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My relationship with my third child has always been very good, we used to get tired of playing together when we were young, and we often got together to drink and chat when we grew up. The third child is two years younger than me, but we have always been like brothers.
The third child's wedding date was soon set for May 18 at the country club in our hometown. I asked my boss for a month off work and decided that I had to attend my third wedding.
On May 18th, I got up early, put on the most formal suit, and went to the barber shop to get a clean short haircut, wanting to give the third child a perfect image. After coming to the wedding scene, I warmly hugged the third child: "Third child, congratulations! Today is the most important day of your life, you must be happy!" The third child also hugged me tightly: "Big brother, thank you for coming to my wedding! ”
Before the official start of the wedding, I specially prepared a big red envelope with 1,000 yuan in it, and said to the third child: "Third child, this is my wedding gift, I hope you and Xiaofang will live a happy life in the future!" The third child was flattered and thanked him repeatedly.
The wedding took place in a warm atmosphere, and I, as the best man of the third child, accompanied him all the time. I was also very happy to see the happy smile on the third child's face. After the wedding, I said goodbye to the guests and agreed to contact us often in the future.
In the years after the wedding, my third child and I were still in frequent contact by phone. Although he is busy taking care of his wife and children, and we have a lot less time to see each other, the relationship is still very good, and we often greet each other's family and work.
I was very happy that the third child still remembered me, so I invited him to come to my wedding as a best man. The third child readily agreed. After hanging up, I set out to prepare for my wedding.
Preparations for the wedding began a month in advance. I found a high-end wedding company, ordered a beautiful wedding car, and carefully prepared the wedding process. Nini also picked out beautiful wedding dresses and suits with me. We all want to have a grand and warm wedding.
On October 1st, I arrived at the hotel two hours early to check the set-up. Nini also arrived early and began to put on makeup and try on wedding dresses. When I saw her in her wedding dress, I was thrilled and kept complimenting her on her beauty.
Just as I was checking the wedding scene, a phone call suddenly came in, I picked it up, and it was the third child calling. He said quickly on the phone: "Big brother, I'm sorry, I may not be able to come to your wedding, our family suddenly has an emergency, I have to go back to my hometown, I'm really sorry!"
I was very disappointed when I heard this, and immediately said, "Third child, how can you be like this, you won't come to my big day? The third child apologized repeatedly on the other end of the phone, but his attitude was very resolute, saying that he would not come back to my wedding no matter what.
I could only hang up the phone, sad and angry. I had been waiting for the third child to arrive early in the morning, but now he can't come, and I can't accept this fact. But when the wedding date comes, the wedding must take place, so I can only put this matter aside for the time being.
Soon the guests arrived, and Nini put on her wedding dress and stood by backstage. Although I was not in a good mood, I reluctantly adjusted and prepared to start the wedding. Just when the host announced the entry of the newcomers, the back door suddenly opened, and a person ran in out of breath, and it turned out to be the third child!
I was surprised and delighted, and stepped forward to hug the third child: "The third child, you are finally here!" The third child said breathlessly: "I'm sorry big brother, I'm worried about you, I will definitely attend your wedding, but it's just a little delayed temporarily." I saw that he looked apologetic, so I stopped thinking about it and led him to his place and sat down.
The wedding took place in a warm atmosphere, and Nini and I exchanged rings with each other and completed the holy marriage with the blessings of all. After the wedding, I saw the third child standing alone in the corner, so I stepped forward and asked him, "Didn't you just say that you had an urgent matter to go back to your hometown, why did you finally attend the wedding?"
He asked, "Third child, what's the matter with you?" You said that you had something urgent to go back to your hometown and came to my wedding again, what happened in the middle?"
The third brother hesitated for a long time before he said: "Big brother, to tell you the truth, I received a phone call this morning, which was from my former creditor, saying that if I don't pay off the debt, he will come to my house to make trouble." I was in a hurry, so I could only call you first to tell you that there was something urgent, and then hurry back to my hometown to find a way to pay off the debt. ”
After listening to the third child's explanation, I was so angry that I gave him a big slap on the spot: "The third child, I misjudged you! I gave you a red envelope from the bottom of my heart, and you actually used it to pay off the debt, and you didn't want all my thoughts! What else do I want for a friend like you!" The third child was slapped by me and his face was swollen, but he didn't say a word, just looked at me apologetically.
I looked at the third child, and my heart was like a knife. I thought about the bits and pieces we grew up together and thought we would always be good brothers and friends. But now it seems that the third child completely disappointed me, he not only betrayed my friendship, but also delayed my wedding, which is like revenge!
From today on, I don't want to see you again, you get out of me!" I yelled at the third child. The third child had red eyes, as if he wanted to explain something, but I turned around and left, never wanting to listen to his argument again.
After the wedding, I was deeply disappointed and in pain. He doesn't want the sincerity I give to the third child, he only treats me as an ATM. This feeling of betrayal cut my heart.
