Another star in the Taiwan entertainment industry announced his divorce. Zhang Zhaozhi, who is nearly 50 years old, announced his divorce from his wife, who is 12 years younger, because he didn't want to have children.
Zhang Zhaozhi was born in Taiwan, China in 1974, is a well-known variety show in Taiwan Province, although he is also a host and actor, but for mainland audiences, he should be more impressed by being a guest on "Kangxi is Coming", he has a fashion stalk, loves imitation and performance, so he has a profound impact on many Kangxi audiences.
Although Zhang Zhaozhi is an artist, he himself is also a proper half-player, he only got married at the age of 39, and he returned to his family when he was adrift enough in middle age, and his wife Xu Yunle was only 27 years old when she got married. It can't be said to be a complete love between old and young, but at least the age difference can be clearly seen when it is in the same frame, as if there is a difference in generation.
It stands to reason that people who have had enough fun in middle age and start a family should live a good life, but Zhang Zhaozhi still ended up divorced after ten years of marriage. The reason is even more surprising. Zhang Zhaozhi himself released a long article announcing his divorce, and the words were full of powerlessness.
Zhang Zhaozhi said that the two broke up peacefully, and unlike other celebrities who divorced with a "difficult personality" as a reason, Zhang Zhaozhi directly expressed his embarrassment.
He said that after marriage, the woman had the idea of wanting a child, and he also respected the woman very much, and wanted to work together to fulfill this wish, but he never couldn't lift it, and he couldn't find the motivation to be a father. It can be seen that he tried his best to lower this reason, but it is obvious that it is not a little regret for the woman, but a big regret, so he chose to divorce.
Zhang Zhaozhi finally said: "From 27 to 37 years old, when it comes to the threshold of fertility restrictions on women's age, our blueprint has not changed for people other than ourselves. ”
It can be seen that he may indeed be powerless, and he also thinks that the other party should give up giving up childbirth when he reaches the age of advanced maternal age, but there is no change at all, the other party has not changed for him, and he has no intention of changing for the other party. But it consumes the best time for the other party's childbearing age, and 37 years old is already an advanced maternal age.
So Zhang Zhaozhi's comment area quickly overturned, and many netizens hit the nail on the head and complained, bluntly saying that he downplayed the reasons for the divorce, in fact, he loved himself more than his lover, and talked about responsibilities and obligations more freely and casually. If you really love each other, you should let go as soon as possible, instead of letting the other party face the pain of pregnancy when she is almost 40 years old.
Although Zhang Zhaozhi repeatedly emphasized that there was no quarrel in the divorce, and even said that the divorce was handled hand in hand, the two still love each other, and they love each other more than before, but in the face of the fact that the reason for the divorce is even more ironic.
Finally, I hope that all people who want to have children will reach a consensus with another partner when they enter marriage, if they don't reach a consensus at the beginning, they should still communicate rationally, after all, if they miss the time, it will be difficult to start over in life.