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My name is Li Mei, I am 28 years old, and my husband Wang Qiang and I have been married for three years. We were high school classmates, and we had a good relationship, and we got married after graduating from college. Wang Qiang's personality is more anxious, and I am the kind of gentle and virtuous girl.
We've been married and we've always wanted to have a baby, but we've never been able to do it. The shadow of infertility has been hanging over us, we went to the hospital for check-ups, and the doctor said that we were both healthy, but it might take a little time. Over the years, we have tried various methods, and finally, when I was 28 years old, I finally had signs of pregnancy.
In this way, under Wang Qiang's careful care, I survived ten months of pregnancy and finally came to the hospital before I went into labor.
"Wife, what do you think, are you going to give birth soon?" Wang Qiang asked me nervously.
"Well, my stomach is already very hard, and the doctor said that it may be going to give birth tonight. I replied softly.
"That's good, our kids are coming! Wang Qiang held my hand, his eyes revealing excitement and anticipation.
At around 11 p.m., I began to feel labor pains, and Wang Qiang quickly called a doctor. After the examination, the doctor said: "The baby is about to be born, mother, please be ready, and father should also encourage mother and help her through the process of childbirth." ”
I nodded, and the intense production process began. Wang Qiang held my hand tightly and encouraged me all the time: "Wife, you must be able to, our child is about to be born!"
"The strength is greater, the child's head is already exposed, come on!" The doctor instructed from the side.
"Husband, our son!" I said excitedly.
"Great, wife, we have a son!" Wang Qiang was also so excited that his eyes were red.
Wang Qiang and I were both amazed. We all thought there was only one child, but we didn't expect it to be twins!
"Wife, what a surprise! We will have two babies!" Wang Qiang was very happy.
Wang Qiang clenched my hand and said softly: "Wife, with me here with you, we will definitely be able to!"
"Amazing wife, two sons! Wang Qiang hugged me excitedly.
Although I was tired, I was ecstatic to see my two children born safely. The doctor brought the two children to show me, and I had nothing but endless maternal love and joy in my heart.
At that moment, I suddenly felt some pain and movement in my stomach, something was not right.
"Husband, look at my belly, why do you still feel like it's moving?" I said with some concern.
Wang Qiang hurriedly checked, and his face became nervous: "Doctor, my wife said that her stomach is still moving, what's going on?"
The doctor was busy with the examination, and after the examination, he smiled and said, "Mom and Dad, don't worry, this feeling is normal, because just after childbirth, the uterus is returning to its original state, and there will be some contractions." It's not that there are still signs of children, you don't have to worry. ”
I also smiled: "Husband, two is enough, let's take good care of their growth." ”
"Well, my wife has worked hard, and we will take care of the children together. Wang Qiang looked at me and the two children tenderly.
In this way, under the supervision of doctors and nurses, my two children and I quickly recovered our strength. On the day he was discharged from the hospital, Wang Qiang held one child and I held the other, and our family of four went home happily.
Back at home, my neighbor, Aunt Zhang, heard that we had given birth to twins and came to visit us in person.
"Meizi, congratulations, you gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, it's really a double happiness!" Aunt Zhang said with a smile.
"Thank you Auntie, my husband and I are very happy. I replied shyly.
"By the way, did I feel like my stomach was still moving after giving birth? I also felt this way when I gave birth, which made me startled at the time, and I thought there was still a baby. Later, the doctor said that this was normal and that the uterus was regaining its shape. Don't worry. Aunt Zhang said with a smile.
I nodded and said, "Yes, Auntie, I also felt that my stomach was still moving, and my husband became nervous when he heard it, so he quickly asked the doctor for examination." The doctor said it was the feeling of uterine contractions, and we were relieved. ”
"Auntie taught me right, I will care more about my wife in the future and take care of the two babies with her. Wang Qiang said.
"Well, Hadron has become a good father to two babies. I laughed.
"Okay, you've worked hard too, so I won't bother you much. Let me know if you need anything, and I'll help you. Aunt Zhang said.
"Thank you, Auntie!" We sent Aunt Zhang out.
As Aunt Zhang said, we husband and wife should communicate more, support each other, and welcome this important change in life together. My husband is a good dad who is responsible, and I also have to learn how to be a good mom.
In the days that followed, we took care of our two lovely babies together. At first, we were all scrambling because of our lack of experience. The two babies had different schedules, and we were busy changing diapers, feeding, and sleeping, and we survived many sleepless nights.
Once, our two babies cried in the middle of the night, and Wang Qiang and I were very tired.
"Wife, let me come, you rest first. Wang Qiang said.
"It's okay, I'm okay, let's take care of it together. "I know my husband is also tired.
"You just gave birth and your body hasn't fully recovered and you need to rest more. I'll take care of the kids. Wang Qiang said as he picked up his crying eldest son and coaxed him softly.
When I saw him like this, I was very touched and felt that what he said made sense.
"Okay, the children will ask you husband. I'll go and rest for a while, and call me if necessary. I said.
