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Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

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Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(Lu Zuli)

From the 60s to the 80s of the last century, Ma Guoguang was a well-known baritone singer, singing a series of familiar songs such as "It's Really Happy to Die", "All the Way to March", "Four Crossings of Chishui and Surprise Soldiers", "Me and the Squad Leader", "The Fighting Post is Home", "The Song of Karamay" and a series of familiar songs, which are popular with fans.

Ma Guoguang's wife, Lu Zuli, graduated from the China Conservatory of Music and is an actor in the Comrades-in-Arms Art Troupe of the Beijing Military Region.

On November 21, 1989, Ma Guoguang died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage. Later, Lu Zuli's eldest daughter Ma Langlang died unexpectedly, and his younger brother also died of cancer. Lu Zuli lost 3 beloved relatives and fell into great grief, what happened to her now?

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Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(Lu Zuli (back left) as a child and his family)

Lu Zuli was born in Chongqing in 1939, his mother was a doctor, his father was an engineer, and his family was well-off since he was a child. Lu Zuli has 5 brothers and sisters, and she is the third.

Lu Zuli in her girlhood is bright-eyed and versatile, and has Xi vocal music since elementary school. Her cousin-in-law is the famous poet Li Ji, who wrote the long narrative poem "Wang Gui and Li Xiangxiang", which has been selected into middle school Chinese textbooks.

In 1955, Lu Zuli came to Beijing from Chongqing to apply for the China Conservatory of Music and lived in the house of his cousin-in-law Li Ji.

Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(Li Ji (August 16, 1922 – March 8, 1980))

In 1956, the first National Music Week was held in Beijing, and the relevant departments gave Li Ji a ticket. Because Li Ji was going to Beidaihe to recuperate, he gave this ticket to Lu Zuli, who loves literature and art.

Lu Zuli sat in the private room of the Tianqiao Theater in Beijing to watch the performance, and was fascinated by the singer Ma Guoguang's beautiful singing voice and posture.

Ma Guoguang sang the famous song "It's Really Happy to Die". Dressed in a military uniform and a boat-shaped hat, he sang to the accompaniment of the accordion that a little soldier signed up for the army, and did not have two completely different moods after becoming a PLA and becoming a PLA player.

Ma Guoguang's performance was lively and humorous, vivid and lovely, and the applause of the audience never stopped, and Lu Zuli slapped his palms red. At this time, Lu Zuli didn't know Ma Guoguang, but his singing voice and handsome figure were engraved in her mind.

Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(Ma Guoguang sang "It's a Happy Death" in 1956, accordion accompaniment Shan Yuanchang)

Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

As a 17-year-old girl, although Lu Zuli likes Ma Guoguang, she will not rush to contact him. Moreover, Ma Guoguang was already famous at that time, and Lu Zuli didn't know if he was in love or married.

In 1957, Lu Zuli was admitted to the Singing Department of the China Conservatory of Music. Once, she went to the boiler room with a thermos to turn on the water, and unexpectedly noticed a familiar figure flashing in front of the window.

Lu Zuli chased out to take a look and found that the other party was Ma Guoguang. The pungent Lu Zuli boldly greeted him: I have seen your performance, it is very remarkable, why are you here?

Ma Guoguang replied truthfully: I came here to study. Lu Zuli smiled: Then we will become alumni. The two had a great chat.

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Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(The first photo of Ma Guoguang's life)

Ma Guoguang, originally from Liaoning, was born in Beijing in 1932, 7 years older than Lu Zuli. Ma Guoguang's father, Ma Dingchen, is Zhang Xueliang's adjutant, he is handsome and tall, but he is a playboy.

Ma Guoguang's mother's name is Huang Huazhen, a native of Beijing, who gave birth to Ma Guoguang at the age of 18.

In 1938, Ma Dingchen had an extramarital affair, forced Huang Huazhen to divorce, and took his son Ma Guoguang away. After his parents divorced, Ma Guoguang never saw his mother again, and he spent decades in thoughts and tears.

