Text丨Xiaoyun Ouou
Editor丨Xiaoyun Ouou
Preface
Many faces of foreign tourists have appeared in various countries over the years.
This may be because everyone's life is much better and they are willing to spend their money on enjoying life.
Japan, South Korea, and Indians from our neighborhoods often come to China.
There is an Indian guy who married a Chinese girl and settled in China, and after a few years said that he would never go back to India, why?
Marry a Chinese girl
Because young people like to chat online, I have met all kinds of friends, and I have also met a friend who loves to travel.
This friend often shares his life, and once he told us that he met an interesting Indian.
We are all gossip people, and we are all curious to hear this, and he repeatedly said that the experience of Indians is simply outrageous!
Then he said that he couldn't say a word or two on the Internet, let's meet, so a few people got together and listened while eating.
After the meeting, my friend sold us a pass at the beginning, saying that this Indian also married a Chinese wife and held three children in five years.
We think that this Indian is powerful enough, after all, we still have a lot of bachelors in China who don't have wives.
In China, even if some people have wives, many people are not in a hurry to have children, and want to have fun while they are young.
And this Indian not only has a wife, but his wife is also willing to give him so many children, which is really a bit powerful.
A friend said that this Indian is from his company, and he also does self-media, and he usually publishes his life as an Indian in China on the Internet.
So this Indian is actually his new colleague, and his name is Summit.
Summit first came to China to escape his family, who were always looking for money to subsidize his brother.
Summit's brother is very popular with his parents, and his parents always think of his brother first, but he can only drop out of school early to work.
Seeing that his brother was about to marry a wife, his parents asked him for money every once in a while, and once his family took all his money, and he was hungry for two whole days.
At that time, Summit saw on the Internet that China was doing very well, and he decided to leave India so that his parents could not find him.
In this way, Summit came to China, during which he did all kinds of work, worked hard to learn Xi Chinese, and established himself in China.
He has been in China for 5 years now and has tried many different jobs.
When he was single, he worked in the company during the day and would start a live broadcast at night, but after having a family, he found an easier job.
Then in his spare time, he shoots some videos and posts them on the Internet, and earns money to subsidize his family.
Her wife also met him at one of his jobs, and she was distressed by what had happened to him.
It can also be seen from here that Summit met a kind Chinese girl, and the two turned from friends to lovers.
When it comes to whether the two people have encountered difficulties in getting married, in fact, there is, at first the girl's parents did not want her to marry an Indian.
Later, Summit offered to say that he would not bring the girl back to India, and that he would stay in China forever.
And he also showed the girl's family all the money he had saved over the years, which was enough to give the girl a place to shelter from the wind and rain.
The two came together after a lot of hardships, and Summit also told the girl about his family and all the things, and gave her the truth.
China is just too good
When it comes to why Summit came to China, there are indeed many twists and turns.
Summit has an older brother and a younger sister at home, but in fact, in India, he doesn't have many siblings.
Summit's father was lazy and was reluctant to work hard even when he knew that there was a group of people in the family waiting to eat.
Summit's brother and father were almost carved out of the same mold, and hid every time it was time to work.
No one does the work at home, and in the end, the second son Summit is alone, after all, his sister is too young to help.
Summit's family doted on her brother more, and although her mother didn't say it, all her actions were based on her father.
Because my mother is usually silent, she will only bury her head in things.
It was probably a long time ago, when his father asked Sammy to study and go to work, and Samit resisted for the first time, saying that he wanted to study.
After all, only by reading can he get out of his current situation, and he really can't feel the warmth of family at home.
My mother looked like she wanted to speak, but my father's eyes widened, and everyone didn't dare to speak.
In the end, Summit could only watch his classmates start school, and he became a handyman carrying goods in the store.
All the money earned by Summit's salary will not pass through his hands, and his parents ask the boss to give them all the money directly.
Therefore, for a long time, Summit did not save money in India.
Until Summit grew older and his parents found a wife for his brother, they kept asking Summit to earn more money.
At this time, his father no longer worked, so the family's expenses were pressed on Summit.
When Summit became an adult, he worked during the day and quietly went out at night to find work, saving all the money he earned, thinking that it would always be useful in the future.
But it took him a long time to save enough money to come to China.
He made up his mind to leave because his parents actually wanted to marry his sister to a rich man, who was almost forty years old.
However, despite his opposition, his father and mother married his sister to a rich man, and Summit felt that there was nothing left to cherish in the family.
So one night, he came to China with the money and the formalities he had already secretly completed.
The Chinese are very friendly to him as an outsider, and if they don't understand, they will take the initiative to teach him.
The boss will also say that there is an Indian guy in his shop, and he can work steadily, and he thought that it would not be smooth to start in other countries.
Summit did not expect that the Chinese people were so enthusiastic, and a lot of the work he did was thanks to the help of the Chinese.
Later he met his cheerful and kind wife, who at first asked him if he had not had a previous relationship in India.
Summit is very honest about saying that he has been in a relationship in India before, and the Indian racial system is strict, and the upper caste cannot intermarry with the lower caste.
Although the law is monogamous and there is no racial system, everyone still lives according to conventions.
For example, the rich man married to Summit's sister already has several wives in front of her.
And Summit's Indian girlfriend is also of a high caste, and it is impossible for the family to accept them together.
All of this broke Summit's heart, especially when it came to work.
Because people of the lower castes can only do the prescribed ordinary jobs, while people of the upper castes can do more "decent" jobs.
Sadit analyzed his situation and found that it was almost impossible to turn around in India, so he searched the Internet for many videos of going abroad.
And China, which is close and has a lot of praise, has entered his sight.
There is a wide variety of Chinese food, and many foreigners have opened their shops in China, and business is very good.
Summit went through them and imagined that one day she could have a store of her own.
But before he could do that, he needed to work hard, live in China, and save enough money to realize his dream of opening an Indian restaurant in China.
Summit said that he was almost done, and as long as he worked for a few more years, he could open a small shop with his wife.
However, considering that they have three children, this progress may be slower.
His friend admired Summit's experience, so he encouraged him to continue making short videos about his life in China.
Such a hard-working young man came to China from so far away from India.
Relying on one's own ability to achieve today's happiness is such an inspirational thing.
epilogue
There are many foreigners who say that they don't want to go back to China, which shows that China is indeed a very good and attractive country.
In today's China, as long as you are willing to work hard, basically everyone can live the life they want.
Summit also said that he wants to live in China for the rest of his life, which is his second hometown.