In July this year, Oscar-winning actress Michelle Yeoh and former Ferrari president Jean Todt officially announced their marriage in Geneva, Switzerland, and the 19-year long-distance love run has come to fruition.
At that time, Michelle Yeoh's mother Tan Huizhen called her daughter back to Malaysia for a wedding banquet, and now, the old man finally got his wish!
As a proper famous family in Malaysia, Michelle Yeoh's parents have the honorable titles of Datuk and Datin (she herself was also named Datuk for her artistic achievements, and she is also the first Chinese artist to be canonized by Tan Sri Title), and her relatives and friends are all well-known figures.
Taking advantage of Michelle Yeoh taking her foreign son-in-law back to her parents' house for a wedding banquet, they came from all over the world to eat and drink, and the most interesting thing is that the Oscar statuette became the most eye-catching wedding ......
(On the morning of the 21st, Michelle Yeoh posted a photo of the wedding banquet on her personal IG, happily saying: "I am very happy that many brothers and sisters, cousins, and family members from all over the world have come to bless her.) ）
Michelle Yeoh's wedding reception was divided into two days, with more than 100 relatives and friends in Ipoh City (the capital of Perak, Malaysia) on the first day, and a wedding party on Happiness Island on the second day.
Happy Island is known as one of the world's top 10 honeymoon islands, and the "owner" Yang Subin (English name Francis Yeoh, Francis Yang, Han nationality, ancestral home in Kinmen County, Fujian Province, is now one of the top ten richest people in Malaysia), is Michelle Yeoh's godbrother, and he takes care of all the details of the wedding banquet as his mother's family.
("The chef on the island has entertained presidents and dignitaries of various countries for many years, and it is an honor to serve the Oscar-winning actress", a few words from the owner of the island made Michelle Yeoh laugh.) The lady in the dark green dress in the picture is Michelle Yeoh's mother, 85-year-old Tan Huizhen is in good spirits on happy occasions)
AND SHIATZY CHEN (SHIATZY CHEN) CREATIVE DIRECTOR CHEN CAIXIA, MILE YEOH'S BEST FRIEND, SINGLE-HANDEDLY CONTRACTED THE DRESSES, FLORAL ARRANGEMENTS, AND SOUVENIRS FOR THE BIG DAY.
(Michelle Yeoh's two custom wedding dresses at her wedding, one of which was Michelle Yeoh's favorite green, a green off-the-shoulder dress worn at a beach welcome party, was made of a full silk organza as clear as bamboo green, which was elegant and moving against the sea breeze.) Needle embroidery, seeding embroidery and bead embroidery outline the orchid and butterfly totems, symbolizing Michelle Yeoh's perseverance and tenderness. ）
(The second set of metallic pink and orange lace tulle tie gowns, inspired by a coastal wedding, is layered with lace shorts in the same gown, and a classic summer tulle tied around the waist, with the profound meaning of "bonding".) Michelle Yeoh smiled and said that she has been more relaxed recently, but fortunately she hasn't gained weight and can still wear this dress, thank you Xia Zi for making her so beautiful. ）
In addition to Wang Yuanhong, chairman of Xia Zi, and Wang Chen Caixia, design director, there are also Hong Kong gold medal producer "Chivalrous Girl" Xu Feng and her grandson came to celebrate in person......
Michelle Yeoh, who was born in a family of Malaysian celebrities, was active in the peak of Hong Kong films in the eighties and nineties, and at the age of 60, Hollywood has become a new force in the workplace.
The quality of her friends and partners is high, her career pattern is huge, and her contacts are extensive, from the Hong Kong entertainment circle, to the Asian rich circle, and then to the European high society, Michelle Yeoh's good friends are all over the world.
As the saying goes, "things gather by like, people by groups", Michelle Yeoh's circle of friends that continues to break through and extend outward is the most direct externalization of success in the secular sense, let's talk about it today.
Social law 1: Marriage and love are the "second reincarnation" of life, and you must socialize upwards and not collapse halfway
Whether it is the original family, or Michelle Yeoh's ex-boyfriend, ex-husband, or current husband, all of them are not lacking in fame and social status. The script of the rebellious lady falling in love with the poor boy does not exist here in the elite Bai Fumei.
