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Editor-in-charge|Xiang Wanwan
Is life always so hard? Or is it just when you were a kid?
— "This Killer Is Not Too Cold"
A few days ago, a piece of news on the hot search grabbed everyone's hearts.
In the 6.2 magnitude earthquake in Qinghai, 13 people were buried in the mud in Jintian Village, including a pregnant woman!
According to reports, the earthquake came so quickly and harmed so much that almost instantaneously it buried only the roofs of the village.
As for the pregnant woman in the news report, the village cadre said:
Five people in a family are missing, including grandfather, grandmother, aunt and two grandchildren, one of whom is pregnant.
This time I went back to my parents' house to visit relatives, and my belly was quite big!
The local rescue was quickly carried out, and excavators and excavators were urgently dispatched to carry out life and death speeds, but due to excessive silt and cold weather, no good news of survival has been heard so far.
Just when netizens were looking forward to it, hoping for a miracle, the unfortunate news still came, the firefighters dug up three corpses, and the three adults seemed to be protecting something in a circle.
After carrying out three adults, they found two children wrapped in quilts, and one of the adults was pregnant, and all five members of the family died.
Seeing this news, I believe that many people's hearts are sinking, this family of five still has no miracle after all, and the three adults are dying to protect the child, even if they have a child in their belly,
And the pregnant woman's husband and in-laws not only lost their grandchildren who were about to be born, but also lost their beloved, like a double blow, and netizens couldn't help but cry quietly when they saw it.
Distressed, regretful, cherish the moment.
I don't know how the father of two children will live in the future?
I wonder how the husband of a pregnant woman will live after losing his wife and child?
If it weren't for this sudden earthquake, the scene would have been:
Grandpa is making a fire, grandma is rolling skins, aunt is making dumplings, and two children are playing on the sun-drenched kang, waiting for the steaming dumplings to come out of the pot.
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However, life is so unpredictable.
I especially remember the Wenchuan earthquake that year, a young mother used her arched body as an umbrella to protect her three- or four-month-old child at the moment of the earthquake.
And the child she protected, when the rescuers carried him out, he was still sleeping quietly,
His sleeping face made everyone present feel a hint of warmth, and the phone in the swaddling clothes left such a sentence.
"Dear baby, if you live, remember that I love you.
This mother got her wish, she desperately protected the child alive, if the child grows up smoothly, it must be a young boy and girl in the flower season now,
The child is unlucky, he lost his mother when he was still in his infancy, and the child is also lucky, he has a great mother, and he becomes the continuation of his mother's new life.
With the love of the mother, go to live well, so that the heavenly mother can rest in comfort.
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At 9:15 p.m. on August 9, 2017, a tourist bus drove into the 122 Forest Farm.
At this moment, 37-year-old Lu and his wife Ye are sitting in the last row, and their daughter is sitting between the two, which is a happy family of three.
If the trip goes well that night, the bus will arrive at the hotel after leaving Jiuzhaigou Goukou. Stay one more night and they will come to Chengdu,
The family of three happily ate a hot pot or skewers, then ended the journey and returned to their home in Wuhan.
But just four minutes later, a magnitude 7 earthquake struck suddenly, and a boulder rolled down the hill and smashed straight into the bus, and the whole process took no more than 30 seconds.
Father Lu was stuck in the car and couldn't move, while mother Ye pressed her daughter under her in a dangerous moment, and the whole person was hit by a boulder.
My child is in the sixth grade of primary school, only in his early teens, and after being rescued, he has been anxiously asking me where my parents are?
Everyone couldn't bear to tell her that her parents had died of blood loss, so they could only comfort her that she was still rescuing, but such a white lie couldn't be hidden for a few days after all.
The family of three in Chengdu should have eaten and drunk happily, but in just a few minutes, the children who did not know what death represented would have to accept what life and death were all about to accept what life and death were all about.
What is behind no backing.
What is someone else's house full of fireworks Zhang Luo dinner ready to eat Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, dumplings,
But the child will light a stick of incense to pay tribute to the soul of his parents.
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But such tragedies and regrets, for some reason, are always staged in this world.
Again and again it slashed everyone's hearts like a knife.
July 24, 2023, should be the most ordinary day, but for some parents of Qiqihar 34 Middle School, it is the most painful day in this life.
It is also the day when they open the curtain of the four major pains of their lives.
