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My name is Zhang Xiaoming, I am 35 years old this year, and I am an ordinary office worker. I have been married to my wife Li Xiaofang for 7 years, and we have a 7-year-old daughter named Zhang Xiaohong.
Xiaofang's married life with me can be described as plain and ordinary. Xiaofang is more extroverted and likes to socialize, while I am more introverted, and my favorite thing after work is to read books and watch TV at home. Xiaofang often complained that I was too lifeless and not generous enough.
"Zhang Xiaoming, can't you change your personality? You stay at home for everything, and you don't take the initiative to socialize, how will Xiaohong find a partner in the future?" Xiaofang often said this to me.
I understood what she meant, but it was too hard for me to change my personality. I'm still Xi to living quietly alone.
Just last month, I met a woman whose appearance turned my life upside down.
One of my old classmates came to me that day for a party at his new bar. I didn't want to go, but my classmates said that everyone would participate, and it would be too embarrassing if I didn't go, so I had to reluctantly go.
After coming to the bar, I saw a lot of old classmates, everyone drank one cup at a time, and the atmosphere was very warm. I was still the same, sitting silently with a glass of beer.
At this moment, a tall, sweet-looking woman walked over, and her classmates greeted her warmly, and it could be seen that she had a good relationship with these people.
"Come, let me introduce to you, this is an old classmate of mine, Wang Li. The classmate said as he pulled the woman to sit down next to me.
I looked at Wang Li and couldn't help but feel a little distracted. She has waist-length hair, delicate and beautiful facial features, fair skin, tall and well-proportioned figure, and looks exceptionally beautiful and moving. She wore a red dress that set off her good figure.
"Hello, my name is Wang Li, please take care of me. She smiled at me, her sweet voice sounding like heaven.
"You, hello, my name is Zhang Xiaoming. I replied with a bit of a stammer.
"Hehe, Zhang Xiaoming, you look so serious. Wang Li said with a smile.
"He's always been like this, he's too homely, he likes to be alone. The classmate chimed in.
"There's nothing wrong with that, society is too complicated now, and it's good to be alone. Wang Li said.
I was a little surprised, usually Xiaofang and my friends think I am too lifeless, but Wang Li can understand my character, which makes me a little moved.
"Yes, yes, I really don't like to socialize, I prefer to be alone and think about life quietly. I was a little embarrassed to say.
Wang Li's words made me feel that she was a very temperamental woman. The two of us had a very speculative conversation, and she said that her husband often went out to work, and she liked to stay at home quietly and read books and listen to music without interruption. I was amazed when I heard it, it turned out that Wang Li and I were so similar personalities.
"I often feel a little lonely and lonely when I'm home alone, don't you think?" Wang Li said to me with a smile.
"Yes, yes, I often feel empty and bored by myself. I said excitedly.
"Why don't the two of us become friends, come out when we have time, get together and chat, so that life will not be so boring. Wang Li proposed.
I was so happy that I quickly said, "Okay, okay, I'd love to be friends with you!"
"Then it's decided! Feel free to contact you when you're free in the future!" Wang Li said with a smile.
After that day, I started to message Wang Li often and chat with her. We would talk to each other about work and life, and Wang Li always gave me a lot of good advice. Talking to her made me feel incredibly relaxed and happy.
One day, Wang Li asked me to go to a party at a newly opened café. I went happily, thinking it was just the two of us, but I didn't expect a few of Wang Li's friends to come. I was a little shy and didn't dare to speak. Wang Li saw that I was sitting on the side and was not energetic, so she came to chat with me intimately, which made me feel very warm.
"Zhang Xiaoming, why do you look unhappy?" Wang Li asked me with concern.
"I'm a little uncomfortable with this kind of occasion, but I still like to have a quiet chat with the two of you. I said shyly.
"Haha, let's go to a quiet place alone next time. Wang Li said with a smile.
I was so happy that I finally had the opportunity to be alone with Wang Li. Since I met Wang Li, I have found that I have become more proactive, and I will ask Wang Li out for dinner, shopping, and movies. Wang Li is also happy to accompany me, and I feel extremely happy to be with her.
