Bai Yansheng was born in an ordinary rural family, her father worked in the fields during the day, and her mother did needlework at home to help supplement the family. The child Bai Yansheng has understood since he was a child that the conditions at home are limited, and he always brings tea and water when he comes home from school, and often does housework by himself and leaves his parents alone.
As an adolescent, Bai Yansheng loved literary and artistic activities, and especially liked to be a host on campus TV stations. He could have gone to a good university with his Chinese scores, but he couldn't let go of his family after all, so he had to go to a normal school nearby.
During his college years, Bai Yansheng often used his spare time to host various performances inside and outside the school. He is full of emotions and calm, and he can often mobilize the atmosphere of the scene, and is deeply loved by teachers and students.
After graduating from university in 2003, Bai Yansheng joined the county TV station as a host. He was witty and funny, went deep into the grassroots, and became a local household name. A few years later, he was recruited by Baoding TV to host the party, and started the struggle from the grassroots to CCTV.
In 2012, Bai Yansheng was fortunate to enter CCTV to host opera programs. In his spare time, he often organizes condolence performances into the barracks. One day, Bai Yansheng met Zhou Jia, a civilian female staff member of the army, backstage.
The two fell in love at first sight, and Bai Yansheng took the initiative to ask for contact information. Since then, the two have been in frequent contact and gradually developed affection. During Zhou Jia's two-year study abroad, the two maintained regular phone calls, and their relationship became warmer day by day.
After Zhou Jia returned from school, the two successfully married and moved into the CCTV dormitory to start a simple and sweet life.
On a sunny Saturday morning, Bai Yansheng and his wife Zhou Jia took their 7-year-old son Bai Xiaosheng to play in the community. Not long after the three of them entered the community, Bai Xiaosheng went to play in the sand pit and met Ma Xiaoxiao, a little girl who lived opposite the door.
The two of you have a bucket of sand and I shovel it, and they chatted passionately while playing. Not long after, Ma Xiaoxiao said that he wanted to build a high sand castle, but Bai Xiaosheng was unconvinced and said that I built it even more.
The two began to compare who stacked better. Bai Xiaosheng's skills are not as good as others, and the sand castle is really not as good as Ma Xiaoxiao. He was a little helpless, so he mischievously kicked off the sand castle that Ma Xiaoxiao had built.
At this time, Ma Xiaoxiao's father, Ma Dong, passed by, saw his daughter, and came over to persuade him. Bai Xiaosheng may have yelled at Ma Dong emotionally for fear of being scolded.
Ma Dong wanted him to calm down, and raised his hand to stop Bai Xiaosheng, but Bai Xiaosheng turned around, and Ma Dong's palm accidentally hit him on the back. Bai Xiaosheng fell backwards in pain, his arm hit the ground first, and there were a few bruises out.
Ma Dong panicked, helped Bai Xiaosheng up to check his injuries, and helped him to the community clinic. After that, Ma Dong immediately called Bai Yansheng to apologize and said that the medical expenses would be borne in full by himself.
After learning of this, Bai Yansheng and his wife Zhou Jia were furious. They went straight to the community clinic to see their son. Bai Xiaosheng's arms were wrapped in thick bandages, his eyes were still red, and he knew that he had just cried bitterly at a glance.
Bai Yansheng was distressed, and hugged his son for a long time to comfort him. After that, the family of three went to the police station to report the case and asked to deal with Ma Dong's illegal behavior. But Bai Yansheng has never been able to calm the depression in his heart, and that night he posted a video on his social account, choking up about how Bai Xiaosheng was beaten, hoping that netizens would provide eyewitness testimony and support him to seek justice.
As soon as this video came out, it immediately sparked heated discussions on the Internet. Most netizens strongly condemned Ma Dong's behavior of hurting children, and demanded that Ma Dong be severely punished. There are also a small number of netizens who said that adults should not be overly involved in the conflicts between children, and Bai Zi may also have problems.
In this way, the focus of public opinion began to revolve around this incident.
After the incident sparked a strong reaction on the Internet, Ma Dong, as a party concerned, also felt that he could not bear the online accusations and decided to issue a statement to express his position. In his statement, he gave a detailed account of what happened on the day of the incident.
Ma Dong said that Bai Xiaosheng and his daughter Ma Xiaoxiao had an argument that day while playing a game of sand. It was Bai Xiaosheng who kicked the sand castle that Ma Xiaoxiao had worked so hard to build, causing Ma Xiaoxiao to collapse emotionally.
As a father, Ma Dong stepped forward to persuade out of good intentions. But Bai Xiaosheng may have kicked Ma Dong for no reason because he was afraid of being criticized. In order to stop Bai Xiaosheng's behavior, Ma Dong tried to hug him and calm him down.
However, Bai Xiaosheng accidentally fell during the violent struggle, causing minor external injuries. Afterwards, Ma Dong immediately apologized and paid the medical expenses, and he was not seriously at fault.
There are certain discrepancies between Ma Dong's narrative and Bai Yansheng's video. Bai Yansheng insisted that it was Ma Dong who hit Bai Xiaosheng, and Ma Dong claimed that Bai Xiaosheng made a preemptive strike. The allegations of the two are clearly contradictory.
