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I have always had a bad relationship with my mother-in-law, and she always felt that I was not filial enough and did not respect her enough. It's been a year since I married her son Wang Jun, but my mother-in-law is still very critical of me and often makes trouble.
Just last night, Wang Jun and I were sleeping in the bedroom, and at about two o'clock, my mother-in-law suddenly pushed the door in, startling the two of us.
"Mom, why didn't you knock on the door so late?" Wang Jun hurriedly got out of bed and stopped his mother-in-law.
But my mother-in-law forcibly squeezed Wang Jun away, pointed at me and scolded: "My daughter-in-law is not filial enough, I asked her to help cook during the day, she pushed back, and now she locks the door when she sleeps at night, treating me as an outsider!"
I quickly explained: "Mom, I'm used to locking the door Xi because I'm used to it, not because I won't let you in." I don't have time to cook during the day, don't get me wrong. ”
"Misunderstanding? Can I still misunderstand you?" The mother-in-law sneered, "You have been married for more than a year, and I haven't seen what you have done that a good wife and mother should do! Every day, I know how to play with my mobile phone, mingle with your friends, and treat my mother-in-law as air!"
When I heard my mother-in-law say this, I felt very uncomfortable. Actually, I also wanted to help with the housework, but my mother-in-law always felt that I was not good enough to do anything, so I gradually became less proactive.
"Mom, Lily is also kind, don't talk about her. Seeing this, Wang Jun also came over to persuade his mother-in-law.
"Good intentions? What kind intentions did she have towards me? Let me tell you Wang Jun, you are really blind to marry such a wife!" The more the mother-in-law spoke, the more excited she became.
When I heard my mother-in-law say this, my heart was like a knife, and I couldn't help but cry: "Mother-in-law, I have always been very filial to you, how can you say this about me?"
"Okay Mom, Lily is my wife, don't talk about her. Wang Jun hurriedly came over and hugged me and said to his mother-in-law, "We are all asleep, you can go back and rest." ”
"Sleep, I won't sleep!" The mother-in-law said angrily, "I want to see what my unfilial daughter-in-law wants!" After that, my mother-in-law walked back and forth in our room, and she didn't plan to leave at all.
Wang Jun and I looked at each other, and we really didn't know what to do. Wang Jun could only persuade his mother-in-law softly: "Mom, Lily is very filial to you, don't be angry with her, let's all sleep." ”
"Filial piety, I think she's a hypocrisy!" The mother-in-law snorted coldly, "My son, you are really blinded by her, she is clearly here to take advantage of you!"
I heard my mother-in-law slander me like this, and I was very aggrieved: "Mother-in-law, I am sincere to the army, how can I be hypocritical? I really want to live in harmony with you." I couldn't help but choke up.
Wang Jun hurriedly came over and hugged me and comforted me softly: "Lily, don't be sad, I believe in you." Mom is just angry for a while, don't take it to heart. ”
The mother-in-law snorted coldly: "My words are angry words? I am clearly telling the truth! Your son, even helping you to talk to outsiders, I think you are confused by her!"
"Mom, you can't say that about Lily, she's my wife, we're married, you can't deny her. Wang Jun's tone also became serious.
But the mother-in-law didn't listen, and said to herself: "I won't recognize such a daughter-in-law!" Wang Jun, you have prepared the divorce agreement for me, and I want this woman to move out of our house tomorrow!"
When I heard the word "divorce", I panicked instantly: "Mother-in-law, how can you do this? I am sincere to the army, you can't force us to divorce!"
"Really, I think you're here to cheat the house and cheat money!" My mother-in-law attacked me mercilessly.
When I listened to my mother-in-law's words, my heart was like a knife, and tears welled up in my eyes: "Mother-in-law, how can you slander me like this? I am sincere to the army, how can it be for money?"
Wang Jun was also anxious, and said to his mother-in-law: "Mom, you can't talk nonsense! Lily and I are in free love, and our relationship is very good, you can't force us to divorce." ”
The mother-in-law said forcefully: "I just don't allow you to be together!" Wang Jun, you have to choose, either leave this woman, or cut off the mother-son relationship with me from now on!"
I saw Wang Jun's embarrassed appearance, and I felt very uncomfortable. For more than a year, I've actually wanted to please my mother-in-law, but she has always treated me badly, and it's too much to do that today.
"Mother-in-law, you can't do this to me, I'm very good to Junjun, you should respect our feelings. "I still can't help but beg my mother-in-law.
"Okay, I think you're here to take advantage of our family!" My mother-in-law didn't listen to me at all.
