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My name is Li Mei, I am 28 years old, and I have been married for more than a year. My husband's name is Zhang Qiang, two years older than me, and he is a sales manager with strong business ability. We met on a blind date, and after dating for more than a year, we entered the palace of marriage.
In the early days of marriage, Zhang Qiang and I lived a very happy life, and the two of us were very close to each other, and they also managed this marriage very carefully. We lived in a pre-marital room that my parents had given me, and although it was not big, we lived in peace.
However, the good times did not last long, and on the first anniversary of their marriage, Zhang Qiang's mother suddenly became seriously ill and required surgery and long-term treatment, which was very expensive. Zhang Qiang was worried about this, and he was worried all day long.
One night, Zhang Qiang solemnly said to me: "Wife, I have something I want to ask you, which is very important for my mother's treatment." Can you consider selling your pre-marital house? and use that money to see your mother's doctor, do you think it's okay?"
Zhang Qiang hurriedly said: "Wife, I know this is very difficult for you, but now my mother's illness is very serious and she needs a lot of money for treatment, can your premarital room contribute to this?"
I was still hesitating, Zhang Qiang saw that I didn't answer, and said: "Wife, my mother gave birth to me and raised me to grow up so big, and now I am in trouble, I can't bear to watch her suffer." Just promise me, it's better to sell the house than to watch my mother get sick. ”
I am very soft-hearted, and I also feel that as a wife, I should support my husband at this time. But the thought of selling the house my parents gave me made me sad.
"Husband, I understand your difficulties and want to do my best to help Mom. But this house is important to me and I need time to think about it. Can you give me a few days?" I said cautiously.
Zhang Qiang nodded: "Okay, you think about it, but you also have to think about your mother, she is now struggling in pain every day." ”
In the days that followed, I was deeply entangled. I also went to visit Zhang Qiang's mother, who was indeed very sick, and her medical expenses cost tens of thousands of yuan every month. This made me even more embarrassed, on the one hand, I could not bear to watch my husband's mother suffer, and on the other hand, I was reluctant to sell my pre-marital house.
I told my parents about it, and they were very much against me selling my house.
"Meimei, that house is a gift from us, representing our love and expectation for you, and you can't just sell it. Mom said.
Dad also said, "Yes, after you get married, we will hand over this house to your name, hoping that it can give you a sense of security in your marriage." It's not appropriate to sell it so quickly. ”
I explained: "I don't want to sell either, but Zhang Qiang's mother is really sick and needs a lot of medical bills. What should I do as a wife?"
Mom sighed, "It's a problem, but the house means so much to you that we still don't want you to sell it." The problem of money can be solved slowly, but the house is sold and it can't come back. ”
I listened to my parents, and my heart was even more conflicted. I understood their intentions, but Zhang Qiang urged me to make decisions all day long, and I was under increasing pressure.
That night, Zhang Qiang came to discuss the matter with me again.
"Wife, how are you thinking about it? I know it's not easy for you, but my mother can't afford to wait, and the doctor says she must have surgery as soon as possible. Zhang Qiang said anxiously.
I hesitated and said, "Husband, I want to help too, but the house is really important to me." Can I lend you some money first, and then pay me back slowly?"
Zhang Qiang frowned: "The amount of borrowed money is definitely much worse than the income from selling the house, and my mother's illness may take a long time to cure, and we can't afford such high medical expenses." ”
I could hear the disappointment in his tone, still sad. "Well, give me two more days to think about it. I whispered.
Two days later, I finally made up my mind to side with my husband. I called Zhang Qiang and said, "Husband, I've thought it through. Let's sell the pre-marital room and do our best to save your mother. ”
Zhang Qiang was very excited after hearing this: "Wife, thank you! I knew you would support me." Mom will be very happy to hear the news!"
I smiled reluctantly: "Well, you go through the procedures for selling the house." Remember to keep the money well and use it to treat your aunt. ”
Zhang Qiang agreed repeatedly, saying that he would definitely deal with it properly. Although my heart still hurts, I am relieved to think that I can help my husband through this difficult time.
Next, Zhang Qiang and I went through all the procedures for selling the house, and soon received the money transferred by the buyer. Looking at the extra numbers in the account, my heart was mixed.
This was originally my parents' heart for me, but now it has become a huge amount of money to help Zhang Qiang. I sighed and said to Zhang Qiang: "The money has arrived, you must remember to take good care of your aunt and let her recover as soon as possible." ”
"Knowing my wife, I will definitely use this money seriously. When the time comes, you will be relieved that your mother is well. Zhang Qiang assured me with a smile.
I nodded, still a little apprehensive. But I believe that Zhang Qiang will live up to my expectations.
I tentatively asked, "Auntie, are you getting better, and how are the operations and treatments going?"
She was stunned for a moment and said, "What kind of surgery?" I just have high blood pressure all year round, and I have been taking medicine to recuperate recently, and I haven't had surgery. ”
I immediately realized that Zhang Qiang might be lying to me! I held back the anger in my heart, stabilized my emotions, and told my aunt that I had something to do, so I hung up the phone first.
That night, as soon as Zhang Qiang came home, I asked him: "What did you do with the money from the sale of the house? Your mother called me, and she didn't have any major surgery at all! What did you do without me?"
