Preface
As a father, the most unbearable thing is that his daughter is wronged in this cruel showbiz.
So when Pan Changjiang heard that his daughter Pan Yang was going to enter the industry, he was reluctant in every way.
It is too difficult for an actress, especially the daughter of an actor, to gain a foothold in the entertainment industry.
However, Pan Yang insisted on breaking through, and Pan Changjiang could only helplessly support and escort the whole process.
It's a pity that many years have passed, and Pan Yang's career has been tepid.
This makes people want to ask, Pan Changjiang, what is your standard?
Little daughter, I don't feel distressed
In 1983, Pan Yang was born in Heilongjiang Province.
Her father, Pan Changjiang, is a well-known actor who is not around all the year round.
She lives with her mother, Yang Yun, an ordinary woman who is unknown.
When he was 6 years old, Pan Changjiang finally achieved a little success, took his wife and daughter to live in Beijing, and the family was reunited.
However, he was busy with his career and rarely spent time with his daughter.
Occasionally, he will only complain about the hard work in front of his daughter, and he longs for care from his family.
Pan Yang has a docile and introverted personality and is cautious about establishing a relationship with his father.
When she saw that her father was working so hard, she would take the initiative to go over and beat him on the back and hand him a glass of water.
She wanted her father to see her, to know that he was here, to listen and care for him.
However, Pan Changjiang was always absent-minded, and soon devoted himself to new work.
Pan Yang has loved singing since she was a child, she has her own dreams and wants to touch everyone through singing.
Occasionally, she would pluck up the courage to run to her father and sing a couple of words to him.
But she has a bad voice and often goes out of tune.
Pan Changjiang didn't care, he was too busy to listen to his daughter's words.
This made Pan Yang very sad, how she longed for her father to support her dream.
Until one day, 15-year-old Pan Yang mysteriously told her father that she was going to go to college in the United States.
Pan Changjiang was very relieved and happy for his daughter.
He wants his daughter to go abroad for further study, which is good for her future and life development.
Both father and daughter are full of hope and expectation.
Who knows, two years later, my father learned the truth - it turned out that Pan Yang changed his major behind his back and went to study music!
Is my standard red?
When Pan Changjiang knew the truth, the whole person was stunned.
He tried his best to get his daughter to go to the United States and did his best to provide for her to go to college, but her daughter changed the trajectory of her life behind his back! He felt cheated and all his expectations were disappointed.
"How can you change your major without consulting me! I trust you so much and support you, but you lie to me like this!" Pan Changjiang yelled angrily at his daughter.
Pan Yang said calmly: "Dad, I have always dreamed of touching others through music, which is my lifelong pursuit.
Now I finally have the opportunity to systematically learn Xi music knowledge, so that I can become a good singer. ”
Pan Changjiang was silent.
He knows that his daughter also has her own dreams, which are her lifelong pursuit, and she can't give up because of her parents' arrangement.
Looking at his daughter's determined eyes, he couldn't help but be moved - as a father, isn't he qualified to support his daughter's dreams and talents?
On second thought, music education in the United States is really good, and it may be helpful for my daughter's musicality and voice.
Sure enough, after returning to China, Pan Yang's incomplete five tones were completely problematic.
Her singing voice became high-pitched and loud, and her words were clear and magnetic.
Isn't this exactly what Pan Changjiang has been longing for?
What made him even more pleased was that Pan Yang was later admitted to the Performance Department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts.
He proudly thought that his daughter might really have a passion and talent for art, which was unstoppable.
Then as a father, you should fully support your daughter's dream, even if the road is full of thorns.
I'm always on your side
So, after graduation, Pan Yang became an actor as he wished.
With the help of Pan Changjiang, she composed songs for her father's film in 2006 and released a solo album in 2008.
It's just that the results are not ideal, and the sales are very poor, which makes Pan Changjiang very disappointed.
He sat in front of the window, looking at the night scene outside the window, and his heart was mixed.
"I've done so much for you, why aren't you popular?" he said to himself, "Isn't my effort enough?"
In fact, Pan Yang is no longer young.
