The exposed divorce case of Song Joong Ki and Song Hye Kyo has aroused widespread concern in the society, and it has also triggered deep thinking about the luxury wedding of celebrities. Marriage is an important ritual in life, and a wedding is a romantic episode in this ceremony. However, the case of Song Joong Ki and Song Hye Kyo reveals the financial and psychological pressures that can exist behind the wedding, as well as the reality of unhappiness behind the high cost.
First of all, Song Joong Ki can't forgive Song Hye Kyo's psychological entanglement for suffering losses, which exposes the financial pressure of the wedding. In the traditional view, the man is responsible for the financial expenses of the wedding, which is also a socially accepted Xi.
However, in the process of preparing for a wedding, a lot of money may be involved, especially in the celebrity circle, and the cost of the wedding will continue to rise due to show-off and face problems. If the man is financially unable to bear this pressure, he is prone to emotional conflicts after marriage. Behind the luxury of the wedding, it is necessary for the husband and wife to understand and support together, so as not to become the financial burden of the marriage.
Second, the case of divorce without children for one year after marriage shows that the expectation of childbearing in marriage may also be one of the reasons for marital instability.
Although every couple is full of beautiful fantasies about their future life at the beginning of their marriage, when real life comes, couples may have disagreements over fertility issues. This also reminds us that before entering the marriage hall, we should fully communicate and understand each other's expectations, not only the ideal state of marriage, but also have a clear understanding of the direction of future life.
Moreover, the high cost of a lavish wedding is not a guarantee of happiness. Stars such as Dou Xiao and He Chaolian have also experienced luxurious weddings, but this cannot be a sufficient condition for a happy marriage.
On the contrary, sometimes the pursuit of luxury can make the wedding a business hype, causing the couple to be subjected to external pressure and negative emotions. When handling a wedding, it is necessary to carefully consider the financial investment and future challenges, treat the marriage rationally, and pay attention to the cultivation and management of feelings.
Finally, the wedding case of celebrities provides us with a perspective to think about, that is, wedding is not the whole of marriage, but more important is the relationship and tacit understanding between husband and wife.
Each couple has their own unique marriage model, some choose to be low-key and simple, and some prefer luxury and romance. No matter which way you choose, you should be clear about the expectations of both parties, cherish every moment in your marriage, and not be swayed by external pressures.
In general, weddings, as part of the marriage ceremony, although they have beautiful symbolic meanings, can also have a series of problems in real life. A rational view of marriage and clarity on the responsibilities and expectations of both parties is essential to maintaining the stability and happiness of the marriage.