Michelle Yeoh was born in Malaysian high society, and the upper two generations of her family are very good:
His grandfather is Yeo Kam Kun and is the "father of Malaysian transportation" who founded the bus company. His father, Yeo Kin Teh, was a well-known barrister and was the chairman of the Malaysian Industrial and Commercial Sports Club during his lifetime, and was canonized as "Dato" for his outstanding achievements.
(Michelle Yeoh's latest family photo)
Another Malaysian Datuk that Chinese netizens have heard about in entertainment news is Zhu Zhaoxiang, the husband of female star Hu Jing, Michelle Yeoh's ex-boyfriend in Malaysia before her debut. (This short-lived fate, even if you look at it now, all aspects of identity and status are right.) ）
Michelle Yeoh did not have the squeamishness of a rich lady since she was a child, she began to learn Xi ballet at the age of 4, and went to the Royal Academy of Dance to study ballet at the age Xi of 15, and obtained a bachelor's degree in drama and dance, but had to terminate her dance career due to a spinal injury.
After winning the beauty pageant, Michelle Yeoh got acquainted with the biggest help in the start of her acting career - her ex-husband Pan Disheng.
The son of Hong Kong businessman Poon Kam Hei, a watch merchant, his business includes watches, department stores and fashion retailers. In 1984, Dickson Poon entered the film industry and founded Debao Film Company with Sammo Hung.
According to legend, a year before Pan Disheng opened a film and television company, he had dinner with a Malaysian friend, and said that he wanted to shoot an advertisement for his company's watch...... My friend said, come on, come on, look at our Malaysian beauty pageant champions, their appearance and temperament are very different.
Looking at this, Pan Disheng was not only very satisfied, but also played the idol cultivation game. In order to support Michelle Yeoh, he filmed advertisements, opened a film and television company, and asked the bigwig Sammo Hung to carry a sedan chair for one-stop service, but after becoming popular, he asked Michelle Yeoh to marry her......
"Marry my boss" style of wealthy love sounds beautiful, but who has a heart-piercing life on a day of unequal status, the eldest lady can't enjoy this blessing, so she quickly divorced.
Michelle Yeoh's first work after her comeback was "Police Story 3: Super Police" with kung fu idol Jackie Chan, which was also this drama that established the status of Michelle Yeoh's generation of female stars.
Although she is no longer anyone's wife, she has lived her life: the daughter of an upright Malaysian socialite, a top female star in Hong Kong, and a person who plays a ruthless role in the celebrity's night banquet.
Social rule 2: Knowing the friendship of the micro, the heroine cherishes the heroine, and the circle cannot be strong
In April this year, at the Cartier Jewelry Exhibition hosted by the Hong Kong Palace Museum, Michelle Yeoh, Brigitte Lin, Carina Lau, and Pansy Ho rarely got in the same frame in the same century, which made netizens excited.
Carina Lau plays a pivotal role in the Hong Kong entertainment industry, needless to say. He Chaoqiong, the heir of the gambling king, personally flew to Malaysia for a banquet, and the relationship is self-evident.
林青霞跟杨紫琼，则是“双侠并立”。
Back then, they were all first-line superstars of Hong Kong martial arts films, and the highest-paid actresses of that era.
Xu Feng, another Xu Feng who went to Happiness Island to witness happiness, is not only known as "the last generation of chivalrous women in Hong Kong", but also a domineering businesswoman who keeps her husband's business, and a proud woman who does not let her eyebrows go.
Each of the above mentioned women is a legendary woman who is iron-clad and expands their territory in their respective fields, they have the same aura and similar interests, and they are all such people in their bones, and it is not difficult to understand that they can play well.
However, Michelle Yeoh also has a close friend who is little known, she is the late superstar Anita Mui.
Anita Mui is atmospheric, heroic, avant-garde, righteous, and soft, sentimental, and attached at heart, behind this diametrically opposed contrast, it coincides with Michelle Yeoh, who has both the tradition of being a celebrity and a beautiful lady, and yearns to be an independent woman in her heart.
In the early stage of Michelle Yeoh's career as a woman, she was crawling in the pile of men all day long. Whether in the workplace or at home, the atmosphere of male voice makes her feel suffocated.
Anita Mui, who is one year younger than Michelle Yeoh, on the one hand, is a sister of the same age and understands the difficulties and loneliness of Michelle Yeoh's hard work in the entertainment industry;
Anita Mui is a frequent visitor to various awards parties in the music industry, always bringing her sister Michelle Yeoh to awards parties, and she herself is often called to attend the premieres of Michelle Yeoh movies.