She accepted it all in silence and was not as eager to prove herself as her father was.
In her heart, her biggest reliance is the father in front of her who has always guarded her.
Every time a new album is released, she will personally go to her father's house, cook him a few heartfelt dishes, and tell him about her gratitude.
Although her daughter's career is unsatisfactory, Pan Changjiang is still unwilling to give up.
He tried every means to arrange performance opportunities for his daughter and pushed her to become an actress.
Sometimes he even does not hesitate to use his own network resources, just to let his daughter gain a firm foothold in the film and television industry.
Among them, Pan Changjiang's hard work and sadness cannot be understood by outsiders.
"Dad, I know everything you've done for me. The daughter gratefully shook her father's hand, "I will try my best to live up to your expectations of me." ”
However, years of efforts seem to have come to nothing.
There are only a handful of works in which Pan Yang participates, and the popularity is low, and the public response is tepid.
When the audience saw her for the first time, they would only exclaim, "Isn't this Pan Changjiang's daughter?"
It seems that Pan Yang will never be able to get out of his father's aura, and this situation makes Pan Changjiang anxious.
Even if you're not popular, I'll always protect you
In fact, Pan Yang is no longer young.
She gradually looked down on fame and success, and did not feel depressed.
Perhaps, she has long seen fame, fortune and success.
In her heart, her greatest reliance and happiness is the father in front of her who always protects her.
"Dad, I don't need to be red, you're enough. The daughter hugged her father and said.
This sentence made Pan Changjiang's eyes red.
Only then did he realize that perhaps success had never been an important thing for his daughter; She just wanted to sing, she wanted to be on stage.
She can put down everything else.
For so many years, she has never complained about what happened to her, just because she has her father by her side.
In 2012, under the matchmaking of his father, Pan Yang met the wealthy Shi Lei.
The two fell in love at first sight and soon entered the marriage hall.
That night, Shi Lei solemnly assured Pan Changjiang: "Whether she is popular or not, she will always be my financial steward in my heart." I will always love her and take care of her. ”
After listening to this, Pan Changjiang finally let go of his worries for many years.
He watched his son-in-law and daughter happily stand side by side with a kind smile in his eyes.
It turned out that her daughter had finally waited for someone she could rely on forever.
At this moment, he realized that his daughter didn't really need success or fame.
She just needs to be loved forever, and that's enough.
After marriage, Pan Yang faded out of the front of the scene and focused his time and energy on her husband and son.
As long as Shi Lei is free, he will personally go to the set to pick her up from work; Even if he goes out to work, he will let Pan Yang move back to his parents' house to live with his father.
It can be seen how much he loves his wife.
This kind of pampered happiness makes Pan Yang feel more satisfied than barely blooming in the entertainment industry.
Sorry to disappoint you
However, the good times were short-lived.
In 2022, a "fake wine turmoil" will leave Pan Changjiang with no personality.
It turned out that when he was selling alcohol on the live broadcast, the product was confirmed to be fake.
Public opinion was in an uproar.
I'm sorry, Father, to disappoint you.
Pan Yang's heart is like a knife.
She knew that this turmoil would seriously damage her father's credibility and career.
Originally, the father and daughter were still working hard for their live broadcast career; Now it must have come to naught.
What makes Pan Yang most sad is that he was just about to become popular, and the father and daughter's careers were just about to take off, but this kind of thing went wrong.
My father loved him so much and spent a lot of money to train him, but when he was ruined, he had nothing to do.
This pain of remorse and self-blame kept Pan Yang awake all day long.
She began to reflect on herself.
Over the years, he has never been able to become popular, which is too disappointing to his father.
If she had succeeded back then, would her father not have embarked on this road of overturning? This complex psychological activity tormented Pan Yang, and she longed to go back in time and want a chance to start over.
epilogue
Over the years, Pan Changjiang has regarded his daughter as the pearl of his palm, and has tried every means to make his daughter successful in the entertainment industry.
However, the prosaic reality gave him countless heads-ups.
We don't know what kind of blow it cost him.
As a father, is he really necessary?