Mr. Chen, a party to the "16 years of marriage and 3 babies who are not biological" case, received a court summons on December 20, and the civil dispute case between him and his wife Yu and the "third party" Wu will be tried in the People's Court of Dexing City, Jiangxi Province on December 28. The court day was their 16th wedding anniversary.
Mr. Chen told reporters that he would attend the trial. At present, he is still unsure who the child's biological father is. After the trial, there will be "major case facts" announced.
Married for 16 years, "none of the three daughters are biological"
China News Weekly reported that Mr. Chen, 46, is a native of Dexing City, Shangrao, Jiangxi Province. At the beginning of 2007, while working in Hangzhou, he met his wife Yu in the same town through a matchmaker.
recalled that when I first met Yu, she didn't play cards, didn't wear makeup, and was "a woman who looked honest and dutiful", and the two began to date.
"She went to me every month for about half a month." At the end of 2007, Yu became pregnant. With the consent of both parents, they quickly obtained the certificate. In August of the following year, the eldest daughter was born.
With a wife and daughter, Mr. Chen, who thinks he has more responsibilities, got an A1 driver's license and drove a big truck to make money to support his family. He has been on a business trip for a long time, and he handed over all the money he earned to his wife, and only kept his living expenses, and his married life was stable and happy. In March 2011, the second daughter was born. In October 2018, he had a little daughter.
Mr. Chan also offered his wife to go out to work with him, but his wife always said that she would have to take care of the children at home.
One day in October 2021, at around 7 p.m., Mr. Chen called home, and his wife said that he wanted to take the children to bed.
Through home surveillance, Mr. Chen found that the child was not at home at all. At the end of the same year, "similar inconsistencies recurred."
On the evening of March 1, 2022, Mr. Chen's phone call was once again rejected by his wife, and he found out that his wife was in a hotel in Quzhou, Zhejiang Province through positioning. "I squatted outside the hotel for the night."
At 9 a.m. the next day, Mr. Chen saw his wife Yu and Wu, a man who was working with him, walking out of the hotel, "only one room card was returned." She also defended that they were not together last night because something was stolen from the construction site and they wanted to investigate".
But from this time on, there was a rift in the relationship between the two, and Mr. Chen became suspicious of his youngest daughter's background, and in April 2022, Mr. Chen did a DNA test for his youngest daughter. It turned out that he was indeed not the biological father of his youngest daughter.
Mr. Chen looked at the child and his heart was like a knife. He asked his wife, "Who is the father of the child?" Why did he hide it for so long? But the wife hid and just didn't say anything.
In April last year, Mr. Chen went to ask his mother-in-law, and when an argument broke out, his mother-in-law was injured and his wife called the police. After compensating for his losses, Mr. Chan was released on bail pending trial. His wife told him that in the event of a divorce, she would take her eldest and younger daughters and leave her second daughter to him.
This made Mr. Chen's heart explode. He had his other two daughters DNA tested.
On May 12 last year, Mr. Chen got two appraisal results, "The three daughters are not my own."
His wife scolded him: "Is blood relationship so important?"
Mr. Chen was in great pain and had a complete showdown with his wife. After that, the child was sent to the home of his parents-in-law, and he has not seen his three children since.
At the end of May last year, his wife and Wu bought fireworks and tied them together, rang them 36 times, ignited them with mosquito coils, and threw them at Mr. Chen's parents' house.
Mr. Chen told reporters that his father, who was 80 years old, had a heart attack after being frightened by the explosion and had never recovered.
Later, his wife disappeared suddenly, and his mother-in-law did not know the whereabouts of her daughter, so Mr. Chen, who was helpless, found a local TV station and told his story, hoping to get his wife to come forward and explain the marital status of the two clearly. As soon as the news was broadcast, it attracted widespread attention.
The reporter called Mr. Chen's wife. Unexpectedly, she said: "Since he doesn't think the child is his, then it's not, I wish the child wasn't his." The child has called his father for more than ten years, and he can do this kind of thing, so what's the difference between that and a brute? I don't think I'm cheating, isn't the blood relationship so important? If someone else can't afford to give birth, don't you just hug it?"
Although Mr. Chen is known as the saddest man in 2022, he told reporters that after raising him for so long, the child is innocent, and he hopes that everyone will not attack the child. It's just that the eldest daughter said in an interview that she hated him, and the second daughter didn't want to pay attention to him. "I still have children in my heart, but children don't have me in their hearts, and I don't know who taught them. They ignored me and denied me."
"I hope she respects the law and dares to go to court"
In order to solve the problem in the past two years, Mr. Chen has owed 160,000 yuan, including the previous house, and 200,000 yuan has not been repaid, and now he owes a total of 360,000 yuan.
On December 23, Mr. Chen posted a video on his social account, saying that although he sued the other party, the case was also a trial of himself, "because he disgraced his parents." In the past, no matter how hard and tired he was, working hard to make money for the sake of his children and family was the happiest thing for him, but now the once good memories have become a big dream.
Mr. Chen said that in August this year, he appointed a lawyer in Beijing to represent him in his case. The trial on the 28th will last one day, with a divorce dispute between him and his wife in the morning and a separate case on his personality rights to a "third party" in the afternoon.
Mr. Chen's lawyer, Yang Anming, executive director of Beijing Zhongzhen Law Firm, said that the trial will mainly focus on the return of property and compensation for moral damages.
Now, Mr. Chen has started a live broadcast. He said that the purpose of the live broadcast is to arouse the attention of public opinion, promote the resolution of the incident as soon as possible, and let those who do not speak of morality be punished as they deserve.
The live broadcast came to his hands for a month, and the average monthly was more than 1,000 yuan, and most of them were sent out in the live broadcast room.
According to Bailu Video, during Mr. Chen's live broadcast on the 25th, some netizens said that he didn't find that the child didn't look like him, because his wife disguised herself too well and trusted her too much. The eldest daughter looks like a wife, and she does not suspect that the child is not biological, but always thinks that the child may be like an uncle, aunt or other relatives in the family. He didn't know if the biological father of the three children was the same, and he didn't know who it was.
"Everyone said that I was unassertive, temperless, very cowardly, had problems with my personality and personality, and even had physical problems, which led to her continuous betrayal of her marriage. Mr. Chen said that no matter what he says, it is difficult to change everyone's perception of him.
Mr. Chen said that his wife was pregnant before receiving the license, "I really didn't think much about it, after all, we have been together for a while." She doesn't even have her own social circle other than me. A woman who gave her heart and soul to me, I have nothing but gratitude. I didn't expect it to be just a pick-up man under her calculations", "I hope this time she respects the law and bravely goes to court with me".
According to Poster News, Mr. Chen insisted on pursuing criminal responsibility first and then divorcing. "Even if I can only let them go to prison for half a year, I will pursue her to the end and never forgive her. ”
A lawyer said that the fact that the three children were not biological confirmed that the woman was seriously at fault, not only violating the duty of loyalty, but also violating public order and good customs, and even subverting normal values, causing devastating damage to the marital relationship. However, for the crime of bigamy to be determined, it is necessary for the woman to obtain a marriage certificate with someone else during her marriage to Mr. Chen, or to form a de facto marriage in which she has lived together for a long time.
"I'm reluctant. Mr. Chen said that he wants to use legal means to protect his rights and interests, and also hopes that the child's biological father can stand up and assume the responsibility that should be assumed.
Regarding the "major case" mentioned in the video, Mr. Chen said that the content could not be made public before the trial. When the dust settles, he will try to come out and start a new life.
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