On December 28, Beijing time, FIBA officially announced that Chinese women's basketball player Li Meng won the 2023 Asian Best Women's Basketball Player.
Awarded by:
She is one of the best players in the Chinese women's basketball team, preventing the Japanese women's basketball team from dominating the Asian Cup and helping the Chinese women's basketball team win the championship of the competition.
He averaged 14.4 points, 4.4 rebounds and 4.8 assists per game.
In the finals, he got 18 points, 6 assists and 5 rebounds.
At the same time, Li Meng not only helped the Chinese team win the Asian Cup, but also was selected for the best team of the Asian Cup.
In addition, Li Meng also won the WCBA championship last season and the Hangzhou Asian Games championship in the summer.
It can be said that the past year has been a year of "bumper harvest" for Li Meng and the Chinese women's basketball team.
In this regard, Li Meng is absolutely well-deserved.
It should be noted that this is also the second consecutive year that Li Meng has won this award.
However, for such a "happy event", in the comment area below this news, there was more of a "discordant" voice--- Li Meng's previous "personal feelings" incident.
In this regard, you can see how wide some fans are now.
First of all, this is Li Meng's personal "private matter", and how to deal with it should be discussed between her and the "parties" involved in this matter, and it has little to do with the majority of fans.
If it is said that Li Meng has done something to hurt the majority of fans, then it is understandable that everyone has "verbally criticized him", and it is obvious that Li Meng did not.
Secondly, judging from the information available at that time and in the follow-up, Li Menghe and that person have handled it more reasonably, and basically everything that can be done has been done in place.
In other words, even the one who made the most jubilant at the beginning has died down, and some fans are still holding on as "bystanders", which really makes no sense.
Moreover, there is no reason to talk about emotional matters, and sometimes it is not up to you to decide whether you like someone or not.
There may be some "untimeliness" at the beginning, but as long as both parties are sincere and properly settle what they should resettle, the last two people have achieved positive results.
This should be considered a happy ending.
Of course, there are some fans who stand on the "commanding heights" of morality and criticize Li Meng, saying that she has destroyed other people's families.
However, in this day and age, who can guarantee that they made the right choice at the beginning?
Halfway through, I met the person who made me desperate, and then made a new choice, it doesn't seem to be such an unsightly thing.
It can only be said that we hope that every couple can finish this life in harmony and beauty, but the reason why a wish is a wish is because it is not universal.
Therefore, we can only accept these "accidents" in our lives.
is still the same sentence, as long as Li Meng and his current one are sincere enough, and then his one can continue to fulfill his responsibilities.
It shouldn't be blamed any more.
Finally, what exactly do we look at an athlete?
Is it his performance on the field, or his "private life".
If it is the former, then Li Meng's performance is absolutely qualified, and the data on the court, including his help to the league team and the Chinese women's basketball team, are all witnessed together, which is beyond doubt.
If it is the latter, it is undeniable that Li Meng has some "flaws", but this does not mean that there is a "reason" for everyone to attack her at will.
Because, among so many athletes at home and abroad, Li Meng is not the first, and she is not the worst one.
Therefore, some fans really don't need to talk about her all the time.
The main thing is that as a professional athlete, when they don't perform well on the field, everyone says that they are incompetent, and they can't do even the most basic job.
When they do their jobs well and there is a little problem in their off-field life, everyone begins to put "moral" shackles on them again.
It can only be said that being an athlete is hard, and being a well-known athlete is even harder.
Understandably, due to the influence of our own "unique" culture, we always want the one standing on the stage to be flawless and excellent in every way.
However, as long as you have stepped into the society, adults who have a certain understanding of society understand that this is almost a "luxury".
No one can find any "flaws" in this era like a "magnifying glass".
It can only be said that as long as he is hard-working and diligent at the work level, and his private life is generally passable, and he still has a conscience, then he is basically a very good person.
On that note, our players and fans have to be a little bit more open-minded.
Finally, to end this article by borrowing the old saying, I want to encourage everyone who can see this article: there is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself.