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My name is Li Ming, an ordinary office worker, working hard in this hustle and bustle of the city. My wife, Xiaoqing, is a beautiful woman, but her attitude towards money always confuses me. Our marriage, like the weather in this city, is unpredictable.
"Ming, what about this month's salary?" Xiaoqing's voice floated from the kitchen, and she was busy preparing dinner.
I pulled the envelope out of my pocket and placed it on the dining table. "It's all here, take a look. ”
She quickly opened the envelope and counted the money. I know she always does, even though I've never given her a penny less.
"Ming, your mother called and said she was sick and needed money. Xiaoqing said casually while flipping through the recipe.
My heart sank. My mom is a strong woman and rarely tells me bad news. She is sick, and it must be not a bad situation.
"We've got to send her some money. "I tried to put it lightly.
Xiaoqing didn't look up and continued to flip through the recipe. "Didn't you just give me the money? This month's budget is all arranged, how can there be extra money for her. ”
I was stunned. Yes, I gave all my salary to Xiaoqing, but I didn't expect that even my mother would not be able to support her when she was sick.
"But she's my mom, and we're going to have to help when she's sick. "I try to stay calm.
Xiaoqing finally raised her head, her brows furrowed. "You're like this every time, it's our money, but you always want to give it to your mother. You are her son, but you are also my husband and the pillar of this family. ”
I knew it wouldn't lead me to argue with her. I turned around and went back to the living room, picked up the phone and called my mom. My mother's weak voice came from the other end of the phone, and I could hear that she was holding back the pain.
"Ming'er, I'm fine, it's just that the old problem has been made again. My mom did her best to make her voice sound calm.
"Mom, don't hold on, I'll transfer you some money. "I was anxious, but I didn't know where the money was coming from.
There was silence on the other end of the line for a moment. "No, son, I know it's not easy for you and Xiaoqing to live. I'll figure it out myself. ”
Hanging up the phone, I felt powerless than ever. I was the breadwinner of the family, but I couldn't even help my mother when she was sick. I need to find a way to fix this.
I decided to go to my friend Xiao Li first, who is a financial advisor and might be able to give me some advice. I picked up the key and told Xiaoqing that I should go out for a while.
Walking in the night, my mother's words and Xiaoqing's dissatisfaction kept echoing in my mind. All of this left me feeling deeply struggling and helpless. I needed to find a way to balance family and filial piety. Xiao Li's home was not far away, and I quickened my pace.
Walking into Xiao Li's house, I found him watching TV in the living room, and turned off the TV as soon as he saw me.
"What's the matter, Ming? Come here so late. Xiao Li asked with concern.
I sat down, sighed, and told him what had happened today.
After hearing this, Xiao Li pondered for a while. "Ming, you are caught between your wife and mother, it is really difficult. But you have to solve the problem at hand first. Your mom is sick, that's the primary concern. ”
I nodded, this was what I wanted to do most in my heart.
"Can you try to find a part-time job, or are there any other sources of income?" Xiao Li suggested.
I smiled wryly. "Part-time job, I've thought about it too, but I'm busy enough during the day, and I have to accompany Xiaoqing at night, so time is really tight. ”
"Then you have to communicate with Xiaoqing well, after all, this is about your mother's health. Xiao Li said.
I nodded, knowing it had to be done, even though I knew in my heart that it was going to be a difficult conversation.
When I got home, I found that Xiaoqing had already slept. I sat on the couch in the living room, looking at the room in the dark, thinking about how to start this conversation. Eventually, I decided to have a good talk with her the next morning.
The next day, I woke up early and prepared breakfast. When Xiaoqing woke up, I mustered up the courage and started our conversation.
"Xiaoqing, I went to talk to Xiao Li last night. I started talking.
"Oh, what are you talking about?" asked Xiaoqing as she ate her breakfast.
"It's about my mom. She really needs the money. "I try to keep my tone as calm as possible.
Xiaoqing stopped what she was doing and looked at me. "I know you want to help your mom, but we also have our lives to live. You can't ignore us just because of her. ”
"I understand, but I'm also her son, she's sick now, and I can't leave it alone. I tried to explain.
"What do you want? We've got a budget for this month. Xiaoqing's tone began to become a little cold.
"I want to find a part-time job, either in the evenings or on weekends. "I came up with my own ideas.
Xiaoqing was silent for a while. "Then when are you going to stay with me, and what about our lives?"
I know she's worried about our relationships and family life, but there's really nothing I can do.
"I try to manage my time as well as I can, and I don't want our lives to be affected. "I try my best to guarantee it.
Xiaoqing didn't answer immediately, but lowered her head and ate her breakfast. I knew she needed time to digest it.
On this day, I was searching for a possible part-time job between jobs. I got a weekend job helping out at a bookstore, and although it didn't pay much, it was better than nothing.
When I came home in the evening, I told Xiaoqing that I had found a part-time job. She didn't say much, just a soft "um".
A few days later, I started my part-time job. The quiet environment of the bookstore gave me time to think. I'm here
Organize books and occasionally help customers find what they're looking for. It's hard work, but it gives me a sense of peace. Whenever I move from bookcase to shelf, I think of my mom and how she used to encourage me to read and increase my knowledge.
