After the death of the elderly, the debts should be paid off in a timely manner
Mr. Wang is 90 years old, his health is deteriorating, and he expects that his days are numbered. The only thing he cares about is that he can pay off all his debts in his lifetime, and he doesn't want to bring any financial disputes to his children and grandchildren.
So Mr. Wang called his old friend and Principal Li, who was also the biggest creditor, and said that he wanted to meet him to discuss the debt.
Principal Li had great respect for Mr. Wang, and immediately drove to Mr. Wang's home after getting the call.
Seeing Wang Lao lying weakly on the bed, Principal Li felt very uncomfortable. Wang Lao reverently shook Principal Li's hand, begging him to forgive the debts he had accumulated in his later years, hoping that Principal Li would give him leniency.
Principal Li's eyes were red, his heart was full of guilt, and he softly comforted Wang Lao not to take it to heart, money is a trivial matter, and a deep friendship is the most cherished. President Li said that he would do his best to help Mr. Wang's family settle their debts and would never embarrass everyone.
Elder Wang's nose was sour when he heard this, and he thanked Principal Li for his magnanimity. Wang Lao sighed that he could meet such a bosom friend in the last moment, and he had never come to this world in vain in his life.
The two elders were speechless, but they both saw tears of excitement in each other's eyes. Holding each other's old hands, they looked at each other and smiled, their fingers interlocked. In this way, the debt problem was solved without much effort, and Wang Lao was relieved and relieved.
After the death of the elderly, care for the neighbors
Uncle Wang has lived in this community for more than ten years and has a good relationship with all his neighbors. Over the years, the neighbors have often helped each other, forming a tacit understanding and warmth.
After Uncle Wang died, his wife, Aunt Li, lived alone at home, and the neighbors took the initiative to come and visit. Aunt Zhang brought Aunt Li home-cooked lively rice and red bean soup every day, and although Aunt Li was sad, she was grateful for Aunt Zhang's kindness.
Uncle Li Hu is an old friend of Uncle Wang, and often comes to the house to chat and play chess. Now that Uncle Wang is gone, Uncle Li Hu is more concerned about Aunt Li's life. Uncle Li Hu can always find various reasons to visit Aunt Li, talk to her, tell stories from the past, and help her dispel loneliness.
Aunt Li slowly realized that her husband was generous and helpful during his lifetime, so the neighbors would return the favor from the bottom of their hearts. Aunt Li feels that she is not alone, because she is accompanied by these neighbors who are full of human feelings.
Once, when Aunt Li was sick and hospitalized, all the neighbors spontaneously came to visit, and also organized to bring her food, water, and cleaning. Aunt Li said thank you with tears in her eyes, and she was moved.
The love of the neighborhood made Aunt Li go through the most difficult time, and also made her truly realize the truth that the love between people is stronger than gold. This warmth is more comforting than heritage.
After the death of the elderly, inherit the family motto to lead the younger generation
After Grandpa Wang died, his grandson Xiao Zhang took leave to go home for funeral. Grandpa Wang's cousin, Mr. Ma, took Xiao Zhang to live in his home and began to explain to him the historical origin of the family and the family motto and family rules.
Mr. Ma kindly told Xiao Zhang that he should always keep in mind the family motto of "self-cultivation and family governance and peace in the world", not only for small profits in front of him, but also to know how to assume social responsibility.
After listening to Mr. Ma's teaching, Xiao Zhang couldn't help but burst into tears, and was determined to take Grandpa Wang as an example, cultivate his character well, and practice the core values of the family.
Mr. Ma sensed that Xiao Zhang was still in extreme grief. He patiently told Xiao Zhang that birth, old age, sickness and death are natural laws, and that we must learn to enlighten ourselves and get out of grief in order to regain our strength.
Xiao Zhang nodded, indicating that he would keep in mind Ma Lao's teachings and would not lose his way in grief.
Xiao Zhang asked Mr. Ma to tell a lot of stories about Grandpa Wang's life and the development of the family. After hearing this, Xiao Zhang suddenly brightened up and regained the meaning of life.
He is determined to carry forward the family style and write a new chapter for the family.
Before leaving, Xiao Zhang bowed respectfully to Mr. Ma, saying that he would definitely practice the family motto, inherit righteousness, and would be diligent in coming back to consult Mr. Ma in the future. Mr. Ma nodded with satisfaction and watched Xiao Zhang leave.
After the death of the elderly, properly handle the inheritance
After Mrs. Li left, her son Li Zhizhong was very sad, but he also understood that he had to properly deal with the inheritance of his mother's inheritance.
Li Zhizhong first contacted his mother's friends and debtors before his death, and took the initiative to coordinate the creditor's rights and debts. In the process of dividing the estate, Li Zhizhong had a humble attitude and tried his best to restrain himself from arguing with his brother, hoping that peace would be precious.
According to Mrs. Li's last wishes, part of the property should be donated as an education fund. Li Zhizhong's younger brother, Li Zhiguang, was very dissatisfied with this, believing that the money could have been distributed to the family.
Li Zhiguang found Li Zhizhong's theory and claimed that he had suffered a loss in distribution.
Li Zhizhong calmly explained to Li Zhiguang that his mother's last wish should still be implemented first, and the education fund is also a meaningful thing. Li Zhi loyally said that he only got a small part of the inheritance, and everyone was the same, hoping that Li Zhiguang could understand his mother's intentions.
After communication, Li Zhiguang gradually understood his mother's thoughts and accepted the distribution plan. Li Zhizhong thanked Li Zhiguang for his understanding and support. The two brothers hugged each other and cried, the conflict was resolved, and the family core was inherited.
Li Zhizhong knows that there are always differences in inheritance and property, but as the flesh and blood of the same mother, feelings are the most valuable. Properly handling the inheritance and allowing the family to be reborn after grief is the best relief for the elderly.