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Ye Tong: After 34 years of marriage, I didn't divorce when I witnessed my husband's "8 degrees", you don't understand her intelligence

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Ye Tong closed his eyes gently, as if he could see the good years when he met and fell in love with Chen Guoxi in the past. At that time, she was still a young girl full of youth and passion, with a passionate pursuit of her dream of modeling, and she was fully engaged in this fantasy industry.

In an advertising selection event full of unexpected surprises, Ye Tong's life path has changed dramatically.

Ye Tong: After 34 years of marriage, I didn't divorce when I witnessed my husband's "8 degrees", you don't understand her intelligence

Ye Tong, who was only 18 years old that year, stood on the brightly lit stage, her silk dress and skirt dancing gently, her smile as warm and energetic as the sun. Chen Guoxi, who was sitting on the judges' bench at this time, was attracted by this girl full of vitality at a glance, and her diligent, studious, enthusiastic and positive personality deeply touched his heart.

Chen Guoxi was working as an assistant to the advertising director at the time, and he immediately became interested in Ye Tong, and began to take the initiative to pay attention to and cultivate this young girl.

Under Chen Guoxi's careful guidance and training, Ye Tong gradually obtained many precious job opportunities, and she was full of gratitude to this teacher. As time passed, a sweet and warm emotion slowly grew in Ye Tong's heart, and she developed a deep love for this older man.

After 8 years of long-distance love, the couple finally entered the palace of marriage. Ye Tong still vividly remembers that it was a sunny day, and the church was filled with the fragrance of Romanian flowers.

Wearing a white wedding dress and a happy smile on her face, she walked across the long red carpet and came to Chen Guoxi, who had been waiting for a long time, and the two made an eternal vow in the blessings of relatives and friends.

In the days after marriage, Ye Tong and her husband supported each other and worked together, and this "intellectual love" became a beautiful landscape in their lives. Ye Tong is full of admiration and gratitude for Chen Guoxi, and regards him as a mentor and friend in his career.

Ye Tong: After 34 years of marriage, I didn't divorce when I witnessed my husband's "8 degrees", you don't understand her intelligence

In her heart, Chen Guoxi is not only her first love, but also the mentor who leads her to success.

At that time, they were so loving and sweet, I really hope that they can be together forever and never separate. Ye Tong often sighed silently in her heart, thanking fate for the arrangement, so that she finally found the person worthy of entrusting her life.

Today, Ye Tong and Chen Guoxi have walked hand in hand for 34 springs, autumns, winters and summers. In the eyes of others, they are still in love and can be called a model of harmony between husband and wife.

However, only Ye Tong herself has an insight that in private she can only silently endure the endless pain caused by her husband's repeated treachery and infidelity.

Ye Tong: After 34 years of marriage, I didn't divorce when I witnessed my husband's "8 degrees", you don't understand her intelligence

In those days, Ye Tong was often captured by the paparazzi at the moment when Chen Guoxi interacted with other women. Among them, what impressed her was the pictures that recorded Chen Guoxi affectionately kissing Anita Mui's agent Wang Minhui on the street.

At that time, this incident aroused great repercussions in all walks of life, and many reporters came one after another, noisily questioning Ye Tong's marital status.

When faced with the reporters' frank and sharp questions, Ye Tong actually showed extraordinary calmness, she just smiled faintly, ignored all suspicions, and left the scene with a smile.

In fact, Chen Guoxi also fell in love with the well-known actress Anya, and the two fell in love and spent a good time. Anya is a dancer with a brilliant temperament, and despite her intoxicating beauty and talent, she still can't restrain Chan's wild and uninhibited heart.

Ye Tong: After 34 years of marriage, I didn't divorce when I witnessed my husband's "8 degrees", you don't understand her intelligence

In a short period of time, Chen Guoxi has extensively expanded his social circle, and has been entangled with various scandals, which has become the focus of everyone's talk.

In the face of such a surging gossip, Ye Tong dealt with it with surprising calmness. Because in her heart, her husband is just disoriented for a while, and his "peach blossom luck" is vigorous, and his cheating behavior is just a momentary impulse and confusion.

Although she is deeply haunted and saddened by her husband's betrayal, she still deeply loves this partner who has gone through ups and downs with her.

Ye Tong recalled that whenever she went out to film, Chen Guoxi frequently frequented major nightclubs and maintained ambiguous relationships with various women. Both journalists and business friends have sought her views and positions.

Ye Tong: After 34 years of marriage, I didn't divorce when I witnessed my husband's "8 degrees", you don't understand her intelligence

However, in the face of these doubts, Ye Tong always patiently waited for her husband to return to the family, and responded to all criticism with a calm and calm attitude.

She is convinced that the two have gone through an 8-year long-distance love run hand in hand, and her husband's cheating behavior is just a temporary search for excitement and novelty, and when he has had enough, he will naturally return to the warm embrace of the family.

As a wise and virtuous helper, Ye Tong fully understands and tolerates her husband Chen Guoxi, and she regards every opportunity to correct his mistakes and become a new person as extremely important.