When I heard this, I was almost angry: "So you made up a lie about your mother's illness for investment and tricked me into selling the premarital house?" Zhang Qiang, I really misjudged you!"
Zhang Qiang kept apologizing, but I couldn't listen anymore. I felt like a fool and all my love and trust was ruined. I yelled at Zhang Qiang with red eyes: "Our marriage can't be sustained! I want to divorce you!"
Zhang Qiang was frightened and knelt on the ground and begged me to forgive him, but my determination was made.
I'm going to divorce this selfish liar!
"Please give me another chance, I know it's wrong, I shouldn't lie to you!" Zhang Qiang pleaded silently.
"Chance? I've already given you a chance, but what happened? Not only did you cheat me out of my house, but you also made up lies to deceive me!" I said coldly.
Zhang Qiang saw that I was resolute and knew that he was in the wrong, so he could only repeatedly promise that he would correct it in the future and begged me not to divorce.
I looked at him coldly, and my heart was like ashes. "I've decided that we're not going to be together again, it's just a matter of time. ”
After that, I contacted a lawyer and started preparing for the divorce. Zhang Qiang still wanted to redeem himself, but I directly refused to see him. After some tossing, we finally got divorced, and I officially moved out of the former wedding house.
I called my parents to report the results, and they all felt sorry for me. My mother comforted me: "Meimei, you made the right choice. Believe that you will meet better people. ”
"yes, someone like him is not worth your giving. Anyway, you have to come back to the house, so let's get rid of this burden. "Dad was there to persuade me.
I nodded with red eyes. Indeed, I shouldn't give everything for a liar, I have to learn to protect myself.
After the divorce, I worked hard and my life gradually got back on track. One day, Zhang Qiang suddenly came to the door and said that he regretted it and wanted to remarry.
"Please give me a chance to start over, and I will prove myself with my actions. Zhang Qiang begged bitterly.
"No! I won't have a place for you in my life. If you lie to me once, I will suffer a loss, and I will not believe your nonsense again!" I drove him away without mercy.
Zhang Qiang left in despair. I closed the door and let out a sigh. Through this lesson, I learned not to trust others easily, but also to protect my own interests. I will start a new life, live a better life, and no longer be haunted by the shadows of the past.
After this marriage, I have become more independent and no longer need to rely on others. I regained my pre-marital property, which was a spiritual sustenance for me. It meant that I had regained control of my life.
One day, I suddenly received a letter from Zhang Qiang. In the letter, he stated that after this period of reflection, he realized that he had done something wrong and that he felt great remorse for what he had done. He said he didn't dare to bother me again, and only hoped that I would forgive him for his mistakes.
After reading the letter, I couldn't calm down for a long time. I decided to write a reply to Zhang Qiang. In the letter, I said:
"Zhang Qiang, I have forgiven you. Not for you, but for myself. Resentment is too draining, and I can't let it ruin my life. I've seen it and chosen to move on. I wish you all the best in your new life. ”
Sending this letter sent me a sense of lightness and joy rose in my heart. I finally let go of my heart and knew that my life would get better and better.
I got back into work and accepted the company's promotion to become a department manager. I also started socializing again and made a lot of great friends.
One day, a male colleague named Wang Jun pursued me, and we started dating. Wang Jun is conscientious and responsible, and he is very good to me. I feel very comfortable with him.
"Meimei, I want to be with you for a long time. One day, Wang Jun said to me solemnly.
I smiled and nodded. I'm sure Wang Jun won't let me down.
In this way, I entered the palace of marriage again. Wang Jun is very good to me, we share a common language and hobbies. This time, I'm glad I found true love.
When I stood at the wedding scene full of flowers and looked at Wang Jun's gentle eyes, I knew that my life would become happier and happier because I had found the love that truly belonged to me. This time, I will cherish it even more, and I will finally open my heart to love and be loved.
"I do. "When the pastor asked me if I would like to marry Wang Jun, I didn't hesitate to say these two words.
Wang Jun also said with a smile: "I am willing." ”
When we exchanged rings and kissed in the presence of family and friends, I burst into tears. At this moment, the happiness I had been waiting for for so long finally came.
After the wedding, Wang Jun gently held my hand and said to me: "Meimei, let's spend every moment of our lives together, I will always love you and take care of you." ”
"Well, I will always support you and move forward hand in hand with you. I replied with a smile.
After I got married, Wang Jun's meticulous care of me made me feel the happiness of being a wife. I also gave my best to this marriage.
One night, Wang Jun suddenly said to me with a serious expression: "Meimei, we have been married for a year, and it's time to have a child." What do you say?"
I was ecstatic and excitedly said, "Okay, I want to have a kid too! ”
And just like that, I got pregnant. During my pregnancy, Wang Jun took care of me meticulously, he always asked me about my physical condition carefully, and met my various needs during pregnancy.
Nine months later, I gave birth to a lovely daughter by Wang Jun's side, and we named her Xiaoqing.
When I hugged Xiaoqing and looked at her innocent and cute little face, I was so excited that I couldn't speak.
"Our baby is so beautiful. Wang Jun was also very happy.
"Yes, she is our heart, and we will always protect her and take care of her. I said with a smile.
Looking at Xiaoqing's innocent smiling face, I sincerely thank everyone in my life for making me happy today.