After eating soft rice for 4 years, he relied on his wife to sell jewelry, why should such a man marry a national goddess!
Good men in the entertainment industry usually don't think it's enough, but this year, I was surprised by a casual clip.
In the show, Jingchao was not at home because of work, tutoring the child's homework online, not only carrying the child's double set of textbooks, but also mentioning the child's class progress, and the mother was still flipping through the textbook, he had calmly corrected: page 16 is "Song of the Goose".
The tone is casual and natural, and at first glance it is a Xi in life.
Not only that, his wife Xiao Li Lin added on the side: Jingchao didn't know how to play the piano at the beginning, and in order to tutor the children to practice, they all learned first and then taught the children.
Looking at the sweet and unpretentious appearance of the couple getting along with each other every day, peaceful and real, I have to say that although I don't know Jingchao, I was instantly fanned after reading it.
To borrow the words of netizens: Science fiction films don't dare to act like this.
Then the little flame of my gossip immediately burned brightly, driving me to dig deeper.
Incompatible big stars and "soft rice men"
The name of his wife Xiao Li Lin sounds a little unfamiliar, but when I mention Du Bingyan in "The Wrong Sedan to Marry the Right Lang", I am too impressed.
This smile is how beautiful I have to sigh as a girl.
The most impressive thing is that when she lifts her hijab, she wears a heavy headdress and smiles, the feeling that everyone is beautiful and natural, which is the atmosphere and dignified beauty that many small flowers can't hold up now.
A little powder, it will be beautiful.
The role of Du Bingyan made Xiao Li Lin have an impression in the hearts of the audience since then.
When the two met, Jingchao was still a poor student who had just graduated, and the two were very famous, and there was a 6-year age difference.
At that time, Xiao Li Lin had already had a failed marriage with her university teacher, with a daughter who was a few years old, but Jing Chao captured the heart of the goddess with love and sincerity.
Xiao Li Lin talked about this past at the time, and said that the most touching point for her was that her mother was hospitalized for cervical cancer, and she was afraid that it would affect Li Lin's work, so she pushed off the play and flew to the hospital, not only asking someone to find a relationship to introduce a doctor, but also taking care of her mother for more than a month.
By the time he was discharged from the hospital, the mother-in-law had fully recognized this son-in-law, and Li Lin, who was silently inspecting, also saw the love and responsibility of Jingchao through this incident in addition to the warm relationship, and the two finally entered into marriage.
At that time, their life was not easy, Li Lin's family was superior, but because of his father's business failure, his family was in the middle of the road, and Jingchao was even more unknown, and he was forced to eat soft rice because he couldn't find a job.
When the two of them were under the most pressure, Li Lin sold the 50,000 watches and a few gold bars given by his father to get by.
Even the 8.4-carat diamond that was exposed for marriage, they confessed that it was also zircon, and it was bought at the airport by Jingchao at that time with more than 2,000 yuan from all over his body.
When I heard this, I felt a sigh in my heart, Jing Chao's behavior sounded like a scumbag!
This little white face who doesn't eat soft rice and wants to prostitute for nothing?
But when I saw the back, I realized that it wasn't.
Just eating soft rice is different from other soft rice.
At that time, Li Lin was working outside and Jingchao was at home, but people were not the kind of second ancestor who only had cold soup and cold rice as soon as he went home and opened the door, and did not do anything to lie on the sofa and play games, but to cook well and actively look for a job at the same time.
When talking about this soft rice experience in the show, Jing Chao was even more blunt: I especially miss the days when she made money and I spent money.
For the watch, I also solemnly promised her that my husband will definitely buy you back the same as the new model!
As it turned out, he did.
And life also gave the young couple a little sunshine, and they finally walked through this most difficult time hand in hand.
Jing Chao continued to hone his acting skills and slowly received the role.
In 2016, he played the role of Ling Yunche, the guard of "The Legend of Ruyi", and began to be well-known.
And the focus of their relationship began to change slowly, Li Lin began to return to the family and go out to earn money.
Almighty husband and boastful wife
Because of their work, they and their children are now separated from each other. When I participated in the recent "Housework Honor Student", it happened to be the super crew going to Hangzhou to see his wife on vacation.
At that time, as soon as he entered the door, he imagined that there would be a greeting for Jing Chao, but after seeing that there was no one at the door, he also put down the box and went straight to the kitchen.
