Grandpa came to the city to see a doctor, but he didn't leave, I slept on the sofa for a month, and my mother blamed me for being ignorant.
My grandfather's visit to the city for medical treatment is something I don't understand all along. Grandpa was a stubborn old man, the kind of person who couldn't believe he was really sick if you didn't see him sick with your own eyes. But this time, he actually came to my city, and it was because he wanted to see a doctor. I couldn't believe it at the time, but the facts were there, and I had to accept the reality.
My grandfather lived in my house, because of his old man's physical fitness, the hospital bed was really not good, so he had to let him recuperate at home. But here's the problem, after my grandfather got better, he never wanted to leave! My mother and I persuaded him several times, but he always vaguely said, "You are busy with you, don't worry about me" and something like that.
So I became my grandfather's dormitory, and now I think it's kind of funny in retrospect. I had my own bedroom at home, but in order to give my grandfather a rest, I had to curl up on the sofa in the living room and sleep alone for three whole months. Fortunately, I'm young and can sleep on the sofa.
However, my mother is quite dissatisfied with this, I am not sensible every day, how can I let my grandfather occupy my place, I don't hurry up and let him go back to his hometown to rest. I thought to myself that this old man was really good-natured, and at the same time I was holding back my dissatisfaction with my mother.
On this day, my mother pulled me to talk, "Look at you, it's all because you are usually ignorant, so that my grandfather can live comfortably." You'll have to find a way to get him back to rest. ”
After my mom said this, I still think it's good for my grandfather to stay here, but I can't say such things directly to my mom. I chimed in and said, "I see, I'll figure it out." ”
A few days later, I was watching TV in the living room with my grandfather. Suddenly, my mother called, and her voice revealed concern, "Come out and see, there is a big truck blocking our door, and we can't move it." ”
I hung up the phone and hurriedly said to my grandfather, "Grandpa, you sit down first, and I'll go out and see if I can help move the car." Grandpa nodded in understanding.
Sure enough, there was a truck jam outside, and the driver was haggling with my mother around a group of neighbors, saying that some things in the house were too big to be delivered to my door. I knew in my heart that it might not be appropriate for my grandfather to participate in this kind of thing, so I planned to help myself. But at this moment, my brother suddenly walked over, looked around and said, "Hey, this truck is quite reliable, it seems that the other party is at fault." ”
My mom and I looked at each other in disbelief. My mom said to my brother, "How can you tell that? Our doors are blocked, and our family has a hard time even going out, and this is still a reliable thing?"
My brother laughed and said, "Don't panic, let me take care of it." Then my brother walked straight up to the truck driver and said in a firm tone, "It's not right for you to block someone's door like this, you are going to drive the car away immediately." ”
When the driver heard this, his face immediately turned embarrassed, obviously not expecting anyone to object. My mom joined in and started yelling at the driver, and the scene became chaotic for a while. As I watched from the sidelines, I became more and more anxious.
Seeing this, my grandfather walked out and said to my brother, "This matter is still handled by our family, so we don't need to be so stiff." I immediately took the opportunity to say, "Yes, let's stop arguing, let's discuss how to solve this matter." ”
But my brother and my mother didn't buy it at all, and they continued to argue with the driver. I felt powerless and began to blame myself. If it weren't for my help, Grandpa wouldn't have come out and wouldn't have had so many things. I really want to find a crack in the ground to get into.
I was struggling with what to do, and this question bothered me for days. At this moment, a seemingly inconsequential incident escalated the contradiction further.
That night, my grandfather and my mother got into an argument over a trivial matter. What was originally just an unintentional joke became amplified by each other's sensitive emotions, and finally tragically evolved into a quarrel.
I know that my mom didn't have much of an opinion about my grandfather, but the emotions that she had been enduring finally broke out on this trivial topic. But Grandpa took it very seriously and said "You are women, don't care", anyone knows that this is the knot of his vicious circle - his heart is fragile but he can't admit tolerance.
My mother was so angry with this sentence that she cried on the spot. I had mixed feelings and hoped that they would all calm down, but I didn't know how to break the deadlock.
In the days that followed, the atmosphere at home became extremely awkward. My grandfather was depressed at home every day, and my mother also looked sad. I was very anxious about this, after all, I am the elder in the family, and I should coordinate and resolve family conflicts. But this time, I didn't know where to start.
I started to take the initiative to find opportunities to talk to my grandfather, hoping to explain to him my mother's difficulties. But every time he talked about this topic, he always waved his hand impatiently and changed the subject.
My mother, on the other hand, complained about my grandfather's bad temper in front of me, saying that how could he stay in the city in the future, and that it would be better to go back to his hometown early to rest. The constant conflict made the atmosphere in the house more and more cool, and I felt unbearable. I don't know how I can balance my grandfather and my mother.
I thought to myself, I didn't expect my grandfather to live for so long, and my mother is still not tired. It's been a bit of a maddening day. Just as I was discussing with my grandfather downstairs about how to go back to my hometown to rest, there was a sudden rush of bells. I glanced at the phone screen, and it was my grandfather's name. I quickly picked up the phone.
"Hey, Grandpa, what's wrong?" I asked hurriedly.
"Come on, Xiaobao, come here, don't let your mother know. Grandpa's voice revealed a hint of panic.
Confused, I quickly ran up. Pushing open the door of my grandfather's house, I saw my grandfather lying on the bed with a pale face, beads of sweat oozing from his forehead, obviously, my grandfather's condition has changed again.
I hurriedly called an ambulance, and when the doctor diagnosed it, it turned out that my grandfather's previous condition had relapsed and he needed to be readmitted to the hospital. Grandpa looked at me with a worried expression on his face, trying to comfort me, "Xiaobao, I'm really sorry for worrying you this time......
I was anxious and helpless. When I explained my grandfather's condition to my mother, her eyes were full of guilt and distress. Looking at the trace of pain on my grandfather's face, I couldn't help but feel a little guilty. Maybe my mom and I were a little impulsive, and my mom's reproachful words to me during this time made me a little sad, but now I understand that she is just out of concern for me and grandpa. Family and everything is prosperous, I hope grandpa recovers soon.
My mother's words made me very embarrassed, and I couldn't bear to drive my grandfather away. But some time ago, the company worked a lot of overtime, and I didn't have time to deal with this matter. Until one day, when I came home from work, I saw my grandfather sitting in the living room with a heavy expression on his face, and my heart was a little hairy.
"What's wrong with Grandpa?" I asked softly.
"Nothing. Grandpa shook his head and waved his hand. But I could tell at a glance that he definitely didn't look like he was fine.
"Say something, don't hide it. I sat down next to him and patted him on the back, "Look at you, you're almost as thin as a chopstick." ”
Grandpa sighed, "I have an aunt who just called me. ”
I was stunned for a moment, "Which aunt?"
"You don't know, it's from my hometown. Grandpa said, "She said that there have been natural and man-made disasters in her hometown recently, and I need to deal with things at home." ”
I was stunned right now. My mother and I have been wondering why my grandfather has been refusing to leave, is it because there is something going on in his hometown? If he doesn't say it, how do we know?
I thought about it for a moment, "Grandpa, what do you want? Do you want me to accompany you back?"
"No, no, no. Grandpa waved his hand, "You're busy with work, so don't delay you." ”
I shook my head, "It's not going to delay things. I happen to be on vacation, so it's okay to go back with you. ”
"No, no, no. Grandpa waved his hand again, "You don't have to worry about this." ”
We were at a stalemate, and finally I gave up. But I knew in my heart that someone still had to go back to my hometown this time, and my grandfather couldn't handle it alone.
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