An official media released a message saying:
At 10 a.m. on July 24, the roof of the gymnasium of Qiqihar No. 34 Middle School collapsed, killing a total of 11 people, most of them students.
As can be seen from the scene map, the roof of the stadium has almost disappeared, only the surrounding walls are left, the steel bars are exposed, and the boulders of the entire ceiling have buried the stadium.
At the time of the accident, there were more than a dozen female volleyball players around the age of thirteen or fourteen in the stadium conducting volleyball training.
They are a volleyball team that is about to participate in a national competition, and they just won a provincial runner-up trophy before the accident.
was originally a little girl in the women's volleyball team who was very capable of rushing to a bigger stage and having a broader life, but her life suddenly came to an abrupt end at the age of thirteen or fourteen......
Forever lying under the ruins of the icy gymnasium!
They trained together, and their teammates who escaped death because of leave posted sadly on social platforms:
My best friends are all gone!
At the age of thirteen or fourteen, how did she passively accept that all her friends died overnight?
And how do families with these dozen children come to terms with the fact that their children are gone?
And what is even more sad and regrettable is that the one-child policy in the Northeast is implemented in a relatively good area, and the one-child rate has been high, in other words, these deceased children are basically the only daughters in the family.
How can these parents accept that when they reach middle age, the children they have raised for more than ten years are gone, and they suddenly want white-haired people to send black-haired people?
This kind of painful emotion subsequently spread to the whole country, and many people bought canned yellow peaches, AD calcium milk, milk tea and other snacks for the children in the form of errand boys to send the children on their last journey.
Some netizens said: Parallel world, become a champion.
Well, in that world, kids will be holding hands and continuing to play together.
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Life is long, rolling red dust.
We can never predict which will come first, tomorrow or the accident, look at ourselves now, and it is already great happiness if we have not encountered these things.
Maybe in front of the mobile phone, we are still complaining about the unbearable overtime and the difficult days, but whose life is not full of helplessness and involuntarily?
An ordinary white-collar girl has to take off her high heels to walk in the subway in the middle of the night, presumably her feet can no longer bear herself after overtime.
The uncle who sells sugar gourds must insist even if he is tired, maybe they will have tomorrow's medical expenses after selling out of sugar gourds.
It's pouring rain, and the eldest brother who is still sitting in the rain and drinking must have encountered a problem in life, and he can still control himself a second ago.
The next second, he suddenly cried with his neck in his arms,
The thick clouds, which had been accumulating for too long, turned to rain that night.
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I can't help but sigh that in the face of the times and the torrent of life, people do not distinguish between you and me, even glamorous stars will encounter many problems and regrets.
Jia Ling's sudden death due to an accident has become a pain in her heart, and her love for her mother finally became "Hello, Li Huanying" to commemorate, and Li Huanying is not a movie character name, but the real name of Jia Ling's mother.
The queen's mother, Cai Shaofen, was forced to commit suicide by her mother's gambling debts, and she thought about it for a hundred years, she said that her life was really too painful, and the gambling debts would never be over.
Guli Nazha missed the last side of her father, and she lost her hair overnight after experiencing the whole Internet.
Whether it is a celebrity or an ordinary person, before the rolling red dust, everyone is equal, and will not take extra care of you because of your career, income, family, halo, etc.
After all, this is the adult world.
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The only thing we can do is to cherish the happiness of the present at all times.
Know how to be content and be grateful, so that one day when the accident comes, you will find that you have never made a good cup of tea for your parents, never given your partner a caring support, or never fulfilled a happy little wish for your child.
In the past few years, because of the epidemic, all of us have missed too much and lost too much, and in the face of the epidemic, all of us have faced all this equally.
In the past few years, we seem to have been stolen by time, and 2019 was four years ago instead of two years ago.
We all often fantasize that one day we wake up and find that we are still lying on the mat in our childhood hometown, shaking a fan, eating iced watermelon, time flies very slowly, and the future is still full of hope, and our life seems to be full of hope.
2024 is just around the corner, and the past is history.
And in the future, we still need to continue to float in the times, just float in the coming year.
I hope that all of you who see this can not only cherish and be grateful for the present, but also avoid those accidents, and in the next day, you can make yourself no regrets, and no longer regret!
After all, sometimes,
To be alive is already a kind of greatness!
—End of this article—