Yang Qian is an only daughter from a good family in her hometown, and her parents love her very much. However, as fate would have it, at the age of 20, her parents died unexpectedly one after another, which had a huge impact on her growth.
At the age of 26, under the introduction of her family, Yang Qian married her first husband. At first, the two were very affectionate, and Yang Qian even felt that she had found a life to rely on.
Who knew that in the fourth month after marriage, Yang Qian suddenly discovered that her husband actually had a girlfriend outside. This is a bolt from the blue for her, who is already sensitive and suspicious, and she can't stand her husband's deception and betrayal.
Grief-stricken, she filed for divorce from her husband in a fit of anger. This first marriage ended after just four months, but the wounds it brought to Yang Qian were far from healing.
Having lost the two pillars of her life, her personality has become more and more fragile and sensitive. At the age of 36, Yang Qian accidentally met Jiang Kang, who was 6 years younger than her. Despite the slight age gap, the two quickly fell into a relationship.
After a year of dating, Yang Qian and Jiang Kang couldn't wait to get their marriage certificate, and they didn't even hold a banquet.
Perhaps because of her age, Yang Qian experienced 4 pregnancies in a row after marriage, but all of them were miscarriages due to various accidents, which undoubtedly brought huge mental pressure to the newlyweds.
Especially for Yang Qian, she not only suffered physical pain, but also had to face the mental torture of continuous miscarriages. At one point, she fell into a panic of losing her motherhood and couldn't extricate herself.
Fortunately, when she was pregnant for the fifth time, Yang Qian carefully maintained her pregnancy. When it was confirmed that she was 7 months pregnant, she also breathed a sigh of relief, as if she saw the dawn of hope in life.
However, the good times did not last long, and when Yang Qian finally maintained her pregnancy until the 7th month, her relationship with Jiang Kang suddenly became variable. Yang Qian, who had already entered a period of stability, began to notice that Jiang Kang's attitude was becoming colder and colder, and he was like Wen Cun before.
At first, Yang Qian didn't know what to do, until one day, when she urged Jiang Kang to accompany her to go through the relevant procedures for pregnant women, Jiang Kang's reaction was very irritable and resistant.
Yang Qian was puzzled by Jiang Kang's sudden change of face, and had a fierce quarrel with Jiang Kang in a hurry. She tried to find out the reason for Jiang Kang's abnormality, but Jiang Kang only coldly rejected her request.
The two of them argued word by word, gradually losing their rationality, and this quarrel gradually evolved out of control.
Due to the lack of rational communication, the quarrel between Yang Qian and Jiang Kang quickly got out of control. What started as a verbal altercation turned into a physical altercation.
Yang Qian, who was pregnant, was naturally not Jiang Kang's opponent, and soon she was covered in bruises after being beaten. However, Jiang Kang was still angry, he even rushed into the kitchen and picked up a kitchen knife, destroying the doors and windows, household appliances, furniture, etc. in the room.
After experiencing such tragic domestic violence, Jiang Kang resolutely left his home. Not only that, but he also blacklisted all of Yang Qian's contact information, and there has been no news since.
For Yang Qian, who is in the top eight, the sudden change is undoubtedly worse. She kept calling Jiang Kang's number, hoping to get even a little response, but Jiang Kang seemed to have evaporated from the world, and there was no other news.
On the seventh day of Jiang Kang's disappearance, Yang Qian finally found his whereabouts. It turned out that Jiang Kang had been hiding in his hometown during this time and had not gone out of his hometown. Yang Qian, who was 8 months pregnant, rushed to Jiang Kang's house desperately, seeking one last chance to recover.
She begged Jiang Kang to think about the future of herself and the fetus in her womb, but Jiang Kang and her family were still indifferent.
After more than a year of observation of living together, Jiang Kang's mother has become very disgusted with Yang Qian's short-tempered and eccentric and suspicious character. And when Yang Qian arrived, she was indeed rude and rude and had an argument with Jiang's mother.
In the end, it was under the mediation of the village committee that Yang Qian learned about Jiang Kang's various dissatisfaction with him, including restricting his freedom and damaging his friendship.
Although Yang Qian kept begging for explanations, Jiang Kang's determination was made. Under the accusations of relatives and friends on both sides, the broken relationship of the couple, even if they are reluctant to get back together, will be depressed and unhappy in the future.
Jiang Kang's attitude was extremely resolute, and Yang Qian suddenly realized that her small family might be irretrievable.
After face-to-face confrontation, Yang Qian finally recognized the reality and could only accept the divorce result with Jiang Kang. She proposed that Jiang Kang must pay a lump sum of 80,000 yuan as compensation, but Jiang Kang refused on the grounds of financial difficulties.
Under the mediation and coordination of relatives and friends of both parties and the village committee, Jiang Kang reluctantly agreed to pay Yang Qian 70,000 yuan in economic compensation. However, the payment had to be made in 3 installments, and the divorce was agreed immediately after Yang Qian gave birth.
For Jiang Kang, who has no emotional foundation, he just put forward these harsh conditions in order to avoid responsibility. And Yang Qian, who was in a difficult situation, could only choose to accept it.
After more than a year of married life, it finally ended in a hasty divorce agreement, and there was nothing beautiful about it.
When we reflect on the couple who failed to make it to the end, it is not difficult to see that the crux of the problem lies in their immaturity. Yang Qian became neurotic due to her ex-husband's injury, and Jiang Kang was childishly addicted to himself.
This kind of personality and mentality defects are also the root cause of many marital frustrations.