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My name is Li Mei, I am 42 years old this year, and I have been married for 15 years. My husband, Wang Jun, is the same age as me, works as a sales manager in a foreign company, and we have a 14-year-old daughter named Li Sisi. To be honest, my relationship with my husband is not what it used to be. When we first got married, the two of us couldn't wait to stick together 24 hours a day, go anywhere, and even go to the toilet together. But over the years, my husband has become more and more busy at work, socializing outside all year round, and coming home late. I am alone with my daughter, except for going to work and doing housework, my life is monotonous and boring. Just last month, the school arranged for me to go to another city for a week-long teaching exchange meeting. After the meeting, a male teacher named Xiao Zhang took the initiative to ask me to dinner, he was 10 years younger than me, very handsome, and still single. The two of us had a good chat during the meal, and then he sent me back to the hotel, and we had a relationship. When I got home, I asked for a divorce from my husband, and I was fed up with this life. I want to find someone who really hurts me and start over. But my husband resolutely disagreed, and forced me to cut off contact with Xiao Zhang. I was miserable and felt that I didn't love my husband anymore, and even if he didn't sign, I was going to get a divorce. "Meimei, calm down, let's have a good talk. "My husband took my hand and begged me. "Nothing to talk about!" I shook off his hand, "I've decided, even if you don't agree, I'll file a lawsuit." "Can't you think about it again for the sake of Sisi?" My husband's eyes were red, "She is still young and needs a complete home." "She's enough to have me!" I turned and went upstairs with a slamming door. In the days that followed, my husband and I quarreled more and more. Sisi's grades plummeted, and the teacher called to say that she often cried alone. After my mother found out that we were going to divorce, she called me to persuade me: "Meimei, you have been married for so many years, for the sake of the family, just bear with it." "I can't take it anymore!" I was very angry, "I've had enough of this life, even if I try to persuade me, I will decide to divorce!" Xiao Zhang also sent messages from time to time, saying that he missed me and asked me to be with him. I directly refused, telling him that I only want a divorce now. My husband started staying home all night and wouldn't tell me where he was. Sometimes at three or four o'clock in the morning, I hear the door open. I guess he must be having an affair, and now I'm even more determined to divorce him. Just yesterday, I suddenly fainted at the company and was taken to the hospital by a colleague. The test results came back and the doctor said I was two months pregnant. I couldn't believe it, I couldn't figure out whether this child was my husband's or Xiao Zhang's. My mind went blank. At this time, my husband also rushed to the hospital. The doctor told him that I was 2 months pregnant, and he walked out without saying a word, slamming the door shut. I was lying in my hospital bed, tears streaming down my face. I really regret that if it wasn't for cheating, our lives wouldn't have turned out like this. But now it's too late to say anything, I'm already pregnant, and I don't know who the child is. At this moment, the door suddenly opened, and the husband walked in. "Husband, I'm sorry, it's all my fault. I choked up. My husband was silent for a while before he spoke: "The child was born for a test, if it is mine, I can consider forgiving you, and we will start again." "A month later, the child's test results came out, and it was indeed my husband's flesh and blood. Knowing the news, my husband decided to stay at home and give us a chance to start over. "Meimei, I will care more about you and Sisi in the future. My husband said, holding my hand. "Husband, I'm sorry, it's all my fault," I burst into tears, "I promise to be a good wife and mother in the future, and run this family well." will also completely cut off contact with Xiao Zhang and never see him. "Well, the lesson was very profound for us. The husband sighed, "In the future, we must understand and be considerate of each other, and we can't let the relationship only have a burden and no sweetness." "I agree. I nodded, "I will give you and the child all my love." Since then, my husband has really changed a lot, he no longer socializes outside all the year round, and will go home early to accompany me and Sisi. One day, our family of three went to the playground to play. When lying on the lawn and watching the stars at night, Sisi said happily: "It seems that we haven't come out to play together like this for a long time, I'm so happy!" My husband and I looked at each other and smiled, and our hearts warmed. After going through this turmoil, I saw clearly the value of family. I will always be grateful to my husband for giving us the opportunity to start over, and I will try to make up for the debt I owe to him and Sisi, and rediscover the little bit we loved each other in the first place. As time went on, my relationship with my husband got better and better. I also gradually felt that my husband was considerate and cared for me. One night, our family of three was sitting in the living room watching TV after dinner. My husband suddenly said to me: "Meimei, let's go to the amusement park as a family this weekend, I haven't gone out to relax for a long time." I happily said, "Okay, Sisi will be very happy." It's been a long time since we've hung out together. "Then it's decided!" The husband smiled and rubbed Sisi's hair. On the weekend, we happily boarded the bus to the amusement park. When she got there, Sisi happily said, "Mom, let's go on a roller coaster!" "Okay, let's go together. I smiled and took Sisi's hand. After riding the roller coaster, Sisi happily raised her hands, and my husband and I laughed happily like children. "Husband, thank you for bringing us here to play. "I said to my husband after the roller coaster. "That's what I'm supposed to do. My husband looked at me tenderly. After that, we played merry-go-round, pirate ship and other projects, and Sisi had a lot of fun. In the evening, we sat on the lawn and watched the fireworks display in the night sky together. "Mom, I'm so happy today!" Sisi leaned on my shoulder and said. "We're all happy, Sisi. I gently stroked her hair. At this moment, I felt more satisfaction