They share common hobbies and understand each other's pain.
Filming "Three Heroes of the East" Michelle Yeoh, Anita Mui, Maggie Cheung The three daughters stood up, Michelle Yeoh was injured in the filming scene, the tiger shed tears but did not dare to enter the hospital for fear of injections, and obediently obeyed under Amei's soft grinding and hard foaming.
When Anita Mui was sick, she didn't dare to go to the hospital for diagnosis because she was afraid that she would be diagnosed with cancer like her sister, and Michelle Yeoh rushed her to see a doctor......
On December 30, 2003, Anita Mui died of illness in Hong Kong. At the funeral, Michelle Yeoh broke the tradition of women not helping the soul and became one of the eight soul supporters, accompanying her through the last journey of her life.
It is worth mentioning that Michelle Yeoh and Pansy Ho became best friends because of Anita Mui.
He Chaoqiong's sister He Chaoyi is Anita Mui's fan sister, and the friendship between the two cross-border big women is just a chance encounter in disco, He Chaoqiong helps her sister chase stars to sign photos. Taking this as an opportunity, He Chaoqiong and Anita Mui became good friends. Even, He Chaoyi wanted to enter the entertainment industry, but Anita Mui helped persuade He Chaoqiong to agree.
When Anita Mui died, the second sister of the He family looked sad and contributed money and efforts. And the friendship between Pansy Ho and Michelle Yeoh has never dissipated due to Amei's death......
People will meet a lot of friends in their lives, some people are dwarfed, some people are eternal in an instant, firm minds, do not pander, do not deliberately please, adhere to their own principles and clear friendship standards, fate gathers and disperses, and hands over to time.
Social rule 3: Whether it is a family or a workplace, people who respect their opponents will most likely win back a friend
Michelle Yeoh won many celebrity praises after winning the award, among them, Pan Chuying, the ex-husband's daughter who went to the United States with her biological mother to congratulate, is the most hardcore, and Michelle Yeoh deserves to be the "strongest stepmother".
Why, you see, ordinary people reorganize the stepmother-daughter relationship of the family, and it is good to maintain the mother's and son's filial piety on the big side.
And the stepdaughter specially brought her mother to the scene to share the joy, which shows that the relationship between them properly surpasses the man who makes them related - Pan Disheng, and she feels inexplicably atmospheric and wonderful.
(Pan Disheng's daughter Pan Chuying is in the front row, and Pan Disheng's first wife Yang Minde is in the back row, right)
Michelle Yeoh and her ex-husband Pan Disheng did not have children, but they have always regarded their stepdaughter Pan Chuying as their own, and in the second year after the two divorced, Pan Disheng married his wife for the third time, and his soul mate Yu Guizhu has been with him to this day.
Compared with the first two wives, Pan Disheng loves Yu Guizhu to the bone, and is especially partial to the youngest daughter they born, and openly admits that "the only person in this world who can make Pan Dee kneel is the youngest daughter." ”
After the divorce, Michelle Yeoh couldn't bear to be sad and sad about the loss of the pearl in her palm, so she simply proposed to adopt Pan Chuying as her goddaughter and double her favor.
So there was such a scene at Michelle Yeoh's wedding: Pan Disheng's eldest daughter took Pan Disheng's first ex-wife to witness the happiness of the second ex-wife. (Although Pan Disheng, who did not attend, the main one is full of participation...... ）
The word jealousy comes from the side of "female", so people often say: women are jealous. However, this statement clearly carries discrimination against women, and the reason why jealousy arises is due to the small social circle and limited vision.
A big woman with a pattern is always unexpected, and she cherishes her at the top of a woman, which makes men admire her so much.
Michelle Yeoh's most formidable competitor on the road to Hollywood closure is the big devil Cate Blanchett. "VARIETY" is not a big deal to watch the excitement, so that the two "enemies" have a conversation.
I didn't see the fierce drama of the expected "Double King Showdown", but I saw the appreciation of the two top actresses for each other.
Kate said Michelle Yeoh was "a woman who made her feel very strong."
Henry Golding, the actor of "Crazy Rich Asians", also said: Hollywood rarely allows women to be so strong, and most of the time, women must be emotional and vulnerable. On the contrary, Yang is powerful.
