Yuan Li's childhood was not valued
Yuan Li was born in an ordinary family, but when she was just born, her wrinkled small body and thin appearance did not meet her parents' wishes.
Especially the mother, the first time she saw her daughter's reaction was to sigh, regretting that she had suffered so much and gave birth to such an ugly child.
Perhaps because she had expectations for her appearance after giving birth to her daughter, the disappointment at this moment was even greater, and the mother had no maternal love for Yuan Li, who was still in infancy.
She rarely hugged Yuan Li and rarely talked to her, because she didn't like this daughter in her heart.
However, where did Yuan Li, who was young, understand her mother's true thoughts, she only said that there must be something that she is not good enough to not be loved by her mother. She began to study hard Xi, was at the top of her classwork, and went to various interest classes after school.
On her birthday, she would make her own cake for her mother, but her mother just glanced at it, said "the cake is good" and turned away.
At this time, Yuan Li's younger brother had been born, a beautiful and cute boy. His mother looked at him with a smile in her eyes. Other family members also doted on Yuan Li's younger brother more.
And Yuan Li worked hard and complained, but her mother didn't give her a smile after all.
The pain of being left out became clearer and clearer, and Yuan Li's heart was extremely insecure and identifiable. She didn't know what she was not doing well enough, but she didn't know how to please her mother.
This frustration and inferiority complex became the main color of her entire childhood.
The acting skills were recognized, and the mother's attitude changed
Yuan Li gradually grew up, not only tall and elegant, but also more and more delicate facial features, already the appearance of a fair lady. She was determined to develop her own strengths, left her hometown and was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy, and plunged into the palace of art.
During college, she devoted herself wholeheartedly and worked tirelessly to learn Xi from the director teacher. Although his qualifications are still shallow, his acting skills are becoming more and more exquisite, coupled with his outstanding appearance, he has gradually won the appreciation of the older generation of artists.
There are always directors in the drama team who invite her to start some small roles on the screen.
Yuan Li seized every opportunity to perform seriously and did not let go of any shot. In front of the camera, she only has the role in her eyes, and her all-out interpretation won everyone's applause.
Gradually, the mother also heard the praise of relatives and friends in her hometown, and the dancing posture of this daughter in front of her, where is the shyness and resignation of the year.
The mother watched her daughter sway her enthusiasm on the TV screen, and her heart was mixed. Perhaps from a certain moment, her eyes are no longer so indifferent, and her acceptance and recognition of this successful daughter have slowly sprouted.
met Xu Wei and was pampered to the sky
At the age of 28, Yuan Li met 40-year-old Xu Wei at a drinking party in the entertainment industry. Xu Wei's family background is illustrious, and his business is doing well, and the male and female stars present all want to come forward to please him.
He took a fancy to Yuan Li at a glance in the crowd, and was attracted by her crystal clear skin and demure temperament.
Xu Wei stepped forward to introduce himself, and the two talked all night. He favored Yuan Li, took the initiative to ask for a mobile phone number, and insisted on sending her home before leaving. Yuan Li was a little overwhelmed at first, but for the sake of Xu Wei's good talk and outstanding appearance, he opened his mind.
Since then, Xu Wei has begun to pursue enthusiastically, sending brand-name clothing and high-end food, and rushed to the scene of Yuan Li's crew again and again, standing aside in a straight suit and waiting silently.
Yuan Li is on the rise in her career, and Xu Wei's appearance undoubtedly makes her the focus of the whole group. But no one would believe that this handsome man who spoiled Yuan Li all day long would be her suitor.
"This brother is too good, isn't he?" The young actor in the same crew asked with a smile. Yuan Li was a little shy, and then he responded softly: "He's my boyfriend." The scene was suddenly sensational, and they all said that they could capture the hearts of wealthy businessmen, and Yuan Li's luck was too good.
Xu Wei took care of her even more hand-in-hand, as if declaring sovereignty in front of everyone. In this way, Yuan Li was spoiled by him.
Zhao Ling's unsuitable marriage
Shortly after breaking up with Xu Wei, Yuan Li met the actor Zhao Ling during the filming of "The Colonel's Daughter". Zhao Ling is handsome, slender, and a new student, and countless girls are crazy about him.
But he has a reserved personality, and the beautiful actresses in the crew take the initiative to approach, and he just laughs and doesn't say anything.
On this day, the two passed by in the lounge, Zhao Ling looked at Yuan Li, and the two looked at each other. "Where have we met, this young lady?" He took the initiative to speak, and there was curiosity in his tone.
Yuan Li looked at him in a daze, and he couldn't remember that there had been an intersection. In this way, the two chatted.
Yuan Li found that as long as he faced himself, Zhao Ling opened the conversation box and kept talking. Maybe it's because of the integration of acting skills, and maybe because of the lessons from the past, Yuan Li and Zhao Ling quickly established a relationship.
Her friends hurriedly dissuaded her, fearing that she would make another mistake on impulse, but Yuan Li turned a deaf ear, and the two got married three months later.
