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My name is Lin Xiaowei, an ordinary thirty-year-old Shanghai woman who is married to my college boyfriend, Chen Wei. Our life was ordinary but full of small blessings, until my mother-in-law, Aunt Liu, moved in with us, and the balance of life began to waver.
That day, the atmosphere at the dinner table was unusually awkward. Aunt Liu began to mention her youngest son, my brother-in-law Chen Hao and his wife Li Jing again.
"Look at Li Jing, she is a good person, and she brought me such expensive health care products last time. Aunt Liu picked up a piece of braised pork and said with satisfaction.
I smiled slightly, trying my best to be polite, "Mom, Li Jing is indeed very careful. ”
Chen Wei lowered his head uncomfortably, just buried his head in eating. Our son, Xiaoyu, was playing with toys on the side, carefree.
"Xiaowei, you should also learn from others. Aunt Liu added, "Look at you, you're busy working all day long, and you can't even take care of your home." ”
The smile on the corner of my mouth gradually stiffened, and there was something unpleasant in my heart.
After dinner, while I was washing dishes in the kitchen, Chen Wei quietly came over to help. "Don't take it to heart, Mom's mouth is straight and not bad. ”
I sighed, "I know, but I always feel that in my mother's eyes, I will never be as good as Li Jing." ”
Just then, the doorbell rang. I went to open the door, but I saw Li Jing standing outside the door, carrying a bag of fruit.
"Xiaowei, I bought some fruit for my aunt and came over to have a look. Li Jing smiled.
I welcomed her into the house, and Aunt Liu saw Li Jing, and a satisfied smile suddenly appeared on her face.
"Auntie, these are fresh fruits I just picked from the market, you will love them. Li Jing handed the fruit to Aunt Liu.
Aunt Liu took the fruit, and the smile on her face became even brighter, "Li Jing, you are really getting better and better at being a person." ”
I stood aside, my mind mixed. Chen Wei held the rag and stood there a little embarrassed.
At night, I lay in bed tossing and turning, full of thoughts. I understand that Aunt Liu likes Li Jing because she can always do what Aunt Liu likes, while I, who is always busy with work and taking care of my family, rarely have the opportunity to perform.
The next day, I decided to change my attitude and try to please Aunt Liu through some small things. I woke up early in the morning to make breakfast. When Aunt Liu got up, I smiled and stepped forward, "Mom, I've made breakfast, you can taste it." ”
Aunt Liu smiled slightly, "What's wrong with you all of a sudden?"
I smiled back with a brighter smile, "I think my family should spend more time together." ”
But for some reason, in Aunt Liu's smile, I always do
It's not enough to read the warmth. She sat down and tasted my breakfast and nodded, "It's okay, but it's similar to what Li Jing did." ”
I tried not to let the loss show on my face and continued to smile.
That afternoon, I decided to go home early and went to the market to buy some fresh ingredients to prepare for dinner. I thought maybe I could win some goodwill through food.
When Chen Wei went home, he was a little surprised to see the table full of dishes. "Xiaowei, what's wrong today?"
I smiled and said, "I want to cook a good meal for everyone." ”
Aunt Liu sat at the dining table, watching all this without much expression. During dinner, I tried to create a relaxed and happy atmosphere, but Aunt Liu always mentioned how Li Jing was good.
After the meal, I cleaned up the dishes and chopsticks, and Chen Wei quietly came to the kitchen. "Xiaowei, don't push yourself too hard. ”
I smiled wryly, "I just want to make Mom happy." ”
"I know, but don't tire yourself too out. ”
Just then, the doorbell rang again. I went to open the door and found that it was Chen Hao and Li Jing, who were carrying some gifts in their hands.
"Sister, let's come over to see Mom, and by the way, I brought you something. Chen Hao said with a smile.
Aunt Liu heard the voice and immediately walked out of the living room. "Haohao, Jingjing, you are here. ”
Li Jing handed over the gift, "Auntie, this is the tonic we bought for you, and some for Xiaowei and Viagra." ”
Aunt Liu smiled very happily, "You guys are so sweet." ”
That night, we sat around the living room, and Chen Hao and Li Jing talked about their lives and work. I sat on the sidelines and listened to their conversation, feeling an indescribable loneliness in my heart.