In the face of her husband Chen Guoxi's constant infidelity, Ye Tong showed a calm attitude with her extraordinary wisdom and broad mind. She was not angry by the endless scandals and her husband's treachery, let alone fell into the abyss of pain, but always maintained an elegant posture and showed herself as a perfect wife. This assertive attitude prevents Chen from finding any topics to attack or justify.

Ye Tong: After 34 years of marriage, I didn't divorce when I witnessed my husband's "8 degrees", you don't understand her intelligence

When the outside world speculated whether the marriage of Ye Tong and his wife would break down, Ye Tong did not hesitate to publicly say that she would not choose divorce. After a long period of perseverance and patient waiting, Chen Guoxi finally realized the kindness and preciousness of his wife Ye Tong, and began to gradually change his indulgent behavior.

So, their relationship is as vibrant as when they were young, they are like a couple who have just fallen in love, walking through the streets, traveling through the landscape, enjoying the return of the two's world, their love is like glue, sweet.

Ye Tong's unique handling method has attracted wide attention and heated discussions from all walks of life. Some people think that she is self-deprecating, submissive, and wronged; However, some praised her for her superior wisdom, seeing that her husband was only temporarily lost, and waited patiently for their reunion.

Indeed, being a sane and sober "fool" is far better than being a wretched wretched worm who weeps and complains. In the face of her husband's lace news over the years, it is far from enough to rely on the word "forbearance", Ye Tong has shown extraordinary courage and wisdom.

Ye Tong: After 34 years of marriage, I didn't divorce when I witnessed my husband's "8 degrees", you don't understand her intelligence

Looking back on the changes in today's entertainment industry and the frequent occurrence of divorces, it is not difficult to find that many couples who were once in love finally chose to part ways after experiencing patience and struggle like Ye Tong.

For example, the high-profile "300 million wedding" of Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying, they used to be sweet and sweet, and their vows were with each other for life, but now they are strangers.

The foundation of marriage lies in the fruit of the intersection of two sincere hearts and the sweat of each other! If you ignore the importance of love as a foundation, even if you were once as blazing as a fire and like brothers, you will eventually be able to escape the test of time, and your boredom will grow day by day, and eventually end in a breakup.

Ye Tong still deeply remembers how painful she felt when she learned the news of Chen Guoxi's reneging on his oath and derailment, as well as the indescribable struggle.

Ye Tong: After 34 years of marriage, I didn't divorce when I witnessed my husband's "8 degrees", you don't understand her intelligence

At first, she only heard some gossip from other people's gossip and didn't pay attention to it. However, as time went on, more and more empirical evidence surfaced, making Ye Tong have to face the cruel reality that her husband was already accompanied by another woman outside of marriage.

In the face of such a heavy blow, Ye Tong could hardly bear it, and he couldn't believe that all this was true. At one point, she questioned the meaning of life, and her heart ached so much that she couldn't breathe. Whether on the set of the movie or at home, her mood is always low and depressed, often crying silently alone, and even in her sleep, she can't stop the tears from falling.

Sometimes, she would sit there quietly, and suddenly she would remember her husband's betrayal, and she would fall into deep remorse and remorse.

For Chen Guoxi, he has always been the pride of Ye Tong's heart and her most solid support. Ye Tong has been studying beside Chen Guoxi since he was 18 years old and is full of admiration for him.

Ye Tong: After 34 years of marriage, I didn't divorce when I witnessed my husband's "8 degrees", you don't understand her intelligence

They went through an 8-year long-distance love run before they finally entered the palace of marriage, and the familiarity and depth of understanding between each other are self-evident. Therefore, when Ye Tong found out about her husband's infidelity, the impact on her heart was undoubtedly extremely huge.

During that time, Ye Tong was immersed in sad emotions all day long, did not think about tea and dinner, and even had a strong urge to commit suicide. Her family and friends were also very worried when they saw her abnormal behavior, and they came to comfort her and encourage her.

However, Ye Tong has always been in contradiction and struggle deep down, she hopes to forgive her husband, but also doubts whether he can really correct his mistakes; She was both eager to save the marriage and afraid of being hurt again.

Ye Tong has witnessed countless tragedies of marriage breakdowns, and knows that divorce is undoubtedly an endless pain and nightmare for both parties. Therefore, she decided to use her courage and wisdom to meet this severe test, rather than easily choosing divorce to escape the problem.

Ye Tong: After 34 years of marriage, I didn't divorce when I witnessed my husband's "8 degrees", you don't understand her intelligence

It is true that Chen Guoxi has caused deep harm to his wife Ye Tong, but no matter what, Ye Tong still loves this partner who used to be with her in the same boat. She is eager for her husband to repent as soon as possible and cherish their hard-won marriage and deep relationship even more.

Therefore, Ye Tong firmly chose to give Chen Guoxi the opportunity to correct his mistakes again and again, silently waiting by his side, patiently waiting for the day when he returned to the family.

In this long process, Ye Tong endured the pain in his heart alone, and gradually learned how to comfort himself and be tolerant and understanding. She warned herself that men often find it difficult to resist temptation, and Chen Guoxi may just be lost in the world of flowers for a while, and when the tired birds know how to return, they will definitely return to the warm family.

As a brilliant woman, Ye Tong understands the importance of accepting and waiting with wisdom, rather than choosing the drastic method of divorce.

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