He quickly took over Li Lin's kitchen, not only did he have good knife skills, but also opened double fires, and after a clean operation, the kitchen work was instantly orderly.
But Li Lin, who wanted to show it at this time, not only was she busy but didn't help, but she also made frequent troubles after a while, and performed a braised pot lid for everyone.
Jing Chao was in a stable mood next to him, smiling with wrinkles on his face.
The two of them had eaten and drunk to their heart's content, and he began to hang up the curtains in full swing again.
And the work is not to complete the task, and the crumpled curtains are carefully ironed.
Li Lin even opened the boasting mode in all directions, and the emotional value was pulled to the ceiling.
Even Jing Chao himself said that if he didn't do more and more work, he would have praised it, and the folds on his face smiled even deeper.
Then he showed us his image of an all-round husband, the more he boasted, the more addicted he became, and the more he boasted, the more capable he became.
Repairing, cooking, changing dressings, checking pulses, sewing, and properly conquering everyone on and off the screen.
But there are a few small things that stand out to me.
One is that although he does his job well, he will also take care of the tenosynovitis on his wife's hands, buy gifts to make her happy, and take pictures of her silly appearance as a souvenir.
True love is subtle and silent, he doesn't show it, but his love is always there ❤️.
The second thing is to be very focused on doing things.
Jingchao will be immersed in one thing when he does one thing, and he will pay energy to do things well. When cooking, I was fully engaged and undisturbed, and even my friends played suona happily, and they all pondered "Hundred Birds and Phoenix" by themselves, and after the show, I also bought suona and studied it every day.
Such a person can do anything well.
While focusing, he is extremely self-disciplined, exercising, arranging children's Xi, and even to the point of Li Lin complaining.
But what amazes me the most is the part where he outputs his educational philosophy, the beginning of the show, witnessing his strict and responsible side, but after listening to what Xiao Li Lin said, I really saw that this is a good father.
And about the child, he is the one who takes the responsibility.
As a peer in the industry, Weijia heard that Jingchao actually blocked a lot of himself, and focused his attention on work and family.
Li Lin replied: This is indeed true.
Such a good father and husband who can afford to joke, put down his body, have emotional stability, have work in his eyes, are extremely self-disciplined, and focused on doing things, completely conquered the guests in the show.
At that time, the host asked Li Lin such a sentence: Do you sometimes lie in bed and sigh how you are so lucky to marry Jingchao?
And Li Lin's answer was enlightening, which also made me see the wisdom in her marriage.
Because when he has nothing and is nothing, I love him very much, and this love is love and love, there are no conditions.
She is independent and sober, can face up to her own contribution in marriage, and knows that they are evenly matched with each other.
Even the emotional mentor said that we have seen the various omnipotences of Jingchao, but in fact, there is also Li Lin's life wisdom behind it, which is atmospheric and delicate.
With such a couple, it is no wonder that the marriage is managed so well.
In addition to marriage, in fact, you can also see Jing Chao's character, once in the show, he and Zhang Junning played against each other, Zhang cried uncontrollably, and the snot flowed out, at that time, Jing Chao was afraid that she would be embarrassed, so he took her snot in his hand.
No wonder netizens say that you have to love someone who is good in itself, not someone who is very good to you. Adult love, only screened, not changed.
When you meet the right person, you experience happiness in him, and when you meet the wrong person, you recognize the world in him.
A truly happy marriage
It is mutual support
There are actually a lot of good wives like Li Lin in life, and many mothers are doing very well, but there are too few husbands like Jing Chao.
Netizens said:
Many times, the reason why mothers are tormented by marriage and are full of bruises and hoarseness is actually behind the grievances of strong support.
But after reading their stories, I felt a little emotional: a truly happy marriage is not the struggle of one person, but the mutual support of two people.
You know me, I know you. When I need to, I can go up, and when I am at a low point, I can give what I can with peace of mind.
can see the other party's efforts, and can also give each other affirmation.
There is also an honest and confident sense of worthiness in each other: I work hard for this, and I deserve to enjoy the happiness I have now.
This kind of love really deserves them for a long time.
After reading their stories, how do you feel about marriage? Let's talk about it in the comment area~
(PS: I'm afraid you don't believe in science fiction movies, so I specially present a chance encounter picture of passers-by.) ）
Visited Beihai Park with the eldest daughter and second daughter