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Modern History
She laughed at herself as "a big and beautiful woman in two shoes", and after a high fever when she was 1 year old, her life could only "crawl".
At the age of 24, despite everyone's opposition, she insisted on marrying a 46-year-old man who had nothing and both parents were in poor health and needed medical treatment.
After marriage, she risked her life and gave birth to two daughters, and now more than ten years later, her daughters have grown up.
Are the two children the same as her, they can only "crawl!" Looking at her children, does Dong Mingying regret it?
Dong Mingying was born in Rizhao, Shandong, with a total of three children in the family, she is the second, and they all said that the elders at that time were prone to patriarchy, but Dong Mingying became the "sole favorite" of the family, and she was the favorite of the family.
When he was one year old, the family who was sleeping soundly in the middle of the night was suddenly woken up by Dong Mingying's crying, and when his parents were about to put Dong Mingying to sleep, they accidentally found that Dong Mingying's body was very hot, and then they knew that Dong Mingying had a fever.
At that time, there was not much attention to treating children, so the parents gave Dong Mingying medicine, thinking that it would be good to sleep, and the child should get better quickly.
As a result, Dong Mingying still cried non-stop, and the high fever never went down, there was really no way, so her parents took Dong Mingying, who was only one year old, to the health center for an injection.
Not long after the injection, the fever subsided, but the unexpected situation also followed......
In the past, Dong Mingying often kicked her legs or kicked other things with her feet, but her parents later found that Dong Mingying, who was very lively in the past and did some funny things from time to time, was no longer lively.
They didn't even sit up, they tried to pick Dong Mingying up, and then put it down in a sitting position, but as soon as they sat down, Dong Mingying fell straight forward.
Her parents didn't know why, thinking that it would be good to wait for Dong Mingying to grow up a little more, after all, some children are slow to learn things, but they didn't wait at all.
When other people's children can learn to walk slowly, Dong Mingying is still lying on the bed, and when the parents want to teach Dong Mingying to walk by hand, they finally find out that something is wrong!
They hurriedly took Dong Mingying to the hospital to see a doctor, and the hospital in the town was okay to treat some minor illnesses, but this situation was really a bit embarrassing for the hospital in the town, and the doctor only gave a guess, maybe there was a nerve problem.
After coming to the big hospital, the doctor couldn't find any problems after some examination, and the last sentence of the question of whether the child had been sick before woke up Dong Mingying's parents, because they thought of the high fever when they were 1 year old.
It was also after that high fever that Dong Mingying began to change, and the conclusion given by the doctor after listening to it was not particularly certain, but it can basically be concluded that it was the high fever that year caused Dong Mingying's nerve problems.
Now that the problem can be diagnosed, her parents seem to see hope for treatment, but the doctor's next words poured cold water on them, with the situation at that time, after all, so much time has passed, and there is no possibility of treatment at all.
Another reason is that the conditions in Dong Mingying's family are not good, and even if they really go for treatment, they can't afford the sky-high cost of treatment, so they can only choose to give up.
Self-blame is also after this, accompanied by Dong Mingying's parents in the second half of their lives, they blame themselves, if they had paid more attention to it back then, would their children be the same as other children?
Since she is different from other children, their parents have also decided to let Dong Mingying go to school, if she does not go to school, it means that in the hearts of her parents, she has become an "outlier." ”
I have to say that Dong Mingying's parents made a very correct choice, on the first day of school, Dong Mingying realized for the first time that he was different from other children, everyone walked on two legs, but he was different when he was lying on the ground.
After returning home that day, she clamored that she didn't want to go to school again, but with the encouragement of her parents, Dong Mingying was carried to school by her parents the next day.
Fortunately, the children in the school did not look at her differently and isolated her, Dong Mingying herself slowly came out of the psychology of inferiority, and the people around her were willing to play with her, Dong Mingying also became more optimistic.
But the conditions at home were not good, so Dong Mingying decided to drop out of school and persuaded her parents that she hadn't finished elementary school at that time, but she was already sensible and distressing.
After not going to school, Dong Mingying began to do some manual work and earn some extra money, but she still helped at home most of the time.
From that time on, Dong Mingying never let her family worry about her, but she was like a little adult, working for the family everywhere, learning to cook and clean, but this also made her parents feel even more guilty.
lived like this plainly, until Dong Mingying was 24 years old, he met 46-year-old Feng Zhiyu, because Dong Mingying was very special circumstances, no one was willing to marry her.
Feng Zhiyu is also poor and white because his family is poor, and no girl is willing to marry him, everyone knows that once he marries, he will be punished! But Dong Mingying's perspective on people and things is completely different.
Feng Zhiyu has several brothers, all of whom are working outside to treat their parents, Feng Zhiyu chose to stay at home and take care of his parents, which made Dong Mingying see responsibility and filial piety in him.
So Dong Mingying put forward the idea of marrying Feng Zhiyu, in fact, this also has her own careful thoughts, if she never marries, she will not be able to become a burden in the end.
Even if his parents objected in every way, Dong Mingying's mind had been decided, and Feng Zhiyu also knew Dong Mingying, on the contrary, he did not dislike it, but treated Dong Mingying very well.
Feng Zhiyu wanted to have a child, but he took Dong Mingying to the hospital to see that if Dong Mingying gave birth under this circumstance, it was likely that his life would be in danger, so he dispelled the idea of having a child.
Dong Mingying didn't know, so after discussing with her husband, the two gave birth to a daughter in 2008 and another girl a few years later.
Their two children did not feel inferior because of the poverty of the family and Dong Mingying's disability, but they became more aware of their mother's greatness.
In their eyes, their mother is pride, and the two children often show off to other classmates how good their mother is.
With the development of the Internet, more and more ordinary people can create wealth through short videos, and even turn over, and Dong Mingying is also one of them.
She initially just wanted to try to post her video, but she didn't expect to be particularly liked by netizens, and the comment area was also encouraging her and praising her.
This gave Dong Mingying greater determination, she began to bring goods, but the goods she brought were all melons, fruits and vegetables grown by the villagers themselves or handmade by themselves, which not only realized the growth of their wealth, but also led the villagers on the road to prosperity in disguise.
And her husband did not choose to lie at home because Dong Mingying was angry, Feng Zhiyu thought that he should work harder, while he could still do his best, to earn money.
In the face of the flying disaster, Dong Mingying did not complain, but was self-reliant and self-reliant, hoping that their future life would be more satisfying.
Reference source: The source in this article is from the official media (Weinan Political Science and Law), released on March 28, 2022.