"Okay wife, go to sleep, I'll take care of the children. Wang Qiang hugged his eldest son in the room and coaxed him gently.
I went back to the bedroom and listened to the cry of the baby and the soft sound of Wang Qiang falling asleep outside the door, and I was very moved. My husband has really grown up to be a responsible father.
"My husband has worked hard, and the children have caused you trouble, right?" I'm a little reluctant to go.
"It's not troublesome, they get much better after a good night's sleep. Don't work too hard, rest more, and your body can recover quickly. Wang Qiang said softly.
"Well, thank you husband, if I work too hard, it will also affect breastfeeding, you are right, I will pay attention to rest more. I nodded.
"By the way, I looked up some parenting information last night and thought we could try to adjust the schedules of the two babies to be close to each other, so that they wouldn't cry on both sides at night. Wang Qiang said.
"That's a good idea! You see, we were so tired because of the difference in the schedules of the two babies, and the two of us ran back and forth at night. I said.
"I talked to Aunt Zhang at noon, and she gave her some experience in adjusting the baby's schedule, and we can try it. Wang Qiang said.
"Let's do it, hopefully so that the two babies have the same routine, so that we can also relax. I said.
So, under the guidance of Aunt Zhang, we adjusted the schedules of the two babies, and slowly, the two little ones did tend to be synchronized, and they gradually slept more solidly at night. Wang Qiang and I took turns taking care of them, and we were not as tired as before.
It is very gratifying to see my two babies grow up healthy and happy. Being able to experience these bits and pieces with my husband is the most precious memory between our husband and wife.
As our family of four gradually got on the right track, Wang Qiang tried to spend as much time as possible with my children and me after work, and he learned how to be a good father. I also felt the love in his heart for our little family.
The happiest time in life is the daily life of the family. We will remember this beautiful moment and accompany the children to grow up slowly.
The children grew up day by day and began to learn to climb and walk, and the house was bustling.
One day, my eldest son climbed under the coffee table, took out a small notebook, stumbled up to me, and held up the small notebook to show me.
"Baby, what is this?" I took the book and found that it was Wang Qiang's diary.
"Husband, why is your diary under the coffee table?" I asked Wang Qiang with my diary.
Wang Qiang looked at it and was a little embarrassed: "This is the diary I started writing when I was preparing to be a father, maybe I didn't take it away from the coffee table before, and it was found by our little baby." ”
"Eh, can I take a look? I want to know your journey to becoming a father. I asked curiously.
"Of course, you have the right to know everything I have recorded. Wang Qiang said with a smile.
I opened the diary, which recorded in detail Wang Qiang's thoughts and journey from preparing to become a father.
I flipped through the pages, and it was full of Wang Qiang's care and love for me and my children.
"Husband, I didn't know that you took care of me so hard and learned to cook. I was a little touched.
"That's what I'm supposed to do, you're the most important people to me. Wang Qiang said with a smile.
"When the child grows up, you can show him this diary and tell him that his father has loved him deeply since the day he was ready to become a father. I said softly.
"Good idea, I'll keep this diary and remember it with my children later. Wang Qiang said.
I felt happy as a family sitting in the warm sunshine and watching the children play.
Having a husband who loves his family like this, and having two angelic babies, this is the life I want.
We will witness every moment of children's growth together and accompany them step by step into this wonderful world.
In the blink of an eye, the children are already 3 years old, they are beginning to talk and walk, and their personalities are slowly revealed.
The eldest son has a lively and cheerful personality and likes to talk to us.
One day, he came running over with his mouth puttering and asked me with a curious face: "Mom, you said that my brother and I came out of your belly, how did the two of us get in?"
I was stunned for a moment, and before I could figure out how to answer such an esoteric question, Wang Qiang hurriedly said: "Baby, you and your brother are the hearts of your parents, when you are in your mother's womb, your father is talking to you every day, and you are willing to come out to see us when you hear your father's voice!"
"Oh~ I see!" The eldest son nodded, and the question was fooled.
I smiled and said to Wang Qiang: "My husband answered well, the child is still young, and it is better to answer these questions simply." ”
"Yes, children are very smart, and they are asking more and more questions, and we need to figure out how to answer them in the right way. Wang Qiang also said with a smile.
Once, he was playing with blocks, and the blocks were built high and suddenly fell down.
I was about to go over to comfort him, but when I saw that he wasn't crying, I silently began to rebuild the blocks.
"Baby, isn't it sad that the building blocks fell just now?" I asked him softly.
"It's amazing, a baby who doesn't give up easily!" I laughed and complimented him.
"Husband, you see how strong our baby is, and he doesn't cry easily when he encounters setbacks. I said to Wang Qiang.
"Yes, every child has a different personality, and we need to give them appropriate care and guidance according to their personality. Wang Qiang said.
"Well, we will definitely love them with all our hearts and help them grow up healthy and happy!" I said.
"Definitely!" Wang Qiang said with a smile.
The different personalities of the children also make us more and more mature as new parents. On the way to a child's growth, the company of parents is the most important.
Children are the most precious gift that God has given us. We will work together to give them the warmest home.