I feel that it didn't take long to send my father to a nursing home, and today the dean sent a WeChat message to ask my father to pay for the next month's expenses, and this payment will cost another 4,000 yuan!
The brothers and sisters are all poor, and they can't afford to let their father live in a nursing home.
My dad was an authentic old farmer, but he loved to eat and drink all his life. He also earned a few bucks when he was young, and he ate and drank all of them.
My siblings went to school with my mother's small business, and my father earned his own money, as long as he had food and drink, he didn't care about anything.
When my dad was in his fifties and sixties, he didn't have a penny in his savings, and he spent all the money he earned.
He is from the countryside and has no pension insurance, so he relies on my mother to do a small business to support the family.
My mother died of overwork in her 60s, and on the eve of her death, she was still working in my commissary.
After my mom died, my dad relied on our brothers and sisters to support him, and we had to support not only my dad, but also my grandma.
When my grandmother was paralyzed in bed, my brothers and sisters also served me, and my dad did not serve my grandmother for a few days.
He is still the same as in the past, as long as he drinks and smokes every day, he doesn't care about anything.
Later, the land in our village was occupied, and a family divided tens of thousands of yuan, and my grandmother's money and my father's money were all held by my father, and he had money in his hands, and his life was more nourishing.
My younger siblings all work for other people, earning three or four thousand yuan a month to take care of the family's expenses, and they have never been enrolled in social security, and they will not have a pension when they are old in the future.
Even though my younger siblings had a difficult life, we didn't let my dad be wronged, he had wine and meat every day, and he ate better than any of us.
We thought that my grandmother and my mother were gone, and my father was left as an old man, so that he could live a little more comfortably in his old age, and we would have no regrets in the future.
When my dad was able to take care of himself a few years ago, each of us gave him a few hundred yuan a month, he lived in a suite by himself, took the money to the restaurant every day, and never cooked himself.
Slowly, my dad got older, and we didn't worry about letting him live by himself, so we let him live with my little brother.
When I lived with my younger brother, my brother-in-law's cooking was right, and he ate it at home.
In the second half of last year, my dad was walking slower and slower, and he couldn't even walk to the restaurant himself, so he wanted to improve his life, so he called me and asked me to order a takeout to eat.
During the Spring Festival last year, because of the epidemic, my dad didn't go downstairs for three months, he was lazy, he didn't like to exercise, his health was getting worse and worse, and he couldn't walk slowly.
In the spring of this year, my dad couldn't walk from the bedroom to the living room, so he wouldn't go to the door to pick up a takeout, so my siblings had to take turns cooking for him.
My dad is very picky about eating, he doesn't eat meat or wine at every meal, and he cooks for him every day, so that our brothers and sisters don't get tired of it.
Since last month, the weather has been getting colder and colder, and we can't cook for him back and forth every day, so my siblings discussed and sent my dad to a nursing home.
The cost of the nursing home is 4,000 yuan a month, and my father has tens of thousands of yuan in his hand, but he does not let him move, and the cost of sending the nursing home has to be shared equally with me and my two younger brothers.
My eldest brother earns 5,000 yuan a month, and he has a son who is in high school, and his son spends one or two thousand a month living in school, and after deducting the cost of his son's schooling, there is only 3,000 yuan left.
Of the 3,000 yuan, more than 1,000 yuan will be given to the nursing home, and he only has more than 1,000 yuan left for living expenses every month.
My younger brother's salary is five or six thousand yuan a month, he has a son who goes to college, and his son's living expenses are more than 1,000 yuan a month, and he is also very nervous to give his father more than 1,000 yuan a month.
My sister's family is even more unsatisfactory, and the three of us feel sorry for her and don't let her pay for it.
Although I have a pension of several thousand yuan a month, I get one or two thousand yuan a month from taking Chinese medicine, and I want to get more than 1,000 yuan a month to support my father, to be honest, I am quite nervous.
After sending my dad to a nursing home, everyone doesn't have to run back and forth to cook for him. It's a little easier mentally, but the financial pressure is much greater.
The cost of sending the nursing home for the first month was shared equally between me and my two younger brothers, and I felt that after a few days, it was time to pay the second month's fee.
After sending my dad to a nursing home, life flies so fast!
Send a message to my two younger brothers tonight, asking them to prepare money, and if they don't pay the fee, the nursing home will not be able to live anymore.