Ma Dingchen remarried after the divorce, and the family lived in Shijiazhuang. At that time, Zhang Xueliang's subordinates were all dismissed, and Ma Dingchen had no source of income, and often drank alcohol and lost his temper at home. He didn't dare to quarrel with his remarried wife, so he was angry with his son Ma Guoguang.

As long as he sees that his son is not pleasing to the eye, or if his son makes a small mistake, he catches Ma Guoguang and beats him violently.

Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(Young Ma Kwok-kwong)

In 1941, Ma Guoguang, who had just turned 9, secretly ran away from home and became a homeless orphan. His clothes and hair were dirty, he slept in a garbage can at night, he also took care of children for the Japanese, served as a soldier for the Kuomintang platoon commander, and brushed shoulders with death several times.

After the liberation of the country, Ma Guoguang joined the People's Liberation Army and was arranged to be a singer and actor in the Comrades-in-Arms Art Troupe of the Beijing Military Region.

Many teachers and students of the China Conservatory of Music know that Ma Guoguang had a rough background and is a singer who grew up as a homeless orphan, and they sympathize with and respect him very much.

Lu Zuli originally admired Ma Guoguang, and when he learned of his life with blood and tears, he felt sorry. She took the initiative to approach Ma Guoguang and asked him for knowledge about vocal music.

Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(Ma Guoguang and Lu Zuli)

Ma Guoguang was late for singing, so Lu Zuli cooked for him. The two fell in love in 1961.

In 1963, Lu Zuli graduated from the Singing Department of the China Conservatory of Music (then called the Beijing Academy of Arts). She was trained by the Haizheng Song and Dance Troupe, and was supposed to go to the Haizheng Song and Dance Troupe, but in order to be with Ma Guoguang, Lu Zuli chose to enter the Beijing Military Region Comrades-in-Arms Art Troupe.

In 1965, Lu Zuli and Ma Guoguang got married, and the unit gave them a one-bedroom apartment. After marriage, Lu Zuli gave birth to two daughters in a row, the eldest daughter is called Ma Langlang, and the younger daughter is called Ma Lanlan.

Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

Ma Guoguang in the 60s was the most popular, and he led the singing of "Four Crossings of Chishui and Surprise Soldiers" in the large-scale music and dance epic "Long March Songs", with red borders and rivers north and south.

Ma Guoguang also sang many popular songs such as "Two Guys Are Generally High", "A Pot of Water", "Me and the Squad Leader", "The Fighting Post is Home" and many other popular songs.

Lu Zuli is also a backbone actor in the troupe, and participated in the performance of the large-scale dance epic "Dongfang Hong".

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In 1967, Lu Zuli's mother was branded as a reactionary academic authority and hanged herself in grief. When the bad news came, Lu Zuli was grief-stricken. At that time, her mother was in her early 50s, and Lu Zuli rarely went back to Chongqing to visit her mother in recent years, and she felt that she owed her mother too much.

Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(Lu Zuli's military uniform photo)

For a long time, Lu Zuli was immersed in the grief of losing his mother. Ma Guoguang often talks about his bumpy life experience to enlighten his wife. He also took care of Lu Zuli spiritually and in life, and took good care of his two daughters.

Two years later, Lu Zuli gradually walked out of the grief of losing his mother.

Ma Guoguang has been wandering since he was a child, and his psychological trauma is too deep, he often has nightmares at night, and wakes up from nightmares and sweats profusely.

He lacked maternal love since he was a child, and he was particularly eager for maternal love, so Lu Zuli took care of his husband as a son. When she sleeps at night, she lets her husband sleep in the crook of her arm, only in this way can Ma Guoguang sleep soundly.

Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(Lu Zuli and Ma Guoguang)

Ma Guoguang went to perform in other places, and if he slept alone in the guest house, he would not be able to sleep all night. Lu Zuli often said: I have two daughters and a son, and the son is my husband Ma Guoguang.