One night, I was packing up my things at the bookstore to close when my phone rang. It was my mom calling.
"Ming'er, how are you doing?" my mom's voice sounded better than last time.
"Mom, I'm fine. How are you doing?" I asked.
"Much better, don't worry. Listen to your aunt, you recently got a part-time job?"
I was stunned for a moment, not expecting her to know. "Yes, Mom, I just want to make more money. ”
"Son, you've worked hard, too. But you also have to take care of yourself and don't break your body. My mother's tone was full of concern.
I promise to take care of myself. After hanging up the phone, I sighed deeply. I hope I can make enough money soon enough to take my mom's load off my shoulders.
A week later, I noticed that Xiaoqing's mood was getting lower and lower. She doesn't talk to me like she used to, and even when I get home, she often sits alone in the living room in a daze.
One night, I decided to start the conversation: "Xiaoqing, have you been thinking about anything lately?"
Xiaoqing looked at me for a while, and there seemed to be indescribable sadness in her eyes. "I just feel like there's less and less to talk to each other. ”
My heart tightened. "Is it because I've been busy with work and part-time lately?"
"It's not just that. I feel like our lives have become so monotonous, and there is a lack of passion and intimacy between us. ”
Hearing her say that, I felt a little sad in my heart. I know she's telling the truth, and we've had a lot less time to communicate and spend with each other since I started working part-time.
"I know I've been neglecting our relationship a little lately, and I'll try to adjust and regain that intimacy between us. I say sincerely.
Xiaoqing nodded, but I could feel that she was still a little lost in her heart.
That night, I lay in bed, thinking about how to balance family and work. I knew it wasn't going to be easy, but I had to do something.
A few days later, I ended my part-time job early and returned home. I prepared a hearty dinner for Xiaoqing, trying to ease the tension between us in this way.
"Xiaoqing, I think we can go out on a trip together and relax. "I came up with the idea at dinner.
Xiaoqing looked at me with a hint of surprise flashing in her eyes. "Really? Where are we going?"
"You can go to Yunnan, where you've always wanted to go. We can relax for a few days and get away from these worries. "I recommend.
A long-lost smile appeared on Xiaoqing's face. "Okay, so when are we leaving?"
We planned,
It was decided to depart on the long weekend next month. The planned trip made Xiaoqing's mood improve significantly, and the communication between us became more natural and frequent.
Over the next few weeks, I struggled to find a balance between work and family. I try to go home early in the evening and try to stay at home on weekends to spend time with Xiaoqing. We started planning the details of our trip together, from choosing a hotel to making an itinerary, and it all brought us closer together.
Finally, the day of travel has arrived. Together, we embarked on a journey to Yunnan. There, we admired the magnificent mountains and rivers and experienced the local folk culture. In those days, it was as if we had forgotten all our worries and stresses and only enjoyed each other's company.
In the ancient city of Lijiang, as we walked on the stone road, Xiaoqing leaned on my shoulder and whispered, "I've been really happy these days, I feel like we're back to when we first got married." ”
I shook her hand and replied affectionately, "Yes, Xiaoqing, I feel it too." I will work harder to maintain our relationship and not let work and other things interfere with us. ”
On the last day of the trip, we sat on the shore of Erhai Lake in Dali, looking at the Cangshan Erhai Lake in the distance, and my mood was unusually calm. I realized that no matter how busy my life is, I can't ignore the feelings of my family and loved ones. I decided to re-evaluate my life and work when I went back, minimize my part-time jobs, and spend more time with my family.
When I got home, the first thing I did was call my mom and ask about her condition. She told me that her health had improved and I was relieved to hear the news.
I also talked to Xiaoqing about my decision. I explained that although a part-time job can bring in additional income, it also takes away from the time we spend together. I wanted to refocus my life and put my family first.
After Xiaoqing heard this, a warm smile appeared on her face. "I support your decision, family is always the most important thing," she said. Together, we can work to improve our lives. ”
Over the next few months, I cut back on my activities outside of work and tried to find a better balance between work and family. Our lives have gradually returned to the warmth and harmony they once had.
During this time, I often think about my mother. Although I can't visit her often, I try to call her every week to find out how she's doing. I also send her some money on a regular basis, although it's not much, but I know it means a lot to her.
Life wasn't always smooth sailing, but through this experience, I learned how to better manage the relationship between family and work. I realized that no matter what difficulties we encounter, as long as our families are united, we can overcome them together.
Time passed like flowing water, and in the blink of an eye, a year passed. Our lives have become more stable and happier. Xiaoqing
smiling more often than before, she also started her own small business, running an online flower shop. I have also made new progress in my work and have been promoted, which has allowed me to devote more time and energy to my family.
Over the course of the year, my mom's health also stabilized. She started participating in wellness activities in the community and often called me to tell me about her new discoveries and daily routine. Although it was far away, I could feel her happiness and health.
Our lives seem to be on a new track. Every weekend, Xiaoqing and I make plans for the next week together, including family activities and Xiaoqing
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