The next day, I received a call from Chen Wei at work. "Xiaowei, my mother suddenly said that she was going to live in Haohao's place for a few days. ”
I was stunned for a moment, "Oh, really?"
"yes, she said she wanted a change of scenery. ”
When I hung up the phone, I felt a mixed sense of relief. Yes, maybe that's fine, at least I don't have to work hard in front of Aunt Liu for the time being.
In the evening, I came home from work and found that Aunt Liu had already packed her luggage and was ready to go to Chen Hao's house. I helped her with her luggage, smiled and said, "Mom, be careful on the road." ”
Aunt Liu nodded, "You also rest early." ”
Looking at the back of her leaving, I felt a little reluctant in my heart. Yes, despite the estrangement and incomprehension between us, she is part of the family after all.
In those days, the house seemed empty. When Chen Wei came back from work, the two of us sat in the living room, not talking much to each other. Xiao Yu was playing on the side, and the atmosphere was a little dull.
"Xiaowei, after Mom is gone
What do you think?" Chen Wei suddenly broke his silence.
I took a deep breath, "Actually, it's a bit Xi, after all, mom is here every day." ”
Chen Wei nodded, as if he felt a little guilty, "I know this time has been difficult for you, and I really appreciate you." ”
I smiled slightly, "It's okay, we're all family." ”
That night, Chen Wei suggested that we go out to dinner together to change our mood. We took Xiaoyu to a nice restaurant. The family time I haven't seen in a long time makes me feel relaxed and happy.
In the restaurant, I watched Chen Wei and Xiaoyu chatting happily, and there was a trace of warmth in my heart. Perhaps, I really need to relax and stop being so nervous to face Aunt Liu's attitude.
A few days later, Aunt Liu called and said she was ready to go home. On the phone, her voice sounded lighthearted.
"Xiaowei, I think it's good to be in Haohao's house, but I still want to go back to my own home. ”
I replied, "Mom, it's good to come back, I always feel like something is missing without you at home." ”
On the day Aunt Liu came home, I specially prepared the dishes she liked to eat. She seemed to be in a good mood and talked to me about a lot of interesting things at Chen Hao's house.
After dinner, Chen Wei and I sat on the balcony. I looked at the night sky and suddenly said, "Viagra, I was thinking, maybe I don't need to be so deliberate to please Mom." ”
Chen Wei looked at me, "You mean ......?"
"I mean, I should have been more natural. I can't always act like I'm not myself in front of her. ”
Chen Wei held my hand, "Xiaowei, you have done a good job. ”
The next day, I decided to have a frank talk with Aunt Liu. I invited her to sit in the living room and whispered, "Mom, I know you might like Li Jing more, but I also have my way." I hope we can understand each other. ”
Aunt Liu looked at me, was silent for a while, and then slowly spoke, "Xiaowei, it's not that I don't like you, it's just that sometimes, I may be more direct." ”
I nodded, "I know, Mom." We all have different lifestyles and I just hope we can live in harmony. ”
At that moment, I felt that there was a lot less gap between us.
A few days later, Li Jing came to visit again. She brought some small gifts and was as thoughtful as ever.
Aunt Liu was still happy, but this time, I didn't feel as uneasy or jealous as before. I have come to understand that everyone has their own place and role in this family, and I don't need to change myself deliberately.
In the evening, Chen Wei and I watched TV in the living room, and Aunt Liu and Xiaoyu played on the side. I looked at this heartwarming scene, and my heart was filled with gratitude and warmth.
This experience has taught me a lot. Spending time with family is not just about giving and putting in the effort, it's more
It's about understanding and acceptance. Everyone has their own way of life and way of thinking, and true harmony comes from respecting and accommodating these differences.
A few weeks later, Chen Hao and Li Jing invited our family to their house. I felt that this was a great opportunity not only to strengthen the relationship between family members, but also to be more relaxed with Auntie Liu.
On the day of the party, our family came to Chen Hao's house early. Li Jing prepared a sumptuous dinner, and the atmosphere was warm and pleasant. At the dinner table, everyone was talking and laughing, and I saw Aunt Liu's face full of happy smiles.
