Ye Tong Zhao Yazhi, the "legend of immortality" at a glimpse
In 1988, it was the beginning of China's reform and opening up. The TV series "The Legend of the New White Lady" was broadcast on CCTV during prime time, and the White Lady and Xu Xian in the film are even more well-known, pushing Ye Tong and Zhao Yazhi, two rookies in the drama industry, to the peak of their prosperous lives.
For many years to come, whenever this classic is mentioned, people will immediately see Ye Tong's sassy green silk and Zhao Yazhi's gentle and moving hair.
But time flies, and time does not wait for others. In the blink of an eye, thirty years have passed, and they have also stepped into the year of the sixtieth year. This reunion is no longer in its prime, but it is still beautiful and moving. Especially Zhao Yazhi, with a smile and a radiant look, as if she had returned to a girl.
When the red face passed away and the packaging peeled off, their life trajectories were so different. Ye Tong has experienced the ups and downs of his marriage, but he still moves forward with his dreams and proves himself with his acting skills and career; And Zhao Yazhi's happy appearance hides anxiety and panic about the passage of her face.
This time, Ye Tong, who is in his sixties, unveiled the "illusion of immortality" that Zhao Yazhi strongly supported under the veil of mystery, giving us a deeper enlightenment. When the snow comes again, what kind of attitude will we take to welcome all the good and lost in life? Maybe it's like a long road, only a long way.
Ye Tong: Superior strength, but it is difficult to hide the sadness of marriage
When it comes to the name Ye Tong, I believe that many people's first association is "powerful actor". Indeed, in just over 20 years of filming, she won the Taiwan Golden Horse Awards and the Hong Kong Film Awards for Best Actress with her excellent acting skills.
There are continuous film appointments and many works, which can be called a well-deserved showbiz diva. However, the hidden taste behind success is not sweet. The former prince-like first love is now a negative man. Soon after marriage, her husband, who was in the wild, lingered all day long.
For Ye Tong, who is emotionally single-minded, this is undoubtedly worse. "I used to believe in the ending of fairy tales, and I also believed that the vows of love would not be easily broken. Life after marriage should be sweet, but if you don't say anything, you are no longer a teenager when you look back."
This is Ye Tong's true confession in the interview.
The partner who could have grown old together, but now he has become a third party in the family. Faced with the heartbroken marital rift, Ye Tong chose silence and tolerance. She did not choose to vent her divorce vigorously, but put more attention on her career.
No one would have thought that the peerless actress would experience such torture and suffering.
At this time, Ye Tong, the gray hair in the mirror day after day, I am afraid that it makes her faintly painful more than any career achievement.
Zhao Yazhi: Happiness is hard to beat the wind and frost of the years
If you use "happy and happy" to describe Zhao Yazhi's marriage, it is not an exaggeration at all. met Huang Jinshen by chance, fell in love at first sight, and finally became a family after 8 years of long-distance love.
Married life is also very affectionate, and the relationship is still sweet and dazzling, which is enviable.
Zhao Yazhi, who has a worry-free life, often shows a bright smile like a spring breeze. She often generously shares interesting stories about her life on social media, looks young, and even her voice is full of vitality.
But the truth behind the mask is not so rosy. 68-year-old Zhao Yazhi relies on layers of decoration and packaging to maintain the external "fairy energy", but if you look closely, the years are not forgiving after all.
The skin that was originally supple has long since lost its elasticity, and the fine lines at the corners of the lips hint at the fact that aging is inescapable.
Sister Zhao seems to be confident in labeling "not old", but deep down she also has anxiety and trepidation. It's just that she chooses to hide this panic with a more positive attitude.
After all, I am most afraid of an empty expression betraying my true thoughts, so I will always maintain a relaxed and happy smile.
However, time has not compromised, and the face will eventually fade. This time, Ye Tong, who is in his sixties, personally uncovered the mysterious appearance of his friend, allowing people to see the hidden fear.
Appearance is no more, attitude first
Reading the experiences of Ye Tong and Zhao Yazhi, you will find that the most fundamental reason for the difference in circumstances between the two of them is not entirely due to the external environment or conditions, but the attitude in the depths of their hearts.
Ye Tong faced all kinds of unsatisfactory and blows in her life, and she chose to be tolerant and actively transform. Therefore, even after experiencing marital trauma, she can still be active on the stage with sunshine on her face.
When the green silk is no longer there, it is replaced by gray hair, and she has no tolerance and naturally reveals.
In contrast, Zhao Yazhi has a happy married life, and her heart is a little inert and dependent. She prefers to live in the "dream of youth" she weaves, and is unwilling to face the fact of aging. Therefore, it is necessary to rely on various beauty methods to package one's appearance.
In fact, immortality is the most illusory dream in the world. We can't stop the traces of time, but we can decide what kind of mentality to use to face it. This time, the 60-year-old Ye Tong gave Zhao Yazhi a precious reminder of life - when the sideburns are gray, only the brilliance that emanates from the heart is the foundation of life.
Wonderful life, only confident laughter to flashy
After this comparison between Ye Tong and Zhao Yazhi, I finally understood the answer. A wonderful life is not an external pursuit, but an inner calmness. Because we can't escape the fate of old age, only by daring to face it head-on can we achieve inner stability.
Ye Tong's inspiration to us is that even if we are no longer young, we can still be alive and energetic. She did not lose her fighting spirit because of dyeing her hair white, but she was able to devote herself to acting and life.
This kind of calmness that can laugh at any situation is the greatest capital of a wonderful life. In contrast, Zhao Yazhi's clever move is not advisable. Because the external decoration is limited after all, it cannot hide the inner fear. She may have temporarily gained the reputation of "the myth of immortality", but she has also taken a sharp turn on the road to losing her youth.
The unchanging eternity will eventually be a castle in the sky. True wisdom is the courage to face the impermanence of life. This time, the sixty-year-old Ye Tong learned our valuable lesson.
epilogue
Youth and face will eventually fade. We can't stop the pace of the passage of time, but we can decide what kind of mood to use to laugh at the impermanence of life.
This time, the 60-year-old Ye Tong gave Zhao Yazhi a precious reminder of life and gave us valuable inspiration - in the face of pale hair, the only way to be calm and cheerful; Only by seeing through the external wind and frost can there be internal polish.
Life is a long road, and each of us is experiencing a transformation of growth. May we learn from Ye Tong's self-confidence and cheerfulness, and learn to face all kinds of ups and downs in life, which is where the wonder of life lies.
Because the road is long, only the lamp in the heart can light up the way forward.