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Lai Shuxian, a Hong Kong actress, was once the runner-up of Miss Asia, starred in many movies and TV series, and worked with well-known actors such as Yam Dahua. She has a sweet smile, a gentle personality, and a happy family. However, she committed suicide by burning charcoal at home, ending her own life, which is regrettable and shocking. What was the dilemma she encountered that made her choose to leave in this way?
On December 26, 2023, Hong Kong actress Lai Shuxian committed suicide by burning charcoal at her home in North Point at the age of 46. The news of her death shocked the entire entertainment industry, and her two husbands, Lu Huiguang and Xu Zhizheng, as well as her four sons, rushed to the hospital to see her off.
At the same time, her friends and peers, such as Ren Dahua and other stars, also posted messages to mourn her and recall her beauty and regrets.
Lai Shuxian's acting career
Lai Shuxian was born on July 11, 1977. She grew up in the military in the North New Territories and attended a military public school. In 1995, she participated in the Miss Asia contest hosted by Hong Kong Asia Television and won the runner-up, thus entering the showbiz. With her pure appearance and friendly temperament, she was soon loved by the audience and began her acting career.
Lai Shuxian's representative works include the movies "Crazy Boy 3: One Hand Covers the Sky", "Biochemical Shou Corpse", etc., as well as the TV series "Interpol 1997" and "Snow Flower Sword". She has a good performance in these works, showing her acting skills and charm. She used to be a rising star in the Hong Kong film industry. Her career prospects are bright, and people are looking forward to more of her work.
Lai Shuxian's married life
Li Shuxian's success in her career did not make her neglect her feelings and family. She married Hong Kong martial arts actor Lo Wai-kwong in 1998 and had two sons, Lo Chun-yan and Lo Chun-hei. She once said in an interview that she loves her husband and children very much, and she feels that she is the happiest woman in the world. In order to take care of her family, she gradually faded out of the showbiz and only occasionally took on some works.
However, Lai's marriage did not last forever. In 2006, she and Lu Huiguang announced their divorce, ending their 8-year marriage. It is reported that there is a rift in the relationship between the two. After the divorce, Li Shuxian said that she would no longer trust men and would not marry again. She put all her heart and soul into her children, hoping to give them a complete home.
However, fate does not seem to let Li Shuxian go. In 2007, she became pregnant unexpectedly, and the father of the child was a beauty doctor named Xu Zhizheng. After giving birth to her second son, Xu Yi, Li Shuxian married Xu Zhizheng and started her second marriage. She said that she was moved by Xu Zhizheng's sincerity, and she felt that he was a person who could be entrusted for life. For him, she gave up her acting career again and concentrated on being a full-time wife. She also gave birth to her fourth son, Xu Liang, with Xu Zhizheng, which made her family more lively.
Li Shuxian seems to have a happy family, but in fact, her life is not as good as the outside world thinks. She once revealed in an interview that she has to take care of her four sons every day, spending unlimited energy and time, and she feels very tired and depressed. She sometimes wonders if her life would have been different if she hadn't been married and hadn't had children, she said. She also admits that she sometimes misses her acting career and feels that she still has a lot of dreams to achieve.
Except. According to Hong Kong media, her second husband Xu Zhizheng is a flowery person who often messes with flowers and grass outside. When Li Shuxian gave birth to her fourth son, Xu Zhizheng was photographed intimate with a woman on the street, and then her husband was photographed dating a female staff member of the clinic, and even photographed a female staff member of her husband's night party.
Lai's life is getting more and more difficult, and she feels hopeless and helpless like never before. She felt that she had no way out, no hope, and no value in existence. She also lost the courage and confidence to face her husband and children. On her social media, she sent some negative messages, but it didn't attract anyone's attention. She didn't ask anyone for help, just silently endured her suffering.
On December 26, 2023, Li Shuxian committed suicide by burning charcoal at home, ending her life. Her body was found by her son, who rushed to the police, but it was too late. After the news of Lai's death came out, it aroused widespread attention and discussion in the society.
It is reported that Li Shuxian suffered from severe depression before her death, and this disease has been with her for 20 years. Her family revealed that Lai had been suffering from depression for a long time, and the reason could be related to her work pressure, marital problems and family responsibilities. She had sought professional treatment several times and was taking antidepressant medication, but it did not work. Her condition has been up and down, and she sometimes has suicidal thoughts. Her family and friends did their best to support and encourage her, but she still couldn't shake off the shadow of depression.
Lai's family and friends also grieve and regret her suicide. They said that Lai Shuxian is a kind and responsible person, and her dedication to her family and children is unparalleled. They said that before her death, Lai never revealed her difficulties and distress to them, nor did she ask them for help or comfort. They said that if they had discovered her abnormality earlier, or had cared for and supported her a little more, perhaps she would not have gone down such a fateful path. They feel deep self-reproach and guilt for their incompetence and ignorance.
Lai's suicide has made many people realize that mental health is an issue that cannot be ignored and can affect anyone's life and happiness.
Lai's suicide is a wake-up call, reminding people to pay attention to their own psychological conditions and those around them, to detect and solve psychological problems in a timely manner, and to seek professional help and treatment. They say that suicide is not a solution to the problem, but a tragedy and pathos. They say that life is precious, and everyone should cherish and cherish their own life, and not give up and end their life easily.
Li Shuxian, a once beautiful actress, a once happy wife and mother, and a woman who once had countless dreams and hopes, chose to end her life by burning charcoal on December 26, 2023, leaving endless regrets and regrets.
May you rest in peace in heaven and may your family and friends be comforted.
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