After the meal, we sat and chatted in the living room. Chen Hao proposes to play a family game and ask everyone to take turns saying how grateful they are to each other. When it was my turn, I took a deep look at Aunt Liu.
"Mom, although there have been misunderstandings and estrangements between us, I sincerely thank you for your care and love for our family. I wish we could get along better. ”
A hint of emotion flashed in Aunt Liu's eyes, "Xiaowei, I also want to thank you, thank you for your dedication to this family and your care for my son." I know that sometimes I speak straight and it can hurt you, and I will improve. ”
The atmosphere became more welcoming, and I felt a sense of family harmony and happiness that I had never felt before.
On the way home that night, Chen Wei held my hand, "Xiaowei, today is really great, I think our family is getting better." ”
I nodded, feeling warmth and hope in my heart.
As time went on, the relationship between me and Aunt Liu became more and more harmonious. I began to understand her ideas more, and she became more receptive to my ways. The atmosphere at home becomes relaxed and harmonious.
One night, Aunt Liu suddenly said to me, "Xiaowei, I want to learn how to Xi Internet, can you teach me? ”
I readily agreed and began teaching her how to use a smartphone and surf the Internet. Through this process, we have more communication and laughter. Aunt Liu gradually learned to use her mobile phone to video chat and even joined some interest groups.
This change has made Aunt Liu's life more colorful, and she has begun to have her own social circle and hobbies. I also feel relieved knowing that this way she won't feel lonely or bored.
Chen Wei was also very happy to see these changes. "Xiaowei, you are really great, you have made Mom find new fun. ”
I smiled and replied, "This is our common home, and everyone should feel happy and satisfied." ”
Time passed slowly, and the atmosphere of the family became more and more harmonious. I also learned how to find my place in respect and understanding. I don't care so much about Aunt Liu's occasional comparisons or biases
Instead, she learned to understand it all from her point of view.
As Aunt Liu became more and more involved in the online world, she began to have new topics to talk about. Sometimes, she would excitedly share with me interesting things she saw online or health tips. I found that this became a new point of communication between us.
We also started doing some family activities together. Once, I proposed a picnic with my family in the countryside. Aunt Liu was so happy that she even prepared some small snacks she made herself in advance. That day, we found a beautiful spot in the suburbs, rolled out picnic mats, and enjoyed the tranquility of nature and the company of family. Xiao Yu chased butterflies on the grass, while we adults sat on the sidelines and enjoyed a leisurely afternoon.
This picnic in the countryside seems to have opened up a whole new world. Aunt Liu began to become interested in outdoor activities, and she even proposed to go hiking next time. Chen Wei and I glanced at each other, and we both saw surprise and relief in each other's eyes.
At the same time, I myself have found a new balance between work and life. I was no longer so anxious about every little detail in my family, but I learned to let go and enjoy life. I find that when I relax myself, everything seems to go a little smoother.
One night, Aunt Liu suddenly thanked me. "Xiaowei, since I started learning to Xi the Internet, my life has become more colorful. I would like to thank you for your patience and help. ”
Hearing these words, I felt extremely warm and satisfied. I realized that family harmony is not only about forbearance and tolerance of each other, but also about mutual support and growth.
Chen Wei also felt the changes in his family. He would often help me clean up the dishes after dinner, and then we would sit together on the balcony and enjoy the peace of the night. He sometimes said, "Xiaowei, I think we are happier now than ever." ”
I couldn't agree more. Home is not just a place to live together, but also a space for mutual growth and exploration.
As time went on, I felt more mature and at ease. I learned to find my niche in my family life and was less nervous and anxious. For some of Aunt Liu's little personalities, I also learned to understand and treat them with a smile. And she is slowly changing, becoming more open and inclusive.
Eventually, our home becomes a haven of love and understanding. No matter how the outside world changes, there is always warmth and support here. We learn to find harmony in each other's differences, to find happiness in the little things of the everyday.
This home is not only the home of Aunt Liu, Chen Wei, Xiaoyu and me, it is the home of each of us. A home filled with love, understanding, and support. One we work together,
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