Xiaofang was a little surprised to find out that I had been going out a lot lately.
"How have you been running around lately, and have you made any new friends?" Xiaofang asked me curiously.
"What kind of friend? Xiaofang asked.
"Just an ordinary friend, nothing. "I'm a little shimmering.
"Okay, if you're happy. ”
Although Xiaofang was still a little confused, she didn't ask any more. I secretly breathed a sigh of relief, but I still didn't want Xiaofang to know about me and Wang Li.
Wang Li and I see each other more and more often, sometimes several times a week. We would go shopping together, and Wang Li would always be able to pick out some beautiful and well-fitting clothes for me; We would also go to movies or concerts, and Wang Li's interests were so similar to mine, we could talk for a long time about everything.
Once, the two of us went to the playground. I was very nervous because I didn't dare to ride roller coasters and other thrills since I was a child. Wang Li looked nervous at me, smiled and took my hand and said, "Don't be afraid, I'm here, let's ride a roller coaster together!"
Since then, when I meet Wang Li, I will unconsciously hold hands and hug, and I will also secretly kiss her on the cheek. Our relationship has unconsciously crossed the boundaries of friends.
"Zhang Xiaoming, I feel extremely happy to be with you. One day, Wang Li suddenly said to me.
"Me too, you changed my life and allowed me to find my other half of myself. I said affectionately.
"Then let's be together, just the two of us. Wang Li took the initiative to hug me and said.
Xiaofang noticed that I often didn't come home at night, and one day asked me directly, "Are you having an affair? What the hell are you doing?"
I panicked and said, "What, what, what kind of affair, I'm just busy with work, sometimes I work overtime and live late in the company." ”
"Do you think I'm a three-year-old?" Xiaofang said angrily.
"Xiaofang, I really don't have an affair, you have to believe me!" I hurriedly explained, but Xiaofang had already slammed the door away.
I was so anxious that Xiaofang looked really angry this time. I sent a message to Wang Li saying that things have not been good lately, and that we had better see each other less for a while.
Wang Li messaged back that she understood, but still hoped to see me often. I know that I also have true feelings for Wang Li, and I can't cut off contact with her.
Xiaofang became more and more suspicious of me, often looking at my phone and asking me where I had gone. I can only find all kinds of excuses to prevaricate her.
"I've signed up for evening classes in the evenings, so it's normal not to go home at night. ”
"The company was preparing a big project recently, and I needed to work overtime. ”
The lies I made up became more and more ridiculous every time, and Xiaofang's face became more and more ugly.
One day, she suddenly said that she wanted to go to the so-called "night school" with me, and I panicked and couldn't make up an excuse on the spot.
"What the hell are you hiding from me? If you don't tell the truth, we'll divorce!" Xiaofang roared.
"I knew it! Xiaofang cried bitterly, "We have been married for so many years, how can you do such a thing!"
"Xiaofang, please forgive me this time, I swear that I will be loyal to you in the future and love you alone. I pleaded.
"I can't forgive you for what you did! We're going to get a divorce tomorrow!" Xiaofang said resolutely.
I knelt on the ground and begged her to stop, but Xiaofang had already made up her mind to divorce me. I was at a loss for what to do, and it occurred to me that maybe Wang Li could help me speak. So I called Wang Li to tell her about the seriousness of the matter and asked her to help save Xiaofang.
"Xiaofang, hello, I'm Zhang Xiaoming's friend Wang Li. Wang Li said to Xiaofang very calmly, "The cause of the matter is me, Zhang Xiaoming, who I pursued first, should not interfere in your marriage, I feel deeply guilty, I ask you to forgive Zhang Xiaoming this time." ”
Unexpectedly, after listening to Wang Li's words, Xiaofang's attitude softened: "Wang Li, you don't need to blame yourself, it's not your responsibility alone." I know Zhang Xiaoming as a person, and it is only a matter of time before he changes his mind. ”
Through Wang Li's persuasion, Xiaofang finally agreed not to divorce first, but proposed that we must go to marriage counseling. I was relieved and hurriedly agreed.
