless and could only weep bitterly. It turns out that I am also at fault, and I should not have betrayed this family first. Now everything is too much. After this marital crisis, I fell into deep self-blame and pain. I began to reflect on myself. Perhaps, at some stage of the marriage, there was a problem between me and Wang Qiang, which caused the relationship between the two to no longer be as sweet as when they first got married. We all have a responsibility. As his wife, I should have cared more about his feelings and communicated more, rather than choosing to look for solace outside. Now thinking back to our wedding, Wang Qiang said to me the vow: "I will love you, respect you, cherish you, and never abandon you until the end of my life." "He loved me so much and trusted me. Now that I think about it, I have failed his sincerity. And my daughter, she is so innocent and lovely, she needs a complete and happy home. How can I take her home because of my own mistakes?" Mom, you and Dad are the best Moms and Dad in the world. "My daughter said to me innocently. How am I going to face my daughter's trusting gaze now? I made up my mind that I had to fix this home. Whether Wang Qiang is wrong or not, I must first reflect on myself. I found Wang Qiang and talked to him sincerely: "I'm sorry, I have ignored your feelings and failed to fulfill my responsibilities as a wife over the years. I know my mistakes, and I'll start over and re-manage our relationship. I hope you can also forgive me for my mistakes and give us a chance to start over. Children need us. Wang Qiang was silent, and then sighed: "Xiaofang, I am also at fault, I shouldn't look for other women outside." We husbands and wives need to introspect. Since you said so, then I will try again, for the sake of the children. "Thank you for your willingness to give me a chance. I will cherish you and this family even more. Give me time and I'll make you believe in me again. "I hugged Wang Qiang with tears. After a period of hard work, I feel that the relationship between me and Wang Qiang has improved significantly. After dinner in the evening, we would go for a walk in the park together, chatting as we walked. "Recently, the company's year-end bonus has come down, and the amount is not bad. "Wang Qiang shared his work with me. "Yes, you've worked hard for a year. I said happily. "Thanks to your backing, I can concentrate on my work. "Do you have any plans, should you take us on a trip to relax?" You're right, we haven't been out in a long time. It's better to go to Hainan for a vacation with the whole family after the New Year. "Okay! My daughter will be very happy. I smiled and hugged Wang Qiang's hand. We chatted about various family and life topics, and felt the sweetness and tacit understanding between husband and wife for a long time. One day, Wang Qiang gave me a bouquet of roses. "What does that mean?" I asked in surprise. "It doesn't mean anything, I just want to send you flowers to express my love for you. "Oh, you've been getting more and more romantic lately. I laughed and teased him. "That's because you made me believe in love again. Wang Qiang said seriously. I saw the renewed fire of love in his eyes, and my heart was full of emotion. Through the ups and downs, our relationship has become stronger, and I have become a more mature and virtuous wife. I also rediscovered what it means to be a mother. I will spend more time with my daughter, listen to her, fulfill her wishes, and guide her to grow up healthy and happy. One day after school, my daughter said to me, "Mom, I want to eat the sweet and sour pork ribs you made." "Okay, mom will make it for you today." I happily rubbed my daughter's hair. Being able to do a little thing for my family is my greatest happiness. Through all this, I became a better person. I know that the company of my family is the most precious treasure in my life. I am grateful that life has taught me these truths and allowed me to protect my happiness again. I will always cherish my family for the rest of my life. Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, my daughter has entered middle school and has become a lively and cheerful big girl. Wang Qiang and I have also spent more than ten years of married life. Looking back, I am filled with emotion. One day during a small talk, my daughter asked me curiously, "Mom, how did you and Dad meet and fall in love?" Tell me about it!" The daughter said coquettishly. I tell the love story of me and Wang Qiang. Of course, I omitted the twists and turns that happened in between. I don't want my daughter to know about that embarrassing past. I am mature enough to choose to protect my daughter's innocent heart. "Mom, you and Dad must have gone through a lot of stories to fall in love until now. The daughter said with emotion. "Yes, after going through the ups and downs, the relationship will be stronger. That's life. I smiled and stroked my daughter's face. Today, I am no longer the reckless and frivolous girl I was back then. I have matured a lot and learned to cherish it. Get up every day to make breakfast, send my daughter to school, and then go to school to work; In the evening, the family ate and chatted. This is the happiest life I have right now. Sometimes I wonder what would have happened if I had chosen a different path in those years? Thankfully, life has given me a chance to repent. I lived up to Wang Qiang and his daughter's expectations of me. "Mom, when I grow up, I want to find someone as good as my father to marry. The daughter said innocently. "Well, remember to find someone you can trust with for the rest of your life. No matter what happens, cherish the feelings you have between you. I said to my daughter seriously. I hope that through my own experience, I can guide my daughter to grow up. Only those who have experienced the wind and rain will understand the true meaning of life. I believe that my daughter will meet her own happiness.