Xia Yu fell in love with Yuan Quan at a glance and started the road of courtship
In 1998, it was a hot summer day. Xia Yu, who was 22 years old at the time, went to play ball in the playground of the Chinese opera after finishing a day's filming as usual.
Wiping the sweat from his forehead, he inadvertently caught a glimpse of a girl with wet hair approaching him while resting. Xia Yu's footsteps faltered, as if the whole world had stood still. He saw her holding a washbasin, her hair still dripping, and her eyes shining.
It turned out that it was Yuan Quan, the younger sister of the Chinese opera. Xia Yu inquired about her situation and immediately decided to pursue her. Yuan Quan is introverted and doesn't like to socialize much, and Xia Yu's crazy pursuit caught her off guard.
A big star-level male god stalked her, she was at a loss at first, and she was also worried that the two were from different circles and would be difficult to get along. But Xia Yu was not discouraged and continued to pursue frantically.
Until one rainy night, Xia Yu drove to pick her up and said that he would take her to the Great Wall to see the lanterns. There was a soft and lingering song in the car, and the sound of rain was beating on the windows. At this moment, Yuan Quan suddenly had a feeling of traveling through time and space, as if he had returned to a rainy day in the past and met his young self.
For the first time, she discovered that this seemingly flamboyant boy was actually a little sensitive and fragile inside. Maybe he needs his own warmth and pampering. Yuan Quan finally decided to give Xia Yu a chance and give this relationship a possibility.
In this way, the two started a campus romance in Chinese opera.
Xia Yu has changed a lot for Yuan Quan, no longer always participating in entertainment activities, but making more time to spend with her. The two of them would go to the library to read a book, take a walk in the playground, and eat near the school...... Every little action made Yuan Quan feel his intentions.
She also slowly opened her heart, and the ambiguity with Xia Yu deepened. They became a famous couple in Chinese opera, and everyone envied their sweet and happy relationship.
The two developed their own careers after the society
After graduating from college, the two had to face the reality and go their separate ways to develop their careers.
Yuan Quan chose the direction of drama he loved and joined the Central Experimental Theater. At first, due to the poor box office of the drama, the income was limited, and life was poor. But she didn't give up and continued to work hard to perform.
Finally, she played the heroine in the drama "Beautiful Feet", which was deeply loved by the audience and won the 24th Hundred Flowers Supporting Actress Award. This opened up Yuan Quan's popularity and popularity, and also made her the youngest winner in the history of the Hundred Flowers Award.
At the same time, Xia Yu's film career also reached a new peak. In 2003, he starred in the costume action film "Dragon Gate Flying Armor", which achieved both commercial success and word-of-mouth, and Xia Yu also won the 40th Taiwan Film Golden Horse Award for Best Actor for this film.
One award after another poured into him, and Xia Yu won the reputation of "Three Actors". The two shined in their respective fields at the same time, becoming two of the most dazzling new stars in the mainland.
has obviously shined in his career, but the love between the two has not retreated at all. In this hectic and hectic schedule, they meet regularly to go for walks, watch movies, and cook together...... Anything is a little thing that touches people.
The two support and encourage each other, and also gain strength from each other. It is with this solid backing that the two can move forward bravely without fear of hardships.
Watching Xia Yu harvest applause and flowers on the podium, Yuan Quan's heart swelled with great pride and joy. He is the best destination in her life, and this love is worth everything she deserves.
Yuan Quan's pain, Xia Yu's meticulous care
In 2003, when Yuan Quan was rehearsing the drama "Ruan Lingyu", he accidentally fell from a height and suffered a severe comminuted fracture of his left shoulder. This is tantamount to a bolt from the blue for her, who loves the stage.
What worries her even more is that at the time of the SARS epidemic, the risk of infection in the hospital population was high.
Upon hearing the news, Xia Yu immediately drove to the hospital. He carefully carried the injured Yuan Quan into the car, for fear that he would accidentally pull her wound. To avoid the pain caused by the bumps in the vehicle, he filled the compartment with soft pillows and bedding.
"Let's go home. Xia Yu whispered to Yuan Quan. He decided to take her back to her hometown in Qingdao to recuperate.
Along the way, he always paid attention to Yuan Quan's condition, for fear that she would feel a little pain.
After arriving in Qingdao, Xia Yu settled Yuan Quan and began to take care of her daily life and diet. Yuan Quan needed to fix the fractured shoulder with a steel plate, and Xia Yu helped her change the dressing every day, moving gently as if she was treating her beloved treasure.
The summer breeze blows the curtains, and the sun shines on the two, as if they have returned to the carefree school days.
"Xia Yu, I love you so much. Yuan Quan was moved to tears.
"I love you too, for the rest of my life. Xia Yu clenched her hand.
Xia Yu, who always runs around on weekdays, has been guarding Yuan Quan's side every step these days. He personally cooked nutritious meals for her, and accompanied her to watch TV series to relieve boredom.
Xia Yu's love made Yuan Quan feel unprecedented happiness and satisfaction. Maybe this is love, when you are sick, what you are most afraid of is not illness, but no one to accompany you.
The two of them spent a long summer in their hometown. After recovering from their injuries, they reluctantly left the place. However, this time will always remain in the hearts of the two and become a shining point on their love road.
When the storm comes, they will also think of the beauty of this place and draw strength.
Plagued by scandals, the two experienced separation and reunion
However, the good times were short-lived. In 2006, just when the two had a bumper harvest in their careers and love, the media suddenly exposed the scandal between Xia Yu and the popular actress Fan Bingbing. According to reports, the two secretly dated at Shanghai Fashion Week and kissed ambiguously in full view of everyone.
Seeing this explosive news, Yuan Quan was stunned. She couldn't believe that her beloved boyfriend would cheat. Close friends told her that the Internet had exploded, and fans were condemning Xia Yu's infidelity.
