On that day, my mom and I went to participate in a volunteer activity organized by the community. We are going to help some lonely elderly people clean their houses and send them warmth and care.
I was impressed by her warmth and helpfulness, and I was secretly determined to learn from her Xi.
I was a little shocked when I heard this, because Wang Li was so positive and optimistic in the volunteer activities, and I didn't realize that she might have another side of the behavior.
The next day, I took the initiative to find Wang Li and told her my thoughts by the way. Wang Li did not get angry, but calmly told me that people will always have shortcomings, and she herself will inevitably have some gossip sometimes.
I thought about it and thought maybe she wasn't a bad person, but there were some things that needed to be improved in some areas.
When I got home, my mom and I talked about it again. My mother told me that as a volunteer, Wang Li still needs to be more cautious when dealing with others, not to hurt others because of a moment of happiness, and to learn to empathize.
Mom's words made me ponder. I hope that Wang Li will be aware of the possible consequences of her actions, after all, in an era when all kinds of information in society are transmitted so quickly, a word can ruin a person.
As for me, I will continue to work hard to be a truly beneficial person.
A few days later, something happened at home that I didn't expect. I heard my mom arguing with my dad and it got louder and louder.
Dad kept a straight face and kept silent. I hurriedly tried to calm them down, but my mother told me that my father had "put a hat" on someone outside, making her face a disgrace in the neighborhood.
When I heard the news, I couldn't believe it, because Dad has always been a down-to-earth and honest person, and he has never let others have a handle to attack him.
During this time, the atmosphere at home became awkward, and I didn't know who to trust.
I started to think about it on my own, and I also tried to communicate with my dad in depth. Dad didn't show any other abnormalities at home, and he only laughed at Mom's accusations, which made me think he didn't seem to behave like that.
Surrounded by this contradiction, I felt a lot of pressure.
Conflicts and suspicions within a family can make feelings more nuanced and complicated. I know that this is a torture for everyone's psyche.
I hope that my family can get out of this haze, and I also look forward to continuing to participate in community volunteer activities to give my soul some comfort and redemption.
My conversation with my mom left me feeling distraught. I know what my mother expects from me, and she doesn't want me to associate with people who "wear hats" on people.
At the same time, this contradiction began to haunt my mind.
One day, I met Wang Li in the community. She looked a little sad, and I walked up to greet her. "How are you doing?" I asked.
She smiled slightly, but not as enthusiastically as usual. I sensed that she seemed to have something on her mind, so I took the initiative to ask.
But this kind of rumor bothers me a lot.
When I heard this, my heart moved, and I seemed to understand something. Maybe Wang Li really has no malice, but she inadvertently became what others call a "hat-wearing" person.
When I got home, I told my mother about Wang Li's troubles. Mom frowned, but then took a deep breath and said, "Maybe our opinion of her is too arbitrary."
You have to learn to discern while maintaining your tolerance and kindness towards humanity.
After much deliberation, I decided that I would continue to associate with Wang Li, but I would also remain vigilant. I don't want a person's words and actions to be an excuse for someone else to "wear a hat".
It's a complex and tangled issue, and I know it may take longer to resolve.
Each of us has our own strengths and weaknesses, and sometimes we need to learn to understand them with tolerance and not to define others just because of one thing.