On that day, I went to the man's house to return the bride price, and saw the subject feeding the 90-year-old grandfather, and the girl secretly changed her mind.
When I came to the man's house, I saw that his family were waiting in the living room, looking a little nervous, and I couldn't suppress my inner apprehension.
It was a sunny day, and I went with my family to a relative's wedding. At the wedding, I saw how big the bride was smiling, and her beauty seemed to light up the entire banquet hall.
However, it backfired. After the wedding, I gradually discovered some facts that I didn't want to see. The groom is not such a considerate person, and he always complains that the bride is not diligent and submissive enough.
Since then, I have had many doubts about marriage and family. I don't know where the line between happiness and unhappiness lies, and I don't know if I'll find my own happiness.
In the living room of the man's house, everyone enthusiastically poured tea for me and asked me how I was doing. While talking to them, I found the kindness and affinity of my boyfriend's family.
And her boyfriend has been pouring water and handing facial towels for his grandfather, looking very filial.
Suddenly, my boyfriend's grandfather let out a cough, and I hurried over to pat him on the back. At this time, my boyfriend walked up to my grandfather and said, "Grandpa, you eat slowly, I'll help you."
Seeing this scene, my heart was deeply touched. Suddenly, I felt as if I was seeing happiness.
Maybe happiness lies in such an ordinary life, just like a boyfriend, treating his family with heart and life responsibly.
Perhaps, I should believe in my choice and give myself a chance to be happy.
My feelings became complicated, and I realized that perhaps the family was not as harmonious as it seemed.
I felt a little hesitant and anxious and didn't know what that meant.
That night, my boyfriend and I talked in his room about what happened today. My boyfriend told me that the conflict between his parents has been there for a long time, and every time the bride price thing happens, it triggers their quarrels.
I was silent for a moment, and then comforted him softly, saying that family conflicts are certainly distressing, but as long as everyone understands and tolerates them with their hearts, maybe the problem will be solved.
The next day, on the way home from my boyfriend, he confessed to me that he had always been concerned about family problems, especially the conflict between his grandfather and his parents.
I looked at his anxious expression, and an unspeakable sense of distress and helplessness welled up in my heart.
All this got me thinking deeply. Perhaps, happiness is really not about the superficial glamour and smiles, but requires tolerance and understanding between family members.
When I got home, I couldn't help but think of my parents. Although they have had their differences and disputes, they have always faced them with a peaceful attitude.
It was their support and example that made me who I am today. I suddenly understood that family disputes may not be terrible, the key is whether the members are willing to tolerate and understand each other.
There is still a long way to go, and I need to be more mature and think more rationally about my marriage and family life.
I have to be prepared to face whatever the future may bring. I hope that my boyfriend and I can work together to find solutions to our family problems and also lay a solid foundation for our future.
Just then, the phone rang. The boyfriend picked up the phone, and his expression was a little solemn after listening, it seemed that he was in a hurry.
I nodded, looking at his back as he left in a hurry, and my trust in him became even stronger.
After the boyfriend left, the living room returned to a lively and welcoming atmosphere. We chatted about family life, laughed and shared interesting stories about each other.
Suddenly, there was a quarrel outside the living room, and I looked at it and saw that it was my boyfriend's parents arguing over some trivial matter.
"Why do you keep doing this? Why are you ignorant?" the mother scolded loudly, pointing to his father's nose, "don't nag me all the time, look at you, and make grandpa upset."
Seeing this scene, my heart couldn't help but fluctuate. On the occasion of the wedding, the parents quarreled over some trivial matters.
But the quarrel also makes the family nervous and unpleasant.
I understand that no family can be perfect, including my future family. But I understand better that the family is not without contradictions, but has contradictions, but can still maintain warmth and harmony.
The boyfriend hurried back, still with a worried expression on his face. We said goodbye to my boyfriend's family and headed home.
The experience of this day made me more determined in my choice, and it also made me more aware of the importance of strife and harmony in the family.
As for the happiness of the future, I will cherish and work harder, and I will be more understanding and tolerant. Because happiness is not dull and boring, but grows in contradictions and sublimates in tolerance.