During the first session, the marriage counselor learned about our problem and said, "It's normal to be emotionally apathetic, it's important to be understanding, tolerant and trusting of each other. I can see that you both love each other and can regain your happiness. ”
Listening to the marriage counselor's words, Xiaofang and I both had red eyes. Xiaofang shook my hand and said, "I'm sorry, I've been too socially focused on your feelings over the years. ”
"We all have a responsibility. Xiaofang sighed, "From today onwards, let's start again and manage our marriage well." ”
I nodded, filled with emotion and determination.
After returning home, I took the initiative to say to Xiaofang: "Xiaofang, I swear that I will only love you alone in the future and never contact Wang Li again." ”
"Well, I believe you. Xiaofang said with a smile.
In order to reassure Xiaofang, I immediately sent a breakup text message to Wang Li in front of her, and then blocked her contact information. I know Wang Li will be sad, but it is my responsibility to keep the marriage.
Next, I began to take the initiative to accompany Xiaofang, and would go home directly after work, instead of making excuses to return late. Xiaofang no longer forced me to participate in social gatherings, but stayed at home to cook, watch TV, and chat with me.
"Mom, why did you and Dad suddenly become so affectionate?" One day Xiaohong suddenly asked us.
"We're back in love. I smiled and said to Xiaohong, and Xiaofang smiled sweetly.
I began to take the initiative to understand Xiaofang's preferences, and I would buy her favorite clothes and cosmetics as gifts; Xiaofang also learned the dishes I like and often cooks them for me. We are like a young couple in love for the first time, rekindled our passion.
"Honey, shall we go to the movies?" One day I invited Xiaofang.
"Well, we haven't had a movie date in a long time!" Xiaofang said happily.
We went to the cinema hand in hand and chose a light-hearted and funny romance. While watching the movie, Xiaofang leaned on my shoulder, and I gently put my hand on her shoulder, just as sweet as when we first fell in love.
On the way home, Xiaofang suddenly said, "My dear, thank you for being willing to give our marriage a chance again." ”
"No, you gave me a chance. I said gratefully.
"I love you. Xiaofang took the initiative to kiss me.
"I love you too. I kissed her back affectionately.
We decided to have a regular appointment every week, and even just going for a walk in the park would feel romantic. Through hard work, my marriage with Xiaofang has finally regained its sweetness.
I never contacted Wang Li again, and occasionally remembered our bits and pieces, but I knew that I had made the right choice.
I was shocked and stammered, "Y-Are you sure the child is mine?"
"Sure, I've done the test, and you're the biological father of the child. Wang Li said calmly.
My mind went blank and I didn't know what to do. Seeing that I didn't speak for a long time, Wang Li continued: "I won't affect your life, I just want you to know this fact." I will raise the child alone, you don't need any responsibility. ”
"Wait, Wang Li, we need to talk about such an important matter in person. I said hurriedly.
"Okay, let's talk about it later. Wang Li said.
"Wang Li, what are you going to do? I asked nervously.
"I will give birth to the child, he is our flesh and blood after all. Wang Li said.
"Then I have to take responsibility and will bear half of the child's maintenance costs. I said firmly.
Wang Li shook her head: "No, I have the ability to raise it alone." You just need to keep this secret and don't let Xiaofang know. ”
I was in a dilemma, I had to be responsible for Wang Li and the child, and I had to hide it from Xiaofang. I tugged at my hair in pain, not knowing what to do next.
"No!" I interrupted her loudly, "No matter what, this child is also my flesh and blood, and I must not give up on him." ”
"Then what are you going to do? divorce Xiaofang?" Wang Li asked.
"No, I can't break Xiaofang's heart anymore. I lowered my head and said, "I will find a way to hide it from her, and give you living expenses regularly, please give birth to this child!"
Wang Li nodded and promised to give birth to the child. I was very relieved, and I made up my mind that no matter what the cost, I would fulfill my father's responsibilities to this flesh and blood.
The days that followed were very hard for me. During the day, I was still the good husband who loved Xiao Fangnong very much, and at night I secretly visited Wang Li to provide her with financial support.