Met by chance
In 2006, Tu Jingwei, as a shallow CCTV host, was full of boundless longing and expectations. She aspires to shine on this stage and become a great presenter.
didn't expect the opportunity to come so quickly, and she soon had her first cooperation with the talented host Sa Beining in a literary variety show called "Dream Theater".
The two hit it off at first sight. Sa Beining admires Tu Jingwei's smart and agile hosting style and petite and delicate figure. Tu Jingwei was also impressed by Sa Beining's humor and rich experience.
As we all know, Sa Beining has the reputation of "excellent eloquence", and every time his wonderful comments make the audience applaud. Tu Jingwei admires him even more, and always relies on his guidance and leadership.
Gradually, the distance between the two was infinitely shortened. In their spare time, they often talk and laugh, find small restaurants and taverns for fun, and talk about ideals and ambitions, and the topic unconsciously extends to the experiences and life insights of the two...... The spark of affection was quietly ignited in this intimate conversation, and it didn't take long for the two to confirm their relationship and become beautiful people.
Colleagues and the audience were sincerely delighted with their union and looked forward to their long journey of life together in the future.
Bad decisions lead to a reluctant breakup
The career and relationship between the two seem to be on the rise, and countless fans and viewers are looking forward to their good news. However, in 2009, Sa Beining suddenly stated in an interview that he would not consider marriage for four years, which was equivalent to announcing the news of his breakup with Tu Jingwei.
This news was like a bolt from the blue, which caught Tu Jingwei off guard. She had mixed feelings, and she couldn't understand where Sa Beining's sudden choice came from. Is there something he has done not good enough? Or does he already have other yearnings in his heart? Tu Jingwei is difficult to calm his emotions in a short period of time.
She realizes that there may be some irreconcilable differences between the two, but relationship problems should not be forced after all.
After the news broke, the show that the two collaborated on was soon announced to be off the air. Tu Jingwei had to accept this cruel reality, and the four-year sweet relationship came to an end.
She was depressed for a while, but quickly adjusted her mindset and decided to get back into work and focus on her career. After all, life has to go on, and she must be brave to look forward.
Leave CCTV to cross the waves
After the breakup, Tu Jingwei chose to return to his original job. But the blow of losing love and seeing Sa Beining frequently, her work status is much worse than before, and she frequently makes mistakes in hosting and has been repeatedly criticized by leaders.
In 2015, she decided to quit her job at CCTV and chose to fly abroad to Xi for further study. Tu Jingwei is eager to heal his pain and rekindle his passion for his career through further study.
During her two years abroad, she focused on her studies like never before, and reflected on her relationship and career choices from time to time. The seemingly peaceful overseas life also hides the ups and downs of her heart.
After returning to China, Tu Jingwei was shocked to find that the hosting world had changed. A large number of young and handsome host upstarts have joined CCTV, bringing a new atmosphere. She understood that it would not be easy to regain her footing, so she first hosted a talk show on the Internet, but it ended in failure, and she had no choice but to change careers and become an online female anchor.
At first, Tu Jingwei was hesitant about this decision, but she soon found that her eloquence and personality charm could also be displayed here! She has created a good performance in the online anchor industry, and gradually regained her former confidence and passion.
Perhaps it was this bumpy experience that made her gain a more mature and stable inner quality.
The truth of the relationship came out
Many years later, Tu Jingwei's marriage to a wealthy man was revealed by netizens. This news immediately sparked a heated discussion among everyone, and some people speculated that it was Tu Jingwei herself who took the initiative to break up, and she chose to leave Sa Beining for the sake of this rich man.
But soon the relationship also broke down. So more people think that Tu Jingwei left CCTV to go abroad for further study, which also has the element of distracting himself to heal his emotional wounds.
It can be seen that she has also experienced great ups and downs on the road of love and paid a painful price.
Now that Tu Jingwei is 43 years old, she has seen a lot of the past and no longer hides her true thoughts. She calmly faced those speculations and suspicions, saying that everything was in the past, and she couldn't look back and correct, so she could only try her best to live the present.
Everything has cause and effect, and now Sa Beining has a bumper harvest in his career and feelings, and Tu Jingwei has also regained the balance of his life. Both of them finally found their own happiness and became friends again, drawing a successful end to this relationship.
Bright Positive Large Photo
Today, Tu Jingwei is 43 years old, and she has spent the most colorful years of her life, telling netizens frankly about her life experience and experience.
She no longer shies away from all kinds of encounters in the past, and those ups and downs have become nutrients for her growth. She said that she may have made the wrong choice of feelings back then, but people will always be reborn after falling.
She just wants to live a more sunny and cheerful life now and cherish the life in front of her.
On weekdays, Tu Jingwei shares his family on the Internet. The husband is considerate, and the son is lively and clever, full of laughter. She often lamented how lucky she was to have such a happy family life.
It has also become the most valuable treasure in her life.
Tu Jingwei often interacts with fans online, and she shares her story of growing up, hoping to bring positive energy to more people. She was in a state where she was so content.
Tu Jingwei believes that as long as he retains a heart that will never give up and continues to be positive, the road of life will be wider and wider.