"Okay Mom, you go back to sleep, the three of us will talk slowly tomorrow. Wang Jun persuaded his mother-in-law.
"There's nothing to talk about!" The mother-in-law said angrily, "Wang Jun, I'll give you a day to think about it, if this woman is still in our house tomorrow, you won't recognize me as a mother again!" After saying that, the mother-in-law slammed the door angrily and left.
Wang Jun and I looked at each other, both stunned by my mother-in-law's words. I felt very uncomfortable, and I couldn't stop crying.
Wang Jun hurriedly came over and hugged me, and comforted me softly: "Lily, don't be sad, my mother has a straight temper, don't take it to heart." ”
"No, Junjun, I'm really sad this time. I couldn't cry, "I've been a mother-in-law for more than a year, and I've paid so much, and she still targets me like this, I'm really tired and wronged." ”
Wang Jun sighed and said to me in a serious tone, "Lily, I understand your difficulties. In fact, my mother is very kind at heart, but she is a little conservative and needs time to accept. ”
I shook my head and said, "No, Junjun, I really can't stand this kind of treatment anymore." You can also see that she is simply paranoid in denying our feelings, which is beyond my bottom line. ”
Wang Jun asked, "Lily, do you mean you really want to divorce me?"
I nodded with red eyes: "I'm sorry, Junjun, I think we really don't fit. Your mom will never accept me, I can't live in such an environment. ”
Wang Jun's face suddenly became ugly: "Lily, I beg you to think twice." My mom and I will figure it out, you can't just leave me. ”
I shook my head and said, "No, my decision is hard to change." I'm really fed up with this kind of life, you should also think about yourself and find a girl that your mother-in-law can accept. ”
Speaking of this, I couldn't hold back my tears anymore, and I cried out with a whoa. Wang Jun's eyes were red when he saw me like this, but he still tried to control his emotions and persuaded me: "Lily, let's calm down, okay? ”
I choked up and said, "No, I've already decided, I'll move out tomorrow." You go with your mother-in-law, I don't want to be tortured by your mother and son anymore. ”
"Lily!" Wang Jun raised his voice, "I'll settle the relationship between me and my mother, you can't just leave without saying hello!"
I shook my head and said, "My decision won't change." I'm sure it's good for you and me. With that, I got up and went into the bathroom, closed the door, and stopped talking to Wang Jun.
I said lightly: "I've already thought about it, don't persuade me again." I believe it's good for everyone that we're separated. You live with your mother, I don't want to be hurt by you anymore. ”
Wang Jun saw that I was resolute, and he no longer persuaded me, but silently helped me move the box to the door, his eyes full of reluctance.
I took one last look at this once warm home, but my heart was only cold. I took a deep breath, lifted the box, and walked out without looking back.
After leaving Wang Jun's house, I lived in a rented house by myself. The heart is empty, and in the dead of night, tears always can't help but flow.
Two days later, Wang Jun suddenly came to see me and brought a divorce agreement.
Wang Jun sighed: "Lily, I know it's hard for you and me, but this may be the best outcome. My mom is still angry and needs time to take it. ”
I was silent for a while, but signed my name, tears dripping down the white paper.
Wang Jun was silent, and only after a while did he say, "Then I'll go first, and you take care of yourself." Feel free to contact me if you need to. ”
I nodded and watched Wang Jun leave. As soon as the door closed, I hugged my knees and wept bitterly. I'm really sad that more than a year of relationship has come to an end.
The days that followed were hard for me. Wang Jun would occasionally call, but our communication had become rusty. I miss our little bits, but I also know that there is no going back.
After another half a month, my mother-in-law suddenly came to see me and brought a divorce agreement.
I looked at my mother-in-law in amazement, "What do you mean by that? Aren't we divorced?"
The mother-in-law sighed: "Daughter-in-law, I figured it out, I was wrong at that time. Junjun is very sad, and I don't want to see him go on like this. If you have a good relationship, don't get divorced. ”
When I heard my mother-in-law say this, my heart was numb: "But, but we have already signed a divorce?"
The mother-in-law nodded: "I know, so I came to you with a new agreement." Daughter-in-law, you young people should not interfere in their own affairs. I'm really reflecting, can you give me a chance to start over?"
I looked at my mother-in-law's sincere eyes, and my heart was very good. We talked in detail again, my mother-in-law apologized to me, and I expressed my desire to start over. In this way, Wang Jun and I remarried.
After remarrying, I moved back to Wang Jun's house. At first, we were still a little awkward to get along, but my mother-in-law was obviously much better for me and no longer made things difficult for me as before.