and happiness than I had ever felt before. After going through all those ups and downs, I have learned more about the value of family. When I got home, my husband said to me, "Meimei, I think we should plan a family trip, just the three of us, go to a distant place, and relax." "That's a great idea!" I happily hugged my husband. At this moment, I was suddenly very glad that my husband gave me the opportunity to continue to stay with this family. After all those ups and downs, life now is what I want the most. I will always be grateful for my husband's generosity and spend the rest of my life guarding this warm home. When I returned, I found out I was pregnant. After the check-up, the doctor told me that it had been two months. I am excited to share the good news with my husband. "Husband, I'm pregnant!" "Really? Great!" My husband happily hugged me. "We're going to be moms and dads, and we have to be ready for this new life. I smiled and stroked my flat belly. "Well, I'll take good care of you and the baby. My husband said softly. We excitedly told Sisi the news. She was so happy that she had to talk to her brother every day. "Brother, I'm your big sister, I'll see you soon!" Sisi talks to her stomach and looks very cute. I also started to learn how Xi be a competent mother, bought a lot of parenting books, and learned how to take care of newborns Xi. My husband has to walk with me every day when he comes home from work, and he often makes me some supplements, for fear that I won't eat well. Finally, on a hot night in August, the baby was born. When the nurse put him in my arms, I burst into tears with emotion. "Husband, our baby is so cute. "I gently stroked the baby's little face. "yes, he looks like you. My husband was also happy. "My brother is so young!" Sisi carefully touched the baby's little hand. "You will be his big sister in the future, and you must protect him well. I said to Sisi. "I will, Mom!" Sisi nodded happily. After I was discharged from the hospital and returned home, I had a baby, and my husband's life was more colorful. Every night we sing and make my baby laugh together. "Husband, with a baby, our family is more complete. "One night, I said to my husband with my baby in my arms. "yes, we'll be together forever, family. "My husband held my hand with a warm gaze. After all those ups and downs, life now is what I want most. I will be forever grateful to my husband for giving us a chance to start over. I will also strive to be a competent wife and mother and share the ups and downs of this family until the last day of my life. After the baby was born, I spent all my time and energy on my family. When my baby was born, I woke up every night to feed him, and I was as tired as the walking dead. My husband saw that I was working hard and took the initiative to share the task of taking care of the baby. "Husband, the baby is awake, it's time to breastfeed. Can you feed me for a while? I'm so tired. "Late at night, I rubbed my sore waist and said to my husband. "Okay, you sleep, baby leave it to me!" The husband immediately got up, picked up the baby and prepared to feed him. With my husband by my side to help, my burden has been significantly lightened. I also often make supplements for my husband to make him work less hard. "Husband, you're so busy with work, I'll cook some red date porridge for you to make up!" "That's great, I like to eat the red date porridge you made the most!" My husband hugged me gratefully. Gradually, the baby has grown a little longer and no longer needs to get up at night to feed. My husband and I were finally able to sleep normally. "Husband, since the baby slept overnight, I feel much better!" I said to my husband one morning. "yes, we can spend a little more time together. My husband smiled and took me in his arms. When the baby was crawling and walking, my husband and I took the family of three to the park for a walk. The baby's toddler look so cute that my husband and I couldn't help but laugh when I saw it. "The baby walks like a little penguin!" My husband said with a smile. "But he's going to get better and better. "I looked at the baby tenderly. Now the baby is three years old and has become the little bully of our family. He often pesters his husband to tease him, and two big men are chasing me at home. Every time I see the intimacy of their father and son, I feel very warm in my heart. "Husband, our baby is really a little pistachio. "One day at dinner, I said to my husband with a smile. "Yes, with him, our family is even happier. My husband laughed too. I will be forever grateful to my husband for giving us a chance to start over. Life now is what I want most. I will also continue to strive to be a good wife, a good mother, and spend the rest of my life with this family. Watching my baby grow day by day, I feel like I'm growing up in the process. When the baby is five years old, he will go to kindergarten. I was very reluctant, but I also knew that I wanted him to go out to meet more children in society. "Mom, I'm going to school!" The baby put on a small backpack and said excitedly. "Well, the baby should listen to the teacher and play well with the children. I crouched down to straighten his clothes. "Got it!" The baby nodded happily. In the evening, I waited for him early at the entrance of the kindergarten. When I saw the baby running over, I opened my arms and gave him a big hug. "Did you have fun in kindergarten today?" I asked him with a smile. "I've had a lot of friends!" The baby said excitedly. I know that he will grow up and meet more people and things. As a mother, I have to learn to let go and give him room to grow. "Mom, I can go to school by myself, I don't need you to send it!" The baby pouted. I smiled and nodded, "Okay, then you should be careful." "Watching him become more and more independent, I am a little relieved and a little sad. My baby has grown so big. Now that my baby is in middle school, he has become reticent and no longer clingy to me as before. Sometimes I can't help but sigh how quickly time flies, but I know it's all part of his upbringing. "Mom, can I have more living expenses this month? I want to buy a new game console. "One day at dinner, the baby said to me. "Well, as long as it doesn't affect Xi. I smiled and nodded. Watching him grow day by day, I feel like I'm growing too. I learned to understand and trust him and give him plenty of space to explore the world. This is because my husband gave us the opportunity to start over, so I had the honor to accompany him to grow up.