The double life of an emotional expert
Wang Weinian was originally a well-known host on the photography screen loved by the audience. has hosted many emotional programs, repaired marriages for countless broken families with a sincere attitude and meticulous analysis, and was called an "emotional expert" by the audience.
However, in real life, Wang Weinian himself has experienced two failed marriages, which is quite contradictory to the title of "emotional expert".
The first marriage failed after only a dozen years. At that time, Wang Weinian was young and vigorous, and he just wanted to break out of the world in the entertainment industry. He devotes all his time and energy to his work and has barely been with his wife and children.
Gradually, the wife developed a sense of detachment from virtue in this neglect and loneliness, and the marriage could only end in failure.
In the second marriage, Wang Weinian poured his life savings into assisting his girlfriend in establishing an art academy. But just when his girlfriend's career was successful, Wang Weinian was ruthlessly abandoned.
This time, it is not only a relationship that is lost, but all the trust in marriage.
At the same time, he swore in the show that he analyzed the marital problems of other couples, taking them as a warning and giving advice. But the audience didn't know the truth, and even sincerely envied his "successful marriage".
At this moment, Wang Weinian only had melancholy and helplessness in his heart.
Such an "emotional expert" is comfortable in the show, but in real life, he can only face two broken marriages. This dual identity and life put him in a paradox, and this tear slowly affected his work status.
First marriage: career first
Wang Weinian's first marriage was not based on true love between the two parties. In that era, the orders of parents and the words of matchmakers still dominated the lifelong events of the vast majority of young people.
The union between Wang Weinian and his wife has only known each other for less than a month. It is conceivable that the life after marriage lacks an emotional foundation and can only barely be maintained.
What's more, Wang Weinian's romantic temperament in his personality is not prominent, and he devotes all his efforts to his career.
Soon after the two got married, his wife became pregnant unexpectedly. The arrival of a new life caught Wang Weinian, who was not yet 30 years old, off guard. At this time, his long-awaited acting career finally opened a gap and had the opportunity to play the leading role.
If he gave up this opportunity, he didn't know how long he would have to wait before he could turn his fate around. Therefore, during his wife's pregnancy and after giving birth, Wang Weinian was almost alone, and worked hard for this performance.
He did become famous with this work, and his career reached a new peak, but at the cost of the marriage's feelings quickly crumbling in many cracks.
Later, when the children were a little older, Wang Weinian's married life was even more unsustainable. His wife begged him in despair to spend more time with him and his children, but Wang Weinian still chased the light of his career without hesitation.
Eventually, what began as a sloppy, interest-based marriage quietly ended after years of neglect. It also buried a greater turning point in Wang Weinian's life.
Second marriage: profit first
After experiencing a sloppy first marriage, Wang Weinian was more cautious on the emotional road. The new love he took the initiative to pursue was a woman who shared his interests. The two fell in love at first sight, Wang Weinian devoted himself wholeheartedly to this relationship, and he seemed to want to make up for the regrets of his first marriage through this relationship.
In order for this new love to realize his dream of establishing an art academy, Wang Weinian is willing to use all his savings as a start-up fund. The art academy soon built a scale with the joint efforts of the two, and the new love was able to soar in his career and gain fame and fortune.
However, what Wang Weinian never expected was that at this moment, the true face of the new love was also ruthlessly revealed - she said that marriage was just for the sake of "more cost-effective", and she could use Wang Weinian to get career help.
When the truth was revealed to the world, Wang Weinian's whole person was in extreme shock. He could no longer believe that there were really sincere feelings in this world. And this moment also became an important turning point in his life.
Looking back on the past many years later, Wang Weinian suddenly realized that the second marriage was just a new love who used himself skillfully in order to achieve the goal of his career.
I really gave it at the beginning, but I was just an ignorant person in this conspiracy. The cruelty of reality made him completely lose his way in the sea of feelings.
Reduced to "middle-aged greasy"
The failure of the two marriages caused great trauma to Wang Weinian, and directly led to the distortion and degradation of his life trajectory.
At work, he has always been proud of the radio and television circle, and has hosted emotional interview programs for decades, and has become famous at home and abroad. However, after experiencing repeated blows to his feelings, he seems to have lost his motivation and passion for work.
The reputation of the show is getting worse and worse, and Wang Weinian has fallen away from the center of the audio-visual industry step by step.
At the same time, some misdeeds are beginning to be exposed in the spotlight. Wang Weinian gradually openly told sexually suggestive jokes on the show, asking overly private questions about female guests.
He also always tries to have physical contact with women in an attempt to take advantage of them. This undoubtedly completely shook his image as a host, and he was given the notoriety of "middle-aged greasy".
Actually, this is not difficult to understand. The deprivation of affection made his mind dry up and his reason collapsed at this time. If he was just cautious in the past, he was afraid that his privacy would be exposed to the world; At this moment, why didn't he want to fill the emptiness in his heart by some obscene means? This act of self-deconstruction hastened his sinking from a giant star in the audiovisual world to a nobody.
Now Wang Weinian has lost his reputation. Decades of career glory are gone, and he is no longer concerned by the industry, and can only occasionally get one or two nostalgic words in the occasional messages of past fans.
64-year-old Wang Weinian
Time flies, and Wang Weinian's life has passed the age of sixty and four. Once upon a time, he also occupied the center of the radio and television circle, bathed in the cheers and flowers of countless audiences, and his career and feelings seemed to be complete.
However, now that he has sprung up, he has not only tasted the pain of life in two marriages, but also fallen from a successful model in the eyes of others to a "middle-aged greasy" who will never recover.
He has gone through earth-shaking changes, and in the end, he has to accept such an ending - he became a CCTV and lost to himself.
The origin of all this may be due to the ambition of simply burying his head in hard work when he was young. In order to enter the audiovisual hall, he sacrificed his first marriage; He put his life savings into his vision of becoming a new love.
But he never thought that such a sincere and almost stupid dedication could not be exchanged for emotional feedback in the end, and could only achieve a stepping stone for others to climb to the pinnacle of life.
This may be the most painful lesson of his life.
Now, Wang Weinian has long faded out of the screen and has become an ordinary "single uncle". He will spend a lot of time with his children and grandchildren, hoping to draw a little warmth from them.