In the absence of third-party eyewitnesses, it is difficult to determine what the truth is.
However, there are also certain problems in Ma Dong's statement. He claimed that Bai Xiaosheng kicked and beat him, which seemed unlikely in common sense.
On the contrary, Bai Yansheng, as a public figure, has no need to publish fake videos to create public opinion pressure. In his description, Ma Dong beat Bai Xiaosheng with his hands is a more reasonable explanation.
After all, adults are significantly more likely to injure children. Therefore, logically analyzed, Bai Yansheng's narrative is more coherent and reasonable, and should be more credible. As the accused party, it is necessary for Ma Dong to exonerate himself, and loopholes in his testimony are inevitable.
In the context of the continuous fermentation of public opinion, the dispute between Bai Yansheng's family and Ma Dong was investigated and handled by the local public security organs. The police interviewed the parties Bai Yansheng and Ma Dong several times to understand their descriptions of the incident.
However, due to the lack of third-party eyewitness testimony, it is difficult for the police to fully establish the truth.
Ma Dong's behavior was a minor personal injury, but out of consideration for the protection of minors, the police decided to detain him for 10 days and ordered Bai Xiaosheng to compensate 500 yuan for medical expenses.
In response to Bai Yansheng's request to deal with Ma Dong harshly, the police said that they would make a balanced decision from the perspective of protecting children's rights and interests and social harmony. In general, the police handled the case relatively fairly, taking into account both law and reason.
In the process of the police investigation, a community owner took the initiative to contact Bai Yansheng, claiming that he had witnessed the incident. However, after a detailed understanding, the owner's description of the incident was significantly different from Bai Yansheng and Ma Dong's description.
The reliability of this person's testimony is difficult to judge, and the police did not accept it. It can be seen that the core doubts of the truth are still difficult to clarify.
After a police investigation, the truth of the incident is still difficult to clarify. There are irreconcilable discrepancies between Bai Yansheng and Ma Dong, and the reliability of third-party testimony is difficult to guarantee.
Therefore, people's judgment of the original party in this incident can only stay at the level of speculation.
However, from this seemingly ordinary dispute, we can clearly understand some truths. First, adults should not be overly involved in conflicts between minors.
Children's world should be innocent and autonomous. Adult intervention often complicates simple issues. Second, in the face of events where the truth is not yet known, we should maintain a rational and restrained attitude.
Subjective assumptions can easily lead us to deviate from the facts and produce wrong judgments. Thirdly, harm, especially corporal punishment of children, is unacceptable, regardless of the reason.
This is contrary to the good will of human nature and detrimental to the majesty of adults. So, although the origin of this incident is still difficult to understand, its implications for us are far-reaching. We should keep these principles in mind in our daily lives and avoid similar mistakes.
Only in this way can our society become more harmonious and orderly.
In the days following the incident, Bai Yansheng and his wife, Zhou Jia, often fell into anxiety and melancholy. Whenever I think of the scene of my son's injury, the husband and wife are like knives.
They are constantly worried about whether Xiaosheng's body will leave permanent damage, and they feel that they have failed to protect their son well. Bai Yansheng is also worried that the negative impact of the incident will affect his work.
On the other hand, Ma Dong and his daughter Ma Xiaoxiao are also living a life of fear. Ma Dong wanted to prove his innocence day and night, but the pressure of public opinion made him breathless.
Ma Xiaoxiao also spoke less and less, and her grades in Xi school plummeted, and she was in a state of depression. The father and daughter also deeply felt that the dispute had brought irreparable scars to each other's lives.
The situation has only recently improved. As time went on, public interest in the dispute began to cool. Bai Xiaosheng's injuries have basically healed, and his life is gradually back on track, which makes Bai Yansheng and his wife feel a little relieved.
Ma Dong's father and daughter also gradually regained their confidence, and Ma Xiaoxiao's Xi state of study improved. Although the two families still often think about this unpleasant memory, overall, the curtain of life has been slowly opened.
Just as the turmoil of this incident gradually subsided, the situation took an unexpected turn. It turned out that during the re-investigation of the police, an important eyewitness took the initiative to appear and provide conclusive testimony.
The eyewitness, Aunt Liu, is an old resident of Bai Yansheng's community. When Bai Xiaosheng and Ma Xiaoxiao were arguing that day, she happened to pass by the scene. She clearly saw that Ma Dong grabbed Bai Xiaosheng's arms and shoulders and twisted them hard, and directly threw Bai Xiaosheng out of the distance.
At that moment, she was frightened by Ma Dong's violent behavior. Although Ma Dong showed remorse afterwards, Aunt Liu believed that his actions had constituted physical harm to the child.
In front of Aunt Liu's testimony, Ma Dong had to plead guilty. In the end, in addition to the previous fine, Ma Dong was sentenced to six months in prison for intentional injury.
Public opinion generally supported this verdict, believing that it was an appropriate sanction for Ma Dong's illegal acts.
Bai Yansheng and his wife are also pleased with the verdict. They believe that the law and justice have rekindled their hopes. The positive handling of this incident also sends a strong positive signal to society that harming children is always wrong and will be punished as it should be.