And Michelle Yeoh's strength has been recognized by Jackie Chan. For a long time, Michelle Yeoh was known as the "female version of Jackie Chan", the two were also teachers, friends and competitors, saving each other's lives and deaths.
When Michelle Yeoh was a guest on "The Letterman Show" to promote the movie, she ridiculed Jackie Chan as a "male chauvinist Peggy".
Jackie Chan always said: Women should stay at home and cook, do nothing, like a victim, except Michelle Yeoh. Why, Michelle Yeoh was able to beat him the set.
And the director of the movie "Instant Universe" originally wanted to invite Jackie Chan to star, but Jackie Chan changed it to the big heroine when he had no schedule.
After the success of the movie, Jackie Chan sent a message to congratulate Michelle Yeoh, and the conversation changed to show off that the director found himself first, and Michelle Yeoh's return was also very unkind: Thank you, brother, it's your loss.
When Michelle Yeoh entered the circle, Jackie Chan was an idol that needed to be looked up to. They once stood side by side, and they are two pinnacles that are difficult to surpass in Hong Kong kung fu movies.
Now, Jackie Chan, who has always been machismo, has a sour tone. Whether you admit it or not, envy and jealousy, the subconscious is to admit that others are stronger.
This is Michelle Yeoh's desperate efforts to gain respect, and it is also the confidence that strength is exchanged.
Social rule 4: Take root in the circle, patiently absorb nutrients, bravely expand the circle, and maximize benefits
The date of the Malaysian wedding ceremony, which is said to be the 7,135th anniversary of Michelle Yeoh and her husband Jean Todd's acquaintance, arranged a fun photo of the two of them in 007 Bond looks at the entrance of the restaurant, with the words "Love Never Dies" written on it.
partnering with Pierce Brosnan in "Empire of Tomorrow" is Michelle Yeoh's first medal recognized for her bravery in Hollywood.
Many Chinese actors in Hollywood are trapped in the situation of being selected and not being chosen. This dilemma, Gong Li, who was crowned emperor, and Zhang Ziyi, the "International Chapter", did not break through.
However, Michelle Yeoh broke through successfully, she waited for the all-Asian lineup "Crazy Rich Asians", and it happened that the film had a big reputation in the United States, and she played the male protagonist's mother and Singaporean rich wife.
Don't say rely on luck, luck is also a manifestation of strength, the important thing is that Michelle Yeoh is patient enough and relaxed enough.
She is the daughter of a famous family, her mother tongue is fluent in English, the school she studied is advanced enough, she has wandered into high society for many years, her boyfriend is either rich or expensive, and she also casually facilitated a marriage between Li Zekai, the son of the richest man in Hong Kong, and Liang Luoshi......
What Beverly Hills celebrities, celebrities and rich wives do, she is all too familiar with. She will perform "Crazy Rich Money" immersively, wearing her own jewelry to star, which is both realistic and cost-effective.
can accurately seize the fleeting opportunity, and there is "Instant Universe" that replaces Jackie Chan.
Michelle Yeoh said at the Golden Globe Awards that as actresses get older, there are fewer and fewer job opportunities available, "I've been working in this industry for 40 years, and it's finally recognized, and it's worth the wait." Women, no one can tell you that you are too angry and never give up!"
Born in a wealthy family, he received an elite education, but he chose to be the most bitter and dangerous action actor. is rich and famous, but he has an easy-going personality and has no shelves.
A woman at the top of Vanity Fair can manage her circle of friends so strongly, the essence is actually still: you have to be valuable first, and only people in higher places are willing to play with you.
In the final analysis, all the relationships in this world are the relationships generated by value, and they are the exchange of value and value. From the drunken Vanity Fair to the intimate relationship between ordinary family couples, all follow this law.
It is rumored that the former Ferrari president proposed 10 times when he met Michelle Yeoh, gave away pigeon eggs worth 100 million, and proposed countless times during the 19-year love run. I just want to say, if Michelle Yeoh is just a little actor who catches the golden beetle son-in-law, can it really make billionaires haunted by their dreams and feel at ease if they don't marry home?
Life is an amazing journey, but also an incredible struggle, instead of looking up to the light of others, it is better to shine on your own, and the sooner you give up profiting from men and marriage, the sooner you will be free. Remember, we are always the only ones who can support us. This is the top state of women's strength.