One day, our family sat around the dinner table for dinner. My mother-in-law smiled and said to me, "Daughter-in-law, I specially made this green dish according to your taste, please try it." ”
I was a little surprised that my mother-in-law rarely took care of my preferences. "Thank you, mother-in-law!" I was a little moved.
"Yes, we're a family. The mother-in-law said with a smile.
Wang Jun also said happily: "Mom, I'll just say it, the more you get along with Lily, you will find out how good she is." ”
"Yes, yes, I misjudged her. The mother-in-law nodded and said, "It's great that my daughter-in-law can come back, and I am worried about Junjun alone." ”
"Mother-in-law, I'm also very happy to be back. I was a little excited, "I will treat the army well, and I will help you share the housework more, we will get along slowly, and it will get better and better." ”
"Good boy, I knew you were sincere about the army. The mother-in-law said with a smile.
The three of them chatted word by word, and the atmosphere was harmonious and warm. At this moment, I felt the warmth of home, and my eyes couldn't help but moisten a little.
After dinner, I volunteered to stay and help my mother-in-law clean up the dishes and chopsticks.
"Daughter-in-law, go and rest, I'll do this. The mother-in-law said.
"Mother-in-law, let me help you. I smiled and said, "I can still do this little thing." ”
"Good boy, then you clean up, I'll go sit down for a while. The mother-in-law nodded in satisfaction.
I happily packed it up, thinking to myself that this time I must make a complete change for my mother-in-law.
In this way, as the days passed, my relationship with my mother-in-law became better and better. Sometimes my mother-in-law would lose her temper with me, but I didn't care about it anymore as much as I used to.
"Daughter-in-law, why did you wash my gloves!" One day the mother-in-law said unhappily.
"I'm sorry mother-in-law, I'll pay attention next time. "I hastened to apologize.
My mother-in-law saw that I didn't talk back, so she no longer embarrassed me. Gradually, we got along like ordinary mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law.
My relationship with Wang Jun has become stronger as a result. Together we would take my mother-in-law for a walk in the park and prepare her favorite dishes on the weekends. My mother-in-law looked at our loving appearance, and her eyes also showed a smile of relief.
In retrospect, those arguments felt like a dream. My mother-in-law and I learned to understand and tolerate each other. This is life, not perfect, but beautiful with love.
In this way, the days passed uneventfully. My relationship with Wang Jun is becoming more and more stable, and my mother-in-law's attitude towards me is getting better and better.
One day, Wang Jun ran home in a hurry and said to my mother-in-law and me, "I have good news for you, I have been promoted to project manager, and my salary will be greatly increased!"
"Great, military!" I happily hugged Wang Jun.
The mother-in-law also smiled and said: "Junjun is really a good son of his mother, so capable!"
"Thanks to your support and encouragement. Wang Jun said happily.
"We're going to have to celebrate this weekend!" I proposed, "Just the three of us, I'll cook a few good dishes, and we'll have a good meal!"
"Yes, yes!" The mother-in-law nodded happily, "It's up to my daughter-in-law, I'm looking forward to eating the dishes made by my daughter-in-law the most!"
I happily began planning for the weekend's celebratory feast. Finally, I have the opportunity to show my skills and cook a few of her favorite dishes for my mother-in-law!
On the weekend, I woke up early and started preparing my mother-in-law's favorite dishes such as braised pork ribs and shredded pork. Wang Jun was also on the side to help.
At noon, the aromatic dishes are finally ready to stop. The three of us happily sat down and began to eat.
"Wow, my daughter-in-law's craftsmanship is really good, this braised pork ribs is even better than the big restaurant outside!" My mother-in-law kept complimenting me.
I smiled and said, "I'm satisfied to have my mother-in-law's approval." ”
"In the future, the family's food will be handed over to the daughter-in-law! But don't bother so much every day, just keep it simple. The mother-in-law said with a smile.
"Obey the mother-in-law!" I nodded happily.
Wang Jun also smiled and said: "With such a virtuous wife, I am simply a blessing from my previous life!"
"It's true!" Wang Jun said seriously.
The mother-in-law looked at us with a smile and a smile on her face, her eyes full of love and relief.
After lunch, I made a few small snacks in the evening. Our family chatted while eating, warm and happy.
"Daughter-in-law, thank you for preparing such a sumptuous celebration banquet for the army. The mother-in-law smiled and said, "I see that your relationship is so good, you should also think about the child's affairs." I can't wait to hold my grandson!"
Wang Jun and I looked at each other and smiled, and this is exactly what we have been actively considering and planning for recently.
"Mom, I have good news for you, we are already preparing to have a baby!" Wang Jun said happily.