Hello everyone, I'm Xiaoxue's mother
Everyone has heard of the idiom "words are like people", which refers to the person's character and behavior can be seen through a person's "handwriting". Some people may be convinced of this statement, and some people scoff at it, but in any case, this idiom has a certain amount of truth and is not superstition.
If a person's handwriting is carefully observed, we can see the person's mentality, way of thinking, etc., and the same method to observe the child's handwriting, we can also see some of the child's psychological growth characteristics, and infer the characteristics of the child's personality.
Can you see the child's personality through "handwriting"?
Generally speaking, when we observe children's handwriting, we can get a glimpse of one or two through three aspects.
First, observe the "size" of your child's handwriting
To a certain extent, by observing the child's usual writing, whether the Xi is larger or smaller, you can understand whether the child is confident and lively, or timid and withdrawn.
The handwriting is relatively large children, usually the character is more lively, large and concise handwriting, it can be seen that the child is lively but does not lose the rules, do things with their own opinions and ideas;
Second, observe the "light and heavy" of the child's handwriting
When the child writes, the weight of the strokes can also show the child's mood and attitude at that time. Generally, the strokes are steady, the scratches are normal, most of these children are more stable, do not like to take risks but do not refuse to try, the mood is relatively stable, and they will not appear flustered when they encounter emergencies.
Another kind of stroke is more "scribbled", the handwriting is a little frivolous, it can be seen that this kind of child is a little anxious when writing homework, may be anxious to watch TV or play with mobile phones, temperament is not calm enough, easy to be disturbed by some short-term temptation.
Third, observe the "style" of your child's handwriting
Observing the child's handwriting style, you can also see some of the child's personality characteristics and behavioral Xi. Usually writing with a clear board and rules, the character often belongs to the rigorous, detail-oriented, and not careless.
If the child's handwriting is sloppy and the dragon flies and the phoenix dances in general, it means that the child's personality is more easy-going, doing things informally, as long as the goal can be achieved, the lack of some processes is not important, the mentality is better, and the ability to resist frustration is stronger.
Writing is also an important means of training for children
In fact, don't underestimate writing, writing is really a good way to exercise people's mentality, through writing can change a person's personality characteristics, rigor and calmness.
In the process of practicing Xi writing, children can calm down and write a good stroke by stroke, then they can change the bad problems of children learning to Xi Madaha, do things more rigorously, and read books is no longer a horse and flowers.
Another person's handwriting is also very important to show the external self-image, and people who write well can be liked and praised by more people, which invisibly enhances the child's self-confidence and action, and is very helpful for the shaping of the child's character.
Therefore, parents can really let their children practice words well, and help children develop correct sitting posture, pen holding posture, and concentration through word practice, so as to improve their children's concentration in learning Xi.
On the other hand, through writing exercises, children can improve the neatness of the handwriting, and the handwriting is beautiful and fast, which is really valued by teachers when they are students, especially by the class teacher and Chinese teachers, which invisibly increases the teacher's attention to the child.
There are many ways to let children practice Xi writing, which can be a practice book, or watch some video lessons to practice words, and cultivate practicing and writing as a hobby to children, which will benefit children's growth a lot.