#时事热点头条说#
It was rumored on the Internet that a 23-year-old woman married a 51-year-old man, and because the woman was suspected of having an intellectual disability, it caused heated discussions.
Many netizens feel that a 23-year-old girl is still very young, why should she marry a 51-year-old man? After all, 51 years old is really not a small age, and to some extent, he can almost be the father of a 23-year-old woman.
From the world's point of view, such a marriage is not a good match, so many people wonder whether the woman's parents know about it, but from the media statement, it seems that the woman's family agreed to the girl's marriage.
In fact, to tell the truth, when you encounter such a thing, you will criticize the woman's family, or think that the man is unworthy, but in fact, you still don't know the suffering of the world!
(The pictures in this article are all from the Internet)
Many people can't imagine what real poverty looks like, thinking that a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan is poverty, but life is not easy, not only in terms of salary.
According to the information revealed on the network, we can learn about the fact that the girl's parents were separated when she was a child, and the girl was raised by her own grandparents.
For those who have experienced a restructured family, if one of the parents is divorced, then one of the parents will always be more concerned about the child, and if both parents start a new family, there may be more preference. Of course, we don't know what the girl is like at home, and we can't judge it from the information revealed on the Internet.
But in all probability, the girl's parents will always want to find a home for their children, so that the children have some security in the future. A 51-year-old man may not be young, but he can still work, which means that he can still earn money to support his family.
Traditional marriages are all about the right family, perhaps for the man, there are not many choices at such an age, and it is not easy for the girl to have someone who is willing to take care of her. Then the marriage will be a negotiable choice for both parties.
This incident reminds me of the person who took the dog to climb the mountain and let the dog sit in a sedan chair, obviously the sedan chair driver was happy, and the owner of the dog was also willing to pay, but netizens were not happy when they saw it.
Maybe it's because netizens are too kind, or maybe it's because netizens' lives are too easy, so they really can't empathize with the lives of those palanquins, and in the same way, they always feel that she could have had a better choice for this young girl.
However, whether there is a better choice in the end, sometimes we still have to start from the perspective of objective facts, and only by standing on the side of facts can we see more truths. Instead of being easily manipulated by emotions and emotions, to subjectively identify one thing.
Whether it is a good match or not, it doesn't matter if outsiders say it. After all, from a practical point of view, if the woman is really suspected of having an intellectual disability, then she is more at a loss in the marriage market, and it is of course good to talk about marriage from love or not, but in fact, most marriages, especially some blind date relationships, always have more realistic factors mixed in.
Although the two are not very compatible in age, if they can support each other and go hand in hand, it may be a good story for each other, after all, both parties have companionship and dependence.
The grandparents who bring the eldest girl will grow old, and the parents may have their other half, so for a girl who has some defects, it may be a good choice to find someone who is willing to take care of herself, and the other party can also make money.