In 1981, an ordinary spring, Xie Xingfang was born in an ordinary family in Guangzhou. Although the parents are hardworking and kind, the family conditions are very ordinary, and the economic income can only support the basic needs of life.
As a result, Xie Xingfang's childhood life was very simple, she could not have colorful toys like other children, and she rarely had the opportunity to go out and play.
When she was in elementary school, Xie Xingfang's life took a turn for the better. Because of her tall stature, she was photographed by the physical education teacher and entered the school's badminton team for training. At first, parents didn't take it very seriously, seeing it as just a way to exercise.
However, Xie Xingfang showed extraordinary talent in badminton and soon became the pillar of the school team.
By chance, the coach of the Guangzhou badminton team discovered Xie Xingfang's potential and selected her to the Guangzhou team for systematic training. In a blink of an eye, Xie Xingfang threw herself into professional badminton training like a moth to a fire.
Parents also gradually realized that this could be a great opportunity to change Xie Xingfang's fate.
With her outstanding talent and hard work, Xie Xingfang quickly rose to prominence, winning several important competitions. At the 1994 Guangdong Provincial Games, Xie Xingfang, who was only 13 years old, won three championships in women's singles, women's doubles and team competitions, and became famous.
In 1998, Xie Xingfang cooperated with Zhang Jiewen and won the women's doubles championship at the World Youth Championships in Melbourne. A little girl from an ordinary family blooms brilliantly on the badminton court and becomes a star player of the new generation.
Met and fell in love with Lin Dan
Lin Dan is two years younger than Xie Xingfang, and she only entered the national team when she was already famous. Lin Dan, who has just entered the national team, every time he sees Xie Xingfang, a beautiful big sister, his heart always swells up.
He envied the people in the team who could talk to Xie Xingfang, and wanted to find an opportunity to get close to her, but he didn't dare to take the initiative to show favor, so he could only sigh.
After an international competition, Lin Dan plucked up the courage to confess. But because Xie Xingfang was two years older than him, he felt that it was a loss of identity to accept the pursuit of athletes two years younger, so he rejected Lin Dan's confession.
Although Lin Dan was disappointed, he did not give up his pursuit of Xie Xingfang. He changed his strategy and began to show his heart with various small gifts.
Whenever Lin Dan came back from a competition, he would quietly prepare a small gift for Xie Xingfang. He sent perfumes, bracelets, cosmetics, etc., so that Xie Xingfang could feel his heart.
Lin Dan will also care about Xie Xingfang in training and life, making her feel warm.
In 2007, when the two finally won the All England Open at the same time, Lin Dan excitedly kissed Xie Xingfang on the podium and made their relationship public. It turned out that under long-term care, Xie Xingfang's heart had been touched by Lin Dan and agreed to be with him.
In the 2008 Beijing Olympics, Lin Dan finally defeated Xie Xingfang and won the men's singles gold medal. After the game, Lin Dan's first thought was to run to congratulate Xie Xingfang on her silver medal.
He hugged Xie Xingfang, who was still immersed in defeat, and comforted softly: "The silver medal is also outstanding, I'm proud of you."
Looking at Lin Dan's golden medal beside her, Xie Xingfang's eyes were red, but she quickly adjusted her mentality and said with a smile: "I will make persistent efforts to stand on the top with you."
In 2009, after years of falling in love, Xie Xingfang and Lin Dan finally tied the knot and began a happy married life.
At first, the two had a very sweet life. Lin Dan took good care of Xie Xingfang, and Xie Xingfang also tried her best to be a virtuous helper. The two care about each other and often go out on dates and travel.
Friends are envious of their feelings.
Soon, Xie Xingfang became pregnant. Lin Dan was very happy and waited for his pregnant wife every day. However, when Xie Xingfang was about to give birth, Lin Dan was unable to accompany his wife to give birth due to severe blood sickness.
Xie Xingfang could only wait for delivery in the delivery room alone, and Lin Dan anxiously paced back and forth outside the door.
"The doll is born!" After the staff opened the door, Lin Dan shouted excitedly. He rushed into the delivery room in three steps and two steps, trying to cut the umbilical cord for the child himself, but was told that the nurse had finished handling it.