Yuan Quan endured the pain in his heart and clarified for Xia Yu in public, saying that it was just a misunderstanding by the media.
"I'm sure he won't do anything to hurt me. Yuan Quan said.
However, the turmoil that was finally calmed down made a comeback in 2007. This time, Xia Yu was photographed dating Gao Yuanyuan, and the intimacy of the two was obvious.
What shocked Yuan Quan the most was that according to the news, she and Xia Yu had broken up as early as the beginning of the year.
"This is the true face of Xia Yu, stop deceiving yourself!" A close friend advised.
Yuan Quan was in pain, she couldn't believe that her 6-year love was shattered like this. Cheating is unforgivable, and a breakup is the only outcome. With the support of his friends, Yuan Quan gradually walked out of the shadow of emotional sadness.
Just when everyone firmly believed that the two would break up, in October 2007, they suddenly made public the news of their reunion, which caught everyone off guard again.
Obviously he had already broken his heart once, but Yuan Quan still chose to believe it and gave Xia Yu a chance to start over.
Maybe this is love, it's not who is right and who is wrong, but the feelings that have been precipitated in time are too deep. Xi to his existence, even if he experienced wind and rain, he was reluctant to let go.
To love someone is to love all his strengths and weaknesses. Although Xia Yu was once adrift, Yuan Quan believed that he would change and become a better person.
Getting married and stepping into a new life, Yuan Quan took on the heavy responsibility alone
In 2009, after all kinds of ups and downs, Xia Yu and Yuan Quan finally entered the palace of marriage. It was a simple ceremony, but it carried too much joy and expectation for the two of them.
The days of the newlywed Yan'er are sweet and warm. However, this situation did not last long. Xia Yu's romantic and enthusiastic personality is difficult to restrain and lives a free and easy life.
Outside of work, he is always on the go and having fun. Yuan Quan was busy with heavy drama work, but Xia Yu spent his days hanging out with friends and was almost irresponsible for his family obligations.
"He's like a free seagull that can never be caught. Yuan Quan looked at Xia Yu's back and sighed secretly.
So the burden of supporting his family fell completely on Yuan Quan's shoulders alone. After work, she also has to take care of the housework, and sometimes she can't sleep until midnight. These days, she has had a very hard time, but she has never complained or complained about anything to anyone.
Maybe she has long understood that this is her destiny in this life. Xia Yu's personality is difficult to change, she can only accept and Xi it in her own way. Just like when he apologized again and again, Yuan Quan still chose to believe it.
She understands that only by giving more can she hope that this relationship will last for a long time.
Sometimes Xia Yu would pick up Yuan Quan from work after work, and the two would have dinner together.
"Tired or not?" He gently took her hand.
"I'm not tired, I don't feel tired when I'm with you. Yuan Quan smiled.
At this time, the warmth was the greatest satisfaction for her. To love someone is to love him for who he is, not for anything else attached to him. She believes that as long as the two of them are still heart-to-heart, all hardships can be overcome.
14 years of married life is self-aware
14 years of married life has not been smooth sailing, and it has also experienced many reality tests after the romance faded.
Xia Yu's flowery heart and irresponsibility often hurt Yuan Quan's heart. There was a time when Xia Yu was obsessed with online games, nesting in front of the computer all day long to play games, leaving Yuan Quan alone at home.
Yuan Quan felt lonely, but he couldn't change him.
"Don't you think about our feelings?" She asked, red-eyed.
"I'm sorry, I'll change. Xia Yu hugged her and said.
However, the situation has not improved much. Xia Yu still went his own way, and Yuan Quan gradually became numb. She worked hard to support her family and poured all her emotions into her career.
In fact, it is not only romance that fades from feelings, but also some small joys in life. After the quarrel, there was a cold war, and the days of their respective lives became more and more...... This is the portrayal of many old husbands and wives.
A sense of familiarity arose between them.
But every time the two of them are anniversary, Xia Yu will still appear on time, with a bouquet of gifts. He will take Yuan Quan to see the important places of the two back then, and relive the bits and pieces of love again.
"We are old husbands and wives, and we have to keep holding hands. Xia Yu said.
Although it is no longer the same as it was back then, on this day every year, Yuan Quan will still find the feeling he once had. In fact, the most precious thing in the relationship is this Xi and familiarity.
After the baptism of wind and rain and years, they have become each other's closest family.
Love changes with time, but as long as the two hearts are still closely connected, all difficulties will eventually pass. This may be the secret of the happiness of the old husband and wife.
There is no need to worry about gains and losses in the relationship
Although the 14-year relationship process has been magnificent, Yuan Quan has never regretted choosing Xia Yu.
In her opinion, the most precious thing about feelings is not the length of companionship, but the wordless companionship; It's not the amount of romance, but the bits and pieces of life; Not the fervor of the vow, but the Xi.
Xia Yu's mistakes stung her from time to time, but what she saw was his later redemption and remorse. Mistakes happen, but as long as the hearts are together, there is still hope.
Too many people let go on the spur of the moment, only to regret it after separation. She didn't want to be one of them.
To love someone is to love everything about him, even the imperfect parts. Xia Yu is still the most important person in her life. It's not because these 14 years are too long, but because this feeling is too deep and engraved in the bones.
The road of affection will not be smooth sailing, only through the wind and rain and thorns, will you understand the value of happiness. If she could do it all over again, she would still choose Xia Yu, because to love one person is to love the whole him.
Xia Yu's fault may be the condiment of this feeling.
She doesn't need how sweet or bitter love is, she doesn't need to remember every detail. The only important thing is that on this long road, you and I have been heart-to-heart and supported each other.
I hope that this sincere friendship will become the light of our warm life.