Later, I gradually calmed down and started a new life with Nini. Nini saw that I was always depressed, so she carefully comforted me: "Husband, don't be angry about the third child's affairs anymore, there will inevitably be misunderstandings between people, so you should take it as a lesson in life." What we have to do now is to cherish the life we have now. ”
I listened to Nini's words, and the pain in my heart gradually subsided. I realized that life had to go on, and I couldn't let the events of the third child affect my life. So, I started to put my heart and soul into my work, and I was more considerate of Nini.
And just like that, more than a year passed. One day, I suddenly received a courier with a delicate red envelope. I was a little puzzled, but when I opened it, it was actually full of money! and there was a letter that read:
"Big brother:
I haven't contacted you since that day because I know you don't want to see me anymore. For more than a year, I've been reflecting on what I've done. I know that it was the fault of my life to betray your friendship, that I hurt you and lost a loved one. I thought about it for a long, long time, and finally decided to pay back your 1,000 yuan that year to show my sincerity. I know it's not enough to make up for my mistakes, but that's my biggest concern at the moment. Big brother, I really know that I was wrong, and I just hope you can forgive me for being reckless back then. If you give me a chance to start over, I will definitely cherish our friendship. If you still can't forgive me, I have no regrets, I just hope you can live happily. This is my last wish. The third child"
The phone was quickly connected, and the third child said cautiously: "Hey, big brother, is it you?"
I took a deep breath and said calmly, "Third child, I have received your red envelope and letter. You've had a hard time for more than a year. ”
The third child said excitedly on the other end of the phone: "Big brother, I am so happy that you have finally contacted me again! I have had a very hard time for more than a year, and I always want to atone for my mistakes, and now you have finally given me a chance, I will definitely cherish it." ”
I was silent for a while, and then said, "Third child, I actually forgave you a long time ago. I was so angry because I cared too much about our friendship, but who is not a sage? Don't blame yourself, it's important to treat your wife and children well. ”
The third child was so excited that he couldn't speak, and repeatedly said "thank you, big brother" and "thank you, big brother" on the other end of the phone.
I smiled and said, "Okay, okay, we're still brothers, aren't we?" If you need anything in the future, just ask, and we'll keep in touch as often as before." ”
"Okay big brother! I will definitely cherish this opportunity to reunite! Don't worry!" The third said happily.
After hanging up the phone, the big stone in my heart finally fell to the ground. I decided to give the third child a chance again, just like Nini said, people are not sages, if you miss it, you will miss it, and it is more important to continue to live.
Since then, my third child and I have resumed regular contact. We would greet each other's families, sometimes I would drive to the third child to sit down, and we would drink and talk together, just like in the old days. The third child is also more filial to me, and often sends vegetables and fruits grown by himself. I could feel that he was genuinely trying to make up for his mistakes.
I am also very relieved to see that the third family is happy. Nini also often smiled and said, "You see, what a wonderful thing it is to give people a chance to mend their ways." ”
There is still a long way to go in life, and we may all make mistakes again, but I believe that as long as we have a tolerant attitude, we will be able to resolve misunderstandings and start anew. Regret is inevitable, but it is more important to cherish the present and the future.
It also taught me the true meaning of friendship. Friendship is not based on interests or conditions, but requires mutual understanding, tolerance, and support. The change in the third child has given me hope, and this is true friendship.
Relationships between people need to be cultivated slowly, just like watering flowers. I believe that after this storm, the tree of friendship between me and the third child will grow vigorously and bear the fruit of friendship. I will cherish this friendship.
Time flies, and another decade has passed in the blink of an eye. My life has changed a lot in the past ten years, but my friendship with my third child is still strong.
One day, the third child suddenly called me, and his tone was full of excitement: "Big brother, do you guess whose wedding invitation I just saw?
I smiled and said, "Yes, Xiaoqiang's child is finally getting married." We've known him for so many years, and time flies. ”
The third child hurriedly said: "Yes, yes, I saw that the date written on the invitation is the day when the two of us are free, why don't we go to Xiaoqiang's wedding?"
I smiled and said, "Okay, I haven't been back to my hometown for a long time, and I can walk around to participate in Xiaoqiang's wedding!"
So, the two of us agreed to attend Xiaoqiang's wedding. I also made a special call to Xiaoqiang and said that I would definitely attend his wedding on time. Xiaoqiang was very happy.
On the day of the wedding, my junior and I got up early in the morning to pack our bags and drove to our hometown. When we came to the wedding site and saw the familiar fellows, the third child and I were very excited and hugged and greeted the fellows.
Xiaoqiang was also very happy to see us, and said again and again: "The two big brothers are here, I am so honored!
The wedding was held in a warm atmosphere, and the third child and I sang and danced to our heart's content, reminiscing about the past. After the wedding, we stayed in our hometown for a few more days, drinking and chatting with the villagers, and the topics were nothing more than children, work, etc.
On the way back, I said with emotion: "Decades of life have passed in a blink of an eye, and we are also old." ”
The third child smiled and said, "Yes, but with your brother, I feel that I have no regrets in life." Let's cherish it!"
I nodded, I was satisfied with my old friends on the road of life. I believe that in the future, the friendship between me and the third child will be like a pair of wings, allowing us to support each other in the wind and rain and move forward together.