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After a few years of marriage, many daughters-in-law will feel that they have married the wrong person, if they give themselves another chance to choose, they will definitely not choose the current mother-in-law's family, although the husband is very good to him, but he is also affected by his mother-in-law, in this life, in the next life, in the next life, he may not want to meet again.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along with each other, mother-in-law doesn't say these 4 words, and the daughter-in-law marries the right person

The daughter-in-law was married naked, there is no bride price for a penny, the mother-in-law family should be grateful, grateful, not looked down on, don't care if you look at it or not, the daughter-in-law is your son's choice, as long as he agrees, it is also their little couple who live, mother-in-law don't stare at it and be anxious, except to make herself more angry, it is useless.

Mother-in-law is an elder, there is a lot of tolerance, daughter-in-law is a junior, say the wrong thing, do the wrong thing is inevitable, mother-in-law do not blindly educate, more favoritism to the daughter-in-law, life in old age will be much better, not for the sake of the present, but also for the future.

The daughter-in-law who is willing to choose to marry naked is either sensible, kind and soft-hearted, or loves your son, no matter which one it is, this daughter-in-law is a very simple and heartless person, and she is also relatively "stupid." ”

Mother-in-law should be better to her daughter-in-law, don't be like a daughter-in-law, just come to the house as a guest, keep some sense of distance, don't say anything, don't tell relatives and neighbors that the daughter-in-law is in a hurry to marry, I didn't want to at the beginning, or my son has the ability, there is a profit, I didn't spend a penny, I got cheap and sold good fruit, over time the daughter-in-law can also see the true face of the mother-in-law, from the beginning of the shouting "mother" to the end do not want to see your face, are caused by the mother-in-law herself.

People must be self-aware, it is useless to be elders, and elders can't do whatever they want, good people let themselves be, bad people are all daughters-in-law, obviously their own behavior makes the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law discordant, and finally says that daughter-in-law is two faces, mother-in-law should reflect, don't completely break the daughter-in-law's heart.

There is no contradiction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, after the daughter-in-law gives birth to a child, because of the differences with the child, there will be a lot of uncontrollable contradictions, two generations to take care of a newborn must have a generation gap, so the contradiction is too I have generated, the result is self-evident, the public says that the public is reasonable, the mother says that the mother-in-law is reasonable, no one takes a step back, even if the face is soft, behind the scenes is still consistent operation, and the spirit must not admit defeat.

Some mothers-in-law can't see their sons' hard work, this kind of mother-in-law is very diligent and capable, and will do her best to help her son, grandson, not daughter-in-law, and can't wait to help her son live together, you must know that the more you do, the more you make mistakes, the mother-in-law is so capable, and she is too involved in the family of the young couple, and the daughter-in-law must have complaints in her heart, and everyone wants to live behind closed doors and not let outsiders disturb.

After the daughter-in-law gives birth, if the mother-in-law does not help take care of the child, there is basically no way to go to work, if the mother-in-law is still very strong, the daughter-in-law and I will not go to work when I have the opportunity, I am worried about the child, and I am worried that I will be taught a lot of language that is not conducive to the relationship between mother and child.

But where the mother-in-law is reliable, the daughter-in-law has already gone to work, no need to urge the mother-in-law, full-time mothers with children are really tired, meet a noisy child can't sleep all night, and it is not easy to go to work for too long after being separated from society, and it is not easy to find a job that picks up and drops off children to and from school, and it is easy to ask for leave.

The mother-in-law should not talk about her daughter-in-law at this time, she should love her, care about her, give her encouragement, and bravely stand up to be her backing, instead of sneering and saying that the child is easy and let the daughter-in-law suffer the hardships she has suffered.

Mother-in-law must remember that the in-laws should be respected and respected, instead of looking down on the left and right, looking down on the horizontally and vertically, something happened to the in-laws, and the family gloated and ridiculed the daughter-in-law, and secretly took it out to discuss and discuss if there was anything to do, which is a harm to the daughter-in-law.

A sensible mother-in-law can distinguish what is in front of her, only say one thing in one thing, not say anything else, and also understand that the daughter-in-law and her mother's family themselves can't say it, in addition to praise or praise when meeting people, they must not expose the shortcomings, a good mother-in-law will maintain the people around her, bury the bad things in her heart, digest them silently, and will not make things bigger.

There is a problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very common, which is also the main cause of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the education concept of the two generations is inconsistent, the mother-in-law sings white face, the daughter-in-law sings red face, and when the daughter-in-law is in charge of the child, the mother-in-law will help the mother-in-law, stand in the same team with the child, and be consistent with the outside.

Mother-in-law must be wrong to help the child without distinguishing between right and wrong, even if the daughter-in-law does wrong, when she educates the child, the mother-in-law has to endure it, don't say in front of the child that the daughter-in-law is wrong and that is wrong, the child is just small, she is not stupid, over time she can feel who is her backer, who can help her, maintain her, don't care about right or wrong, as long as the mother says she in the future, she will go to the grandmother for help, and the grandmother because the child is close to herself, she will double her love and dote, so the contradiction is caused, not the daughter-in-law is jealous and looking for trouble, this is not right, it will make the child gradually unreasonable and become two-faced。

Some mothers-in-law are more interesting, the child is brought up by the daughter-in-law, and she is not very close, and then the way she takes the baby is all kinds of satisfaction, the stars and the moon have to be picked, in her own words is "the child is not with me, I don't buy anything for her, if I don't satisfy her, she doesn't follow me!"

First of all, this concept is wrong, the child does not have anything to do with you and you buy things, you are so spoiled without a bottom line, it will only allow the child to build the relationship between the next generation on a variety of purchases, satisfaction, if you don't do this next time, the child will not want to take care of you, mothers-in-law think about it carefully, is it wrong to do this?

The sense of order that the daughter-in-law finally established for the child was also broken by the mother-in-law, obviously it can't be cold, obviously allergic to eggs, the mother-in-law still doesn't take it seriously, it's okay to take a bite, what are you afraid of?

Words like this, mothers-in-law don't say it, you take the child the whole process, you have the final say, the child is brought by the daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law has the final say, it's as simple as that.

If the mother-in-law does not speak or help the daughter-in-law when the daughter-in-law is educating the child, she will stand with the daughter-in-law, believing that the child's rules will be established soon, and the daughter-in-law will be grateful to the mother-in-law and feel that she is married right.

Write at the end:

As long as the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law want to get along well, there is a way for both sides to take a step back, don't be in a hurry to behave, don't fight to be the backbone of the family, everything is discussed, the mother-in-law as an elder will do her best to protect her daughter-in-law, and she stands on the same side, right and wrong are not so clear, no one can care if there are opinions in the heart, you must work hard to do a good job in face, don't let the other party hold the handle, hold on.

If there is something to solve, don't procrastinate, don't run away, think more about the person you know together, if you really feel sorry for them, be tolerant of each other, and create a good living environment for your children.

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