A mother's big truth: the desperate "chicken baby" child is almost depressed, and the child learns better Xi after the mess
With the development of society, competition is becoming increasingly fierce, and parents' anxiety is increasing day by day. In order to make their children stand out in the fierce competition, many parents have begun to desperately "chicken baby", hoping to improve their children's academic Xi performance through various ways. However, can this method really make children grow up happy and healthy? A mother shared her experience based on her own personal experience.
The mother's name is Li Mei (pseudonym), and her child Xiao Ming is in the third grade of primary school. At the beginning, Li Mei, like other parents, attached great importance to their children's academic Xi. She believes that only through various tutoring classes and training classes can children make breakthroughs in their studies. So, Xiao Ming took one tutoring class after another and conducted various trainings.
However, as time passed, Li Mei discovered a problem that worried her very much: Xiao Ming began to become depressed. She didn't know what to do, and her child's depressive symptoms were getting worse and worse, which made her very distressed.
Just when Li Mei fell into despair, she realized a concept - "chicken baby" does not necessarily make children grow up healthily. She began to reflect on her approach to education and re-examine her expectations for her children. She was deeply concerned when she found that her children's interest and motivation to learn Xi were fading.
Li Mei decided to try a new way of education, no longer blindly pursuing her children's academic Xi performance, but encouraging children to express themselves freely and find their own interests. She encouraged Xiao Ming to participate in various social activities, such as participating in painting competitions and model aircraft competitions, so that he could exercise himself in practice and give full play to his potential.
In addition, Li Mei also canceled some of Xiao Ming's extracurricular tutoring classes, so that he had more time to get close to nature and experience life. She believes that children should grow up in a relaxed and free environment, rather than being oppressed by heavy academic pressure.
As it turned out, Li Mei's approach had a remarkable effect. Not only is Xiao Ming becoming happier and happier, but he has also made significant progress in his studies. He began to develop a strong interest in Xi and showed a high enthusiasm for learning Xi.
Through this experience, Li Mei deeply realized that desperately "chicken baby" does not necessarily make children grow up healthily. On the contrary, it may be better to let children grow up in a relaxed and free environment, find their own interests, and cultivate their happiness.
Of course, Li Mei's story is not absolute. Everyone's education style and concept may be different, the key is to respect children, communicate with them sincerely, and find the most suitable growth path for them. At the same time, parents also need to give their children enough support and love, so that they can be full of confidence and strength on the road to growth.
In short, desperately "chicken baby" is not the best way to educate, the key is to sincerely pay attention to children, respect their needs, and provide a happy and healthy atmosphere for children. Let's work together to raise a group of happy, healthy and creative children.