Lin Dan was stunned in place, a little regretful that he missed this important moment.
Since then, Lin Dan has loved his wife and children even more, but his busy training and competition have prevented him from being with his family often. Xie Xingfang understands Lin Dan's work, but she still hopes to have more time to reunite with her family.
At this moment, Xie Xingfang became pregnant again. Due to the many complications during the last delivery and the advanced maternal age, this pregnancy was very risky for her. During pregnancy, she had repeated stomach pain, vomiting and other symptoms, and because Lin Dan was not around, she could only grit her teeth and endure it.
In this way, in pain, Xie Xingfang finally survived to the due date. However, the labor process did not go smoothly, and the baby was never delivered smoothly. Looking at the painful Xie Xingfang, Lin Dan's heart was like a knife, but because he was afraid of the bloody scene, he was still powerless.
After a long labor process, Xie Xingfang finally gave birth to a baby with the help of doctors, and she also exhausted all her physical strength.
Although marriage is sweet, it inevitably experiences various setbacks. Xie Xingfang and Lin Dan have both grown up in the process and learned to understand and care for each other better.
Just after Xie Xingfang experienced two difficult births, Lin Dan's derailment incident broke out, which became a bolt from the blue that hit the family hard.
In 2016, some media exposed Lin Dan's improper relationship with a young model. Photos and videos show the two intimately appearing in public. As soon as the news came out, public opinion was in an uproar.
Everyone is talking about it, and they are all speculating about how this will affect Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang's marriage.
In this storm of public opinion, Xie Xingfang is undoubtedly the one who suffers the most. She had just given birth to two children to Lin Dan and was under tremendous physical and psychological pressure. Unexpectedly, Lin Dan cheated when she needed company the most. This news was undoubtedly a heavy blow to her emotions.
After receiving the news, Xie Xingfang cried bitterly at home, her heart was like a knife, she was angry at Lin Dan's infidelity, and she was also sad that she had paid so much to get such a result.
She remembered the sweet bits and pieces when she first got married, and the children they raised together, and her nose became even more sore.
In order to save the family and maintain the environment in which the child grows up, Xie Xingfang made a difficult decision - to publicly forgive Lin Dan's mistakes, and said that she would continue to face the future life hand in hand with him.
The media photographed the three of them walking in the park, and everything seemed normal on the surface, but Xie Xingfang could not hide the loss and sadness in her heart. She understands that she is doing this for the sake of her children, but the wounds in her heart cannot be easily healed.
After the derailment incident, Xie Xingfang put more attention on her career. She has created her own mother and baby brand and is actively involved in other entrepreneurial projects as an investor. Xie Xingfang began to become financially independent, and gradually showed the demeanor of a strong woman.
After this incident, Xie Xingfang has matured a lot. She began to take charge of her own life, rather than just as an appendage to Lindane. Lin Dan also realized his mistake and cherished Xie Xingfang even more.
Their relationship found a new balance in the run-in, and Xie Xingfang also found a new purpose in life.
Time has passed, and in the seventh year of the derailment incident, Xie Xingfang finally mentioned this past in an interview and said that she had completely let go.
"Every couple has a past that we don't understand, and I chose to forgive and let go of those unhappy memories. Xie Xingfang said. From her tone, there was not a trace of resentment to be heard.
When talking about her children, Xie Xingfang's eyes lit up: "My life is very fulfilling now, and my two children are growing up very well, which is also very gratifying. It can be seen that she has put all her mind on her family and career.
"There will always be ups and downs in life, and I believe that Lin Dan will become more and more intimate with me and my children. Xie Xingfang said. There was a mature openness in her tone.
"I am no longer the fragile girl I was back then, now I know how to cherish myself and look at life more rationally. Xie Xingfang's statement made people see a new her.
Xie Xingfang's calm and calm attitude shows that she not only walked out of the shadow of the pain of the year, but also found her own direction in life. Her relationship with Lin Dan has stabilized in the run-in, and she has become more and more beautiful and confident.