When Lu Zuli said this, his tone was full of pity, without a trace of boredom.

Ma Guoguang has been wandering since he was a child, hungry and full, and his physical fitness is very poor. In the 70s of the last century, he was just in his early 40s when he suffered from heart disease and diabetes.

After entering the 80s, Ma Guoguang's condition deteriorated rapidly, his blood pressure remained at 140/200 all year round, sometimes the high pressure reached more than 210, and his fasting blood sugar was often above 12 points.

Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(Photo of Ma Guoguang's performance)

For a singer of Ma Guoguang's level, he can not participate in some performances in the unit, but Ma Guoguang is grateful to the party and the unit, and he is reluctant to give up every performance, and often sings five or six songs.

Ma Guoguang was in good spirits on stage, but when he got home, he couldn't even climb 4 floors. Lu Zuli had to help her husband up step by step, and Ma Guoguang had to rest 3 times in the middle.

As soon as he entered the house, Ma Guoguang said that he wanted to eat noodles, and Lu Zuli went to the kitchen to make them for him. When the noodles were ready, he couldn't eat a bite and just wanted to lie on the bed. Lu Zuli sat on the edge of her husband's bed, tears welling up in her eyes.

Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(Ma Guoguangxia Company's condolence performance)

In 1982, Ma Guoguang came home from a performance, and as soon as he entered the door, beads of sweat the size of soybeans appeared on his forehead, his face was pale, and he opened his mouth wide and gasped.

Lu Zuli helped her husband to the sofa and quickly called the doctor to come to the house for first aid.

The doctor gave Ma Guoguang an intravenous drip, performed cardiopulmonary resuscitation, and rescued him for more than an hour before he turned his life.

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But only a week later, Ma Guoguang will go to Shijiazhuang to give a condolence performance. Lu Zuli did not allow her husband to go, the couple had a small friction, and the two daughters also persuaded Ma Guoguang, but they could not convince him.

Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(Lu Zuli)

As a result, during the performance, Ma Guoguang suffered from massive bleeding in his nasal artery and fell into a deep coma, requiring blood transfusion for first aid. When the soldiers learned about it, they lined up to go to the entrance of the hospital to give Ma Guoguang a blood transfusion. Seeing this scene, Lu Zuli cried uncontrollably.

Due to cerebral thrombosis compressing nerves, Ma Guoguang's two calf muscles atrophied, plus two plus signs of diabetes, he could not sing standing during the performance, so he sat and sang.

With the reform of the tax system, the tax on the personal income of actors has been put on the agenda. The Beijing Shijingshan District Taxation Bureau issued a notice to some actors of the Beijing Military Region's Comrades-in-Arms Art Troupe to truthfully declare their income and pay taxes in accordance with the law.

Ma Guoguang was hospitalized in the hospital, Lu Zuli took care of her husband, and after being discharged from the hospital, Lu Zuli accompanied her husband to the Shijingshan Taxation Bureau to declare and pay taxes. "Beijing Evening News" published an article "Ma Guoguang and Other Actors Take the Initiative to Pay Taxes" for this reason.

Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(Ma Guoguang reunites with his mother)

When he went to perform in Jinzhou, Liaoning Province in 1983, with the assistance of the local Public Security Bureau, the Sports Commission and other units, he found his mother Huang Huazhen, who had been separated for more than 40 years.

At the moment of meeting, the mother and son hugged each other and burst into tears.

Lu Zuli took her two daughters and her husband to Jinzhou several times to visit her mother-in-law, and she followed her husband to call her mother-in-law "Mom".

Huang Huazhen has long since remarried and has children. My mother-in-law has been away from Beijing for decades, and I want to come and see, Lu Zuli and her husband took my mother-in-law to Beijing to live for a while.

After finding his mother, Ma Guoguang often sent living expenses to his mother, and sometimes when he went out to perform, Lu Zuli went to the post office on behalf of her husband to send it.

Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(Ma Guoguang)

On November 21, 1989, Ma Guoguang died of cerebral hemorrhage in Beijing at the age of 57.

Before leaving, he told Lu Zuli: My mother is not easy, you have to treat her well after I leave.

Lu Zuli grabbed her husband's hand and nodded tearfully. Lu Zuli lost her husband at the age of 50, her heart was torn, she couldn't get out of the shadow of widowhood for a long time, and she cried when she thought of her husband.

The two daughters are adults, warm Lu Zuli with family affection, and colleagues also give her love, and Lu Zuli's mental state is gradually improving.

Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(Lu Zuli)

At this time, Lu Zuli served as the deputy captain of the singing team of the Beijing Military Region Comrades-in-Arms Art Troupe, and often had to perform in the company, and she missed her husband with her strength and hard work.

After her husband left, Lu Zuli still insisted on sending living expenses to her mother-in-law until the old man died.

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Lu Zuli is tall, dignified and delicate, and he is still graceful after middle age. After her husband left, some well-wishers introduced her to a partner, and some people of the opposite sex took the initiative to pursue her.

But Lu Zuli only had her husband in her heart, and she couldn't make room for other men, so she refused them all.

Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(Lu Zuli)

Her eldest daughter Ma Langlang also has a good singing voice, is an actor in a literary group in Beijing, and released many solo albums such as "Ice and Fire" in the 80s.

In the 90s of the last century, Lu Zuli's two daughters got married and became mothers. The eldest daughter's family settled in Beijing, and the youngest daughter, Ma Lanlan, went to the United States to study, and got married there and started a family.

In 2016, Ma Langlang unfortunately passed away in a car accident in Beijing. The loss of his daughter in his later years threw Lu Zuli into the abyss of grief.

In 2019, Lu Zuli's younger brother passed away due to cancer. Lu Zuli has a deep relationship with his younger brother, and he can't bear it psychologically.

Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(Lu Zuli)

In the past few decades, Lu Zuli has lost her husband, beloved daughter, and younger brother, and has experienced one blow after another emotionally, and the tearing pain in her heart can only be experienced by herself.

Ma Lanlan took her mother to the United States to relax, hoping that her mother could retire there. But Lu Zuli insisted on returning to China to support the elderly, because her relatives and friends were in China, she adapted to life in China, and could not find a sense of belonging in the United States.

In order not to worry his daughter, Lu Zuli was very strong in his later years. She practiced calligraphy, listened to music, raised flowers, and cooked food at home. She also knits all kinds of handbags and napkin boxes for herself.

Lu Zuli is also enthusiastic about public welfare activities, often going to primary and secondary schools and colleges and universities to serve as a counselor for choirs, rehearsing "Long March Songs" with old colleagues, and going to various places to perform on a voluntary basis.

Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(Lu Zuli was interviewed by the media)

In order to miss her husband, Lu Zuli created a 280,000-word long book "Piercing the Blue Sky and Not Broken" after 10 years of hard work, which was published by Blue Sky Publishing House.

The main content of the book is to tell the legendary life of Ma Guoguang, and many readers were moved to tears after reading it.

In December 2023, Lu Zuli will be 84 years old, and he often participates in the performances of the Old Comrades-in-Arms Choir Art Troupe. She stood on the stage for 60 minutes, full of energy, not at all like an old man.

The youngest daughter's family settled in the United States, and Lu Zuli retired alone in Beijing. She is very capable, very strong, and knows that it is not easy for her daughter to work hard abroad, so she tries not to burden her daughter.

Lu Zuli, the widow of singer Ma Guoguang: After her husband died of illness, she lost her daughter and younger brother

(Lu Zuli's recent photo)

Lu Zuli has a good mentality, likes sports, at the age of 84, she is in good spirits, has a good complexion, and looks younger than her actual age.

Now Ma Guoguang has passed away for 34 years, but Lu Zuli still loves her husband in her heart, and she still remembers many warm memories in her marriage.

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