After marriage, life was completely out of the honeymoon period, Zhao Ling became an alcoholic, and did not return late at night. Every time he returned home drunk, he yelled in front of Yuan Li. Yuan Li, who was newly married at the beginning, couldn't stand it anymore, and the two quarreled more and more.
Within a few months, Zhao Ling's marriage failed and ended in divorce.
and Lin Bowen's joys and sorrows
After the divorce, Yuan Li was very depressed, and she decided to return to work in the crew, hoping to forget about this heartache marriage for the time being. She was filming on the set as usual that day, and a small fan asked to take a photo with her.
When the two stood still and were about to pose, Yuan Li slammed into a "wall" behind him.
"Ahh She cried out, and when she looked back, a tall man stood behind her. The dazzling sunlight poured down from the top of his head, setting off the angular features to be extremely handsome.
Yuan Li couldn't help but look at this unexpected "roadblock" in distraction.
"Is Miss alright?" He asked with concern, his voice low and magnetic. It turned out that the tall man was a fan friend who came to visit the class, a lawyer working in Shanghai, named Lin Bowen.
After the two chatted, Yuan Li admired his demeanor even more.
Lin Bowen's pursuit of Yuan Li was very fast, and Yuan Li's reply was also very happy. The two got married in a flash after only 4 months of acquaintance. Friends repeatedly reminded her not to repeat the mistakes of the past, but she still chose to believe that this was the true love she had been waiting for for a long time.
The days after marriage seem to be very happy, and Lin Bowen is by Yuan Li's side when he has time. However, it didn't take long for her to notice that Lin Bowen's personality was a little casual, he liked to go around with a group of buddies, and every time he didn't say hello, he would lose news for a few days.
He had messed up the huge house, with a pile of toys scattered on the floor. Yuan Li couldn't bear to throw them out of the door, but it caused Lin Bowen to be furious. The relationship between the two broke down like a thin line, and the marriage of only 4 years came to an end, and Lin Bowen also withdrew from Yuan Li's heart.
When I met Liang Taiping, I was happy
The failure of three marriages made Yuan Li very painful and self-reproachful. She went on vacation to the island alone, trying to empty her body and mind and regain her confidence and hope. One day while strolling along the beach, she saw a man sitting on a reef with a pen in his hand and a paper by his side, jogging down something from time to time.
Yuan Li walked curiously, this person was Liang Taiping, a poor poet who made a living by writing poetry. He looks ordinary, dressed simply and simply, but the appearance he is creating exudes an extraordinary temperament.
Yuan Li stood aside and listened to him recite a lyric poem in a low voice, and was immediately deeply moved.
"Sir, your poems are awesome. She couldn't help but praise. Liang Taiping looked up at the source of the voice and met Yuan Li's sparkling eyes.
The two fell in love very closely, and after chatting, Yuan Li was even more impressed by his talent and ideals. After returning to China, Liang Taiping actively courted her.
At first, Yuan Li's friends were not optimistic about this relationship. They think that with Yuan Li's beauty and achievements, how can he be worthy of a nobody. But witnessing the daily love between the two, friends also have to agree that Liang Taiping is Yuan Li's destined other half.
After marriage, Yuan Li reduced his work and accompanied Liang Taiping everywhere. They climbed mountains and waded through water, had poetry and wine, and woke up in romance every day. Now Yuan Li has finally found true love, and at the age of 50, she lives a happy life.
The long road of marriage finally won his own happiness
After seeing Yuan Li's first three husbands, it is not difficult for us to find a turning point in her married life. The first boyfriend Xu Wei was considerate and held her in the palm of his hand, but because of this, he lost the possibility of treating her sincerely.
Zhao Ling's relationship burned too quickly, and after marriage, the personality discord between the two surfaced, and they could only part ways in the end. Lin Bowen is sunny and cheerful, and he and Yuan Li have also been sweet for a while, but they don't know that they need two hearts to truly understand for a long time, which is why they lost each other.
And Liang Taiping is very different from the other three. Not only because his status is not as good as before, but because he accompanies Yuan Li with peace, tolerance and support. He doesn't force Yuan Li to achieve more, he doesn't try to restrain her freedom, he just wants her to be happy and comfortable.
Liang Taiping listened attentively, expressed it with poetry, and gave her plenty of personal space. This gentleness and thoughtfulness has become a match made in heaven between the two.
Maybe we all yearn for a romantic love, what "I want to fulfill you" and "the ends of the earth catch the stars for you". But when you really enter the marriage hall, flowers and rain fall everywhere, and after the romance fades, you will get along.
The most precious thing between husband and wife is consistent understanding and support in the midst of ups and downs. This is also the happiness that Yuan Li finally found in Liang Taiping after three failed marriages.
So far, her long road of love and marriage has also come to a successful end. Choosing to marry the person who is best for herself and have